Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

When a man closes his eyes to get an erection does this mean he is fantasizing about something else? This hasn't happened to me directly (although other things have). But, a friend of mine is torn. Her husband wants her to jerk him off while he hides his face in a pillow and shuts his eyes. Then when he is ready they do the deed without any foreplay for her. And within minutes its over.

She tells me that this is how sex goes 99% of the time. Can anyone shed some light on this matter?

btw, she is a model and has worked for Gap/Banana Republic, she's beautiful.

2007-09-07 10:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by lalalalalala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom dont want me to go on dates or be in any relation with a guy, but i kinda want to cuz a couple guyz asked me out and those guyz are really hot. i need your input!
-angely

2007-09-07 10:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by starrrrrrheart 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend just gave me an ultimatum...she said either she goes or i quit playing basketball...but i i cant quit basketball cuz this guy from a college are thinking of giving me a scholarship for playing.i told her this but she doesnt really care...she says we never talk and when we do i dont seem like im interested... but i play basketball all the time and she never says anything about it...what should i do...should we just break up??

2007-09-07 10:22:19 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy that i dated last year and have loved ever since. we correspond through letters and he told me he still loves me too(hes in georgia at basic training for the army) and im in montana.we have plans to hang out and possibly date again when he returns in 5 weeks. last weekend i kissed one iof his best friends....idont knw if i should tell him or not. and if i do tell him,does he have a right to be mad?

2007-09-07 10:21:49 · 9 answers · asked by babyblooz88 1 in Singles & Dating

Curious question - I've been reading some teen forums and come across students who are interested in pursuing relationships with teachers after leaving their schools.

Would you think it is appropriate for a student and teacher to begin to work on a love relationship after the student has graduated?

I'm asking in the sense that these feelings weren't just a temporary crush, but were more serious, sincere and long-term, indicating a possiblity of real love developing between the two?

What is your opinion?

Thanks, and have a great day!

2007-09-07 10:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by Belle 3 in Singles & Dating

...even your own man.You miss?
and I know there are true saboteurs.

2007-09-07 10:16:34 · 3 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 in Singles & Dating

Curious question - I wandered across a forum of curious teenagers who were greatly impressed with some of their teachers and wanted to pursue a friendship outside of school.

Do you believe that this teacherism or mentorship young ones recieve in high school is a sacred, unchangeable bond, that must remain static and in tact in the same manner even after graduation?

OR

Do you believe that this mentorship can be more of a dynamic and changeable relationship that can metamorphose into a wonderful friendship?

OR

Is there some sort of middle ground that can be found?

What is your opinion?

Thanks for the input, have an awesome day. =)

2007-09-07 10:14:16 · 29 answers · asked by Belle 3 in Friends

i need your help leave me a anwser if u live in either.

2007-09-07 10:09:37 · 2 answers · asked by KaRmA 2 in Friends

Hey! Ok so today ended my first week back to school (I am a sophmore if that counts for anything). But there this guy I really like and I caught him looking at me alot. And I found out him and his girlfriend just broke here rescently. So I had my friend ask him out for me. And he said that he wasn't over his girlfriend yet and maybe after alittle more time goes by we can then. And that kinda hurt me and shocked me! But my question is about his answer did he just say that to get out of it or did he mean it? And what should I say to him now? THANKS!!! :D

2007-09-07 10:08:09 · 52 answers · asked by **JaeAnswers! 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and in 9th grade. I'm on the honor roll and involved in a lot of different activities and clubs after school. This is my third year taking Spanish and I think it would help me a lot if I could actually live in the culture. My parents however think I'm too young and it's too expensive. I think it would be good for my future and my school work. My Spanish teacher thinks it's a great idea and my next door neighbor's friend Carrie thinks it's an excellent idea and that I'm just the right kind of person to do it. I'm going to try and get a job so that I can pay for most of it if not all of it. Only serious answers please, I would really love to do it, I just don't know how to convince my parents to let me.

2007-09-07 10:06:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-07 10:04:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not trying to be mean. But a man needs what a man needs. What can I do??

2007-09-07 10:03:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was your proposal like? How did you or he propose? Did you know it was coming?

2007-09-07 10:02:05 · 15 answers · asked by Benji's Mommy 6 in Weddings

2007-09-07 09:59:47 · 3 answers · asked by TheNewCreationist 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-07 09:59:18 · 53 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands father, *Dan, was an alcoholic since he was 16 years old. I believe *Kathy, my husbands mother, knew this when they got together, which was around that age. They had finally gotten married a few years after my husband was born. In 2000, they had gotten separated and were in the works of getting a divorce. Kathy had moved out and was starting to see other people.
Dan died in 2001 and Kathy had gotten everything, house, life insurance, personal items, etc. She is now living in this house with her new husband and their child.
I was wondering if this was fair. Why should she get everything of his when they were talking about divorce and if he hadn't had died, the divorce would have went through.

2007-09-07 09:59:14 · 17 answers · asked by ♥KottonKandie♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my friend is mad at me because one day i was walking with a girl she hated but i didnt know and we starteed an arguement and i said to her that she is my friend and my friend got mad because i am friends with anybody but she just hates other people and we are all like that. but she doesnt need to start an arguement.......
do you think its my fault and can you tell me if you think she is still mad at me????

2007-09-07 09:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-07 09:54:11 · 22 answers · asked by Marli 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 09:53:29 · 8 answers · asked by junebug 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my partner a while he is a little older than me an a lot more experienced should i be worried he will leave or should i just learn from him because everybody has got to learn something from someone.

2007-09-07 09:53:11 · 18 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years and almost 6 months of our realtionship was long distance and he cheated on me..i thought i would give them the benefit of the doubt so i forgave him..jus recently he has left for college..and we barely talk when i went to visit him at school i was going on his computer..and i seen that he had been talking to alot of girls saying that he wanted to have sex..went into detail..so that night i broke up with him..i didnt give him the real reason why..its just that ive been with him for so long and i thought that he loved me why would he do this or even intend to..and it hurts even more than the first tyme...i keep thinking about him..i love him hes my first everything but its like some things you love..are just better off not in your life..i just feel that im not appreciated and that i deserve better..his sister tells me im wrong and i should take him bak..that would be one of the biggest mistakes ive ever made in my life.

2007-09-07 09:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some tips on breaking up on the phone. I know it's better to do it in person but, that's out of the question at this moment. Please help me! I need to call her at 5:15 today. (it's friday)

2007-09-07 09:50:56 · 5 answers · asked by mexicanonfire 3 in Singles & Dating

and in all except one, they had at least 3 prostitutes ready to go all out for a hundred bucks!

You ladies kill me, cause you are all so goodie goodie, thinking that your man will never cheat on you, and hello, he's done it a few weeks before he just married you!!!

HELLO!!!! sorry, i had to let this out, cause all the dizziness just got to me!! have a great weekend, I'm heading home!

2007-09-07 09:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I haven't seen each other since the day we met which was last thursday.

Right now he's out of work and looking for a place to stay. He isn't calling me as often as he did a few days ago and when I asked him about it he said that he has a lot to do and just doesn't have time.

I asked him if another girl is involved and he said no. I asked him if he still likes me and he said yea. Then I asked him where this is going and he said he has a lot to take care of right now, but he really does like me.

I'm 19 and he's 26, is his reason for not calling because he has no place to stay at the moment a good excuse for him not to be calling as much? He has a cell phone and he sends texts asking me how I am.

2007-09-07 09:47:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy but i just broke up with my bf and this other guy asked me out and i havent answered him yet. i relly relly like the guy but i never see or talk to him cause we r in different grades and tha guy that likes me is in my grade and i have practically every class with him and i dont want to hurt his feelings cuz he is a sweet boy but he just isnt my type.plzzzzzz help me!!!!!!!!

2007-09-07 09:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by FantabulousFail 2 in Singles & Dating

I have eyes that are part green on the bottom and that blend into lighter brown then into dark brown.

2007-09-07 09:45:37 · 19 answers · asked by GBBaronDavis 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past few weeks I have found myself bored out of my mind when I hang out with my gf. I recently started college and am also playing baseball for school.

we have been dating for over 2 years so I am used to being with her am I getting tired of her or am I running out of ideas to do.

I am very athletic and she hates pretty much anything that requires competition.

so I need some help am I just not feeling it anymore or am I doing something else wrong?

2007-09-07 09:45:37 · 29 answers · asked by Corey 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 09:45:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

does weight matter or do you just go after the personallity ????

2007-09-07 09:45:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help!!!!!
I will take amything
What really makes you (guys) like a girl??
I know personality,actions,the way they flirt but i need detals plezzzzzzzz

2007-09-07 09:42:38 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating