She doesn't know that I know. She kept accusing me of sleeping with her ex and I couldn't figure out why cause I wouldn't do that to her. Then I learned that it was because her own guilt. What should I do. It is making me sick to think that she would do that. Am I wrong?
2007-09-07 08:22:41 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, no man you have ever right to be pissed.
I would too.
Hell, I would beat my sisters as$ if she did that.
It's just not right you know?
You need to give her a piece of your mind.
Tell her, how would you feel if I were having sex with one of your ex's? Is he really worth the pain your causing me?
Mucho love girl♥
2007-09-07 08:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Savanna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you still have feelings for your ex...and did she know about that? If so, then yes, you have a right to be mad at her...otherwise...you have every right to be hurt...a sister shouldn't sleep with your ex...and accuse you all along of sleeping with her ex. As far as your ex goes....I hope this has resolved any feelings you still might have had for him.....he's shown his true colors. I would tell her thank you for making you realize what a dog he really is....but that she has broken your trust in her. You are her sister, but you don't have to be her friend...and I wouldn't ...not for a very long time anyway! I"m sorry you're going through this!
2007-09-07 08:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad. There's an unwritten woman's code of **** you don't do. One being:
Don't date/ hook up/ flirt/ try to get with( you don't even have to be successful at it) any of your girlfriends ex's especially your sister's. That's gross and disrespectful. It's even worse that she hasn't told you. If she is going to be low enough to go behind your back and start sleeping with your ex and not even have the courtesy to tell you, that doesn't speak highly of your sister. The only exception is if she thought that her and him would be going anywhere with this and if they did they both should have consulted you before anything happened. Neither of them are respecting you and it's sad to hear because the two of them won't work out anyways and this will all have been for nothing. She has damaged your trust for a one night stand.
2007-09-07 08:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your sister is not suppose to have any kind of relationship with your ex. my suggestion is your sister is definitely going through something. Althought it is hurtful to see the 2 of them together, remember that this guy will be gone someday and your sister will always be your sister.
Be there for your sister as a result, she will open to you why he did it and you'll be able to explain to her why it is that you two broke up in the first place. Hopefully your sister will see that she's not suppose to be with him. At the end the two of them will be over and you will have a closer relationship with your sis.
Hope it all work out.
:) Mrs. trackstar.
2007-09-07 08:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Soldier 4 Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your ex ended on bad terms then I would be really pissed. Confront your sister I doubt that it will be any better if you let it keep going. Also, are there any reasons why she would do this?
Any ways, it is a little wierd, but if you let your ex go and it was on good terms and he is a good guy then what do you care. Personally, I almost hooked up with one of my brothers ex's but it was too weird. Also, my brother is a kick ace kinda guy and it wouldn't be worth it.
2007-09-07 08:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rob K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it- it is "off limits" and it is a betrayal. The thing is no guy is not worth coming between you and your sister- you know that , she doesn't. So... you are the more mature loyal one, but as such, let it go. Youwill know her the rest of your life and she will always be your sister, not worth ruining that for a man- either by dating her ex or by going nuts over this. Remember- he's not all that!!
2007-09-07 08:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh u have every right to be mad, just imagine the guy he must be comparing both of you. and if they get married (hypothetical) how awkward would it be at family reunions. ur sista is a ho.e and she broke the major unspoken social rules females and males follow.
1. dont sleep with relatives ex- partners.
2. dont hit on ur bestfriends ex, or sister/brother.
theres a few and theyre simple ur sista crossed the line ***** slapp that fool
2007-09-07 08:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is your sister... u cant b mad at her forever...
but i would definately say something. you wouldnt do that to her, and you dont appreciate what she did to you, and u thought she was a better sister to u then that.
then dont bring it up again, it will just cause fights
i do think your sister is a bit of a u know what for sleeping w/ your ex tho.
2007-09-07 08:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. Tell her that you found out. Don't show her that you're mad though. And tell her that you will not do the same thing to her though she did it to you because you love her. Forgive her, maybe you can't but try forgive and forget. It makes you a happier and better person :)
2007-09-07 08:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it may be a bit insensitive on her part, but you know, if two people can get together and be happy, whats wrong with that.
You guys broke up for a reason,
I would say let it go.
2007-09-07 08:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋