Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

i am all ways acting shy in class and never put my self out there! is that ok, and how do i make myself seem like m3?

2007-09-07 08:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by bonnie d 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been set up with a blind date for tomorrow. He is 51 and I am 45. I am so nervous, how can I hide the fact that I am nervous. He is a college professor and I am a hospital medical records coder.

2007-09-07 08:40:27 · 33 answers · asked by debraj622000 2 in Singles & Dating

Haven't they ever heard of karma?

2007-09-07 08:34:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm taking my wife to Hawaii for our first anniversary/honeymoon (since we didnt take one after our wedding)...do I still get her some lavish anniversary gift? Some say yes, it's expected...some say no, Hawaii is enough...

Tell me why or why not...

2007-09-07 08:33:58 · 21 answers · asked by Dave O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have a girlfriend you really love or care about why would you cheat on her? Is it because you get tierd of the same thing every now and then want to be wit someone else for the hell of it but you still want to be with her? Or whats the reason behind unfaithfulness? Sometimes i get the feeling my husband is cheating on me but i dont now how to find out if he is or not. I think he not would cheat on me were happy nothing is wrong in our relationship but then again sometimes he just acts weird and never tells me where he is going. I asked him one day if he was cheating he said why would i do something so stupid if i have everything with you...? So i think he wouldn't but then theres that doubt that i have.

2007-09-07 08:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well as i said dating is not as fun anymore and I want to settle down. truth is i love another man but he decided to get married to another girl, so as many dates i have i can't recreate what is lost. so if you met a nice guy that looks like he would be a very good husband and of course you like him but you don't love him madly, would you proceed to a serious commitment? he's 38 and divorced, no kids. I suppose that gradually I will love him and start a new life and put the past behind.
I mean what's the point of looking for the love of your life if that has already happened?

2007-09-07 08:30:55 · 25 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be X husband asked in divorcefor his last name
and for me to go back to my maiden name, can they do this
I live in Missouri?

2007-09-07 08:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by WiseGal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-07 08:28:08 · 18 answers · asked by angela c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 and waiting until I get married to have sex....is this looked down upon or is it good in American culture? I just moved to America from Holland.

2007-09-07 08:26:54 · 24 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there any online retailer that sells such goods but does not sell pornography or partner with companies which do?

I'm not totally opposed to buying from a manufacturer who may incidentally sell to retail outlets who may also carry pornography - but I do not want to reward any retailer with my money who profits off the pornography trade directly.

Is there any chance there is anything like this out there?

2007-09-07 08:25:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-07 08:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't know that I know. She kept accusing me of sleeping with her ex and I couldn't figure out why cause I wouldn't do that to her. Then I learned that it was because her own guilt. What should I do. It is making me sick to think that she would do that. Am I wrong?

2007-09-07 08:22:41 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a control freak and i dont know how much more of it i can take. I just think he is too unfair. Im very lenient with him i hardly question him about where he is going or what he is doing. We live with his parents and he barley even lets me see my family. He says they know where i live they can come and see me but its not the same being with your family at there house wich used to be my home. He feels he can control every aspect of my life from working to what i wear, to when i can and cant be on the phone. It really gets on my nerves because when i try to tell him to stay home or question him he always tells me not your bussiness i wear the pants in this relationship. I love him so much that ive put up with it but now i feel like i just cant go on. We have a 1 yr old daughter and it breaks my heart the thought of leaving him but i just dont think i can no longer be happy. i told him how i felt and how i hate how he is and he simply says deal with it.

2007-09-07 08:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your preference?

2007-09-07 08:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

I know some girls dress provocative to attract men, but that only attracts the wrong kind of man, and some girls do it to pi.ss off other girls. But seriously, why do you women like to dress with all your bits hanging out and leaving nothing to the imagination? It's not a big turn on for a long term relationship. Most guys I know see a girl dressed like that as a one night stand. Why do you do it?

2007-09-07 08:16:18 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been separated from my wife for almost a year. We've had a rocky marriage over the past 7 years, and we have an eight year old son together. After being separated, I've learned that I've been dealing with depression for a long time now, and realise that it has caused us to grow apart, and for her to be bitter with me. I went to church with her and my son last week, and it was the first time she smiled at me in a long time. Recently she's scoffed at me when I say I want to move back, and has called the police several times due to me becoming verbally explosive.... Finally I'm seeing what a jerk I was, and feeling terribly guilty. With the help of God, I've managed to even stop smoking cigarettes, which I've done for 20 years. If I keep my promises to myself and God not to yell anymore, and not to smoke and/or drink, anyone think she might want me back as a husband, and forgive me for my mistakes?

2007-09-07 08:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-07 08:09:05 · 6 answers · asked by waynemed10 1 in Singles & Dating

And she also makes me extra attracted to her when we beome intimate. She is carry our child and our child came from our love.

I really love her but someone I know told me not to love her too much.

But she says she likes it when I am protective of her.

I do give her enough room to breathe and I am not restricting her. But I do make her eat healthy and stop her from doing to much work.

2007-09-07 08:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tried to ask this question earlier with some added information but everyone got onto the wrong topic. Simply, as a guy do you have friendships with girls for the friendship or are there other motives (sex) behind it. I have been told that guys are only friends with girls to get sex. True or not? Please help.

2007-09-07 08:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know why he would think i'd need to carry a gun? is this slang or am i just totally missing the point?

2007-09-07 08:01:23 · 14 answers · asked by Riddler07 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now. Things seem to be going ok with a few bumps in the road along the way. However, lately, she has been saying I LOVE YOU but not with enthusiasm, including sometimes when she says it on the phone so low I can’t hear her and have to ask what she said. Recently, and only because it was something I said in conversation that brought this up, she said she is going to start working later on Wednesdays starting in 2 weeks and trying to work a few hours extra each day during the week for extra money. Again, she didn’t volunteer this info. Now I wouldn’t think anything of this being that we have talked about getting a place in 5months when her lease is up and we could use the extra cash to support ourselves. However, she has a history of cheating, including her ex hubby. And I still suspect she talks to her other ex she cheated on him with, but she denies it. Even though she has text him in front of me.

2007-09-07 07:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by hero 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. so i was dating this guy.. and i really didnt like him.. or at least i didnt think i did.. but we broke up and i started dating another person... now me and my ex. and talking again... but i dont think i could have another chance... i wanna let him know how i feel through a song.. telling him im sorry and want another chance.. any good ideas?

2007-09-07 07:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by xXxerynxXx 1 in Friends

We have been together for over 3 years now. He has 2 children, his son lives in PR & he has joint custody with his daughter. I dont get to see my son to much cuz of the distance between his father and I. We have no children together. So basically we do not have any children in the house. I am 24 and he is 32 so our opinions are a little different when it comes to children. We tried to have a baby last year but I wound up with Thyroid Cancer and of course thatr needed to be taken care of first. Everything is back to normal and I just do not know how to bring up that I am ready to have a child with him.

2007-09-07 07:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by bebegurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

another man....... but she claims it was her father? but yet I seen them French kissing... what cultures do this should everybody start French kissing their relatives?

2007-09-07 07:52:29 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she keeps them on the mantle pice above the fire place, i think they are royal doultan should i tell my brother to go get some of his own?

2007-09-07 07:47:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

be patient , i am new to the sight. so in response to the response re: strip clubs and lap dances. I am dressing sexy, and am VERY available for ANYTHING!!!! I did viist the strip club the next night for 2 drinks then home just to satisfy my curiosty. I have been open to him about everything and anything. (within reason) I keep myself in shape, and try to always look good, have a good upbringing etc etc. question what makes a man do somthing like that? I have asked him point do you want out??? want to be single??? don't love me etc. no no no. what gives?

2007-09-07 07:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by gwens 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you feel like you are a team? My husband and I think that it may make a marriege better if you approch it as a team. What do you think?
Do you Feel like a team?
Does it work for others?

2007-09-07 07:40:18 · 22 answers · asked by violet_selky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-07 07:38:42 · 17 answers · asked by sunangel1716 1 in Singles & Dating

At my sister's wedding I found myself on the same table as the groom's brother. We have loads in common and he is very good looking. Unfortunately at the time I was with someone and so it didn't get very far and was confined to emails when we got home as my sister lives in Denmark and her hubby and his brother are Danish.

My partner has left me and I am finding myself thinking more and more about my bro-in-law's bro and I have emailed him a couple of times since I became single and have flirted shamelessly. I know he likes me and I like him. We are going to spend Xmas in Denmark with my sister so I know I will be able to see him soon and I am wondering if it is worth starting something with him as he lives so far away and after Xmas I don't know when I will be able to see him again.

Should I try anyway and if the most that comes out of it is a shag at Xmas then at least I tried?

2007-09-07 07:37:49 · 6 answers · asked by Bagpuss 4 in Singles & Dating

We were out one night and i notice something weird he was on his phone at the club! Then later that night i got his phone and read the text message that she loved him and if he was still there at the club. So that meant she was there that explains why he keeped leaving my side. The next day he promises threatens to kill him self because he knows he did wrong. He aslo said that girl was not worth loosing his family. So right now i am confused! I am trying hard right now to trust him. but it is hard. What should i do?

2007-09-07 07:36:25 · 52 answers · asked by angel806 1 in Marriage & Divorce