2007-09-07 08:28:08 · 18 answers · asked by angela c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you probably fall in love "too quick" b/c you need a sense of companionship, you need someone who will always be there for you maybe for feelings maybe for physical contact or whatever the reason is, you don't like to be alone
so if you don't want to fall in love so quick ( i'm assuming you've had a ton of bf/gf already)
go get some friends go hang out with some friends and you'll forget about falling in love and you'll start thinking about having fun. you can never break up with friends only with bf/gf
2007-09-07 08:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by beverlywas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you fall in love as quick as you fall out of love? Maybe you see the good in a person, but never the negative ones.
you fall in love quickly because you don't take the time to get to know a person better. I guess.
You could stop falling in love so quickly by, uhh... paying attention. Yeah, that's it. See not only the good side of the person, then decide if you like that person. There.
2007-09-15 07:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Build up your self esteem. Then you wont have to "settle" and you can honestly send and recieve true feelings. "Falling" in love is just that....falling. You need to choose how you fall and how you want to fall. If you are falling in love very quickly you are not gving yourself enough credit and thus "settling". A strong self esteem is like having lots of money....you have the ability to CHOOSE what you want....not what you THINK you want. Falling in love quickly is a form of desperation. You don't need to be desperate.
2007-09-15 15:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make up your mind that you do not want to be tied down,life is to short to take just one,have fun and enjoy your life, it only comes by once in your life so make the best of it. If you do this all kinds of doors will open to you. First off you have to be happy, come on now BE HAPPY.
2007-09-15 04:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the obvious answer is.. you're not falling in love.. love is not something you fall into.. it's something that grows and molds itself over time... you're questions should be how do i stop attaching myself to people so quickly.. and i would say to that.. stop feeling that you need to "love" someone in order to feel right.. lonliness is the human condition.. dont attach yourself to the first person who shows you the least bit of attention.
2007-09-15 02:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by the critic!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heres the answer. No matter who it is or what happened you have to try and make him not like you. If you dont then you'll fall in love with him quickly and you will still have the same problem.
2007-09-07 15:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Balrog 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have the same problem but last year i got totally out of that problem for the hole year! i just hung out with my friends made myself all flirty with whoever i wanted beacause i wasnt tied down! but now i kinda let that go and im in a really stickey sitch! i have a bf a guy who i always just joke around with who i kinda like and this guy who is one of my best guy friends who im like majorly in love with! beacause my problem is i fall into love REALLY quickly but it takes me a long long long time to fall back out!! hope i helped sry 4 dumping my problems onto u!! hehe lol!
2007-09-15 14:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just change your perspective and realize that just one really great guy isn't the only fish in the sea ;) Just be open minded and look at the big picture. Don't get so focused on one guy...
2007-09-07 15:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to fall in a hole before you fall in love... might help.
2007-09-15 07:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by wardog_blaise 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It looks like lust to me, Love does not happen that fast.
2007-09-15 14:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋