Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

I live in a small town and I have been into fundraising for different causes. this last summer I alone did two car washes and a raffle with 30 kids that are 6-12 years old. we were raising money for these kids who are all low income to go to camp for a week. our goal was to raise $1750 we did raise $1550 so I told each Family they had to pay $15. Compared to $85 per child. Well two families thought it was still to much so they accused me of stealing money. wich I did not do. Now I had a friend that was in a bad wreck and I am trying to raise funds for her family to help with bills and these same people are going around saying not to help because I will steal the money. This really bothers me because I have never taken anything that was not mine. And I want to help this family. How should I handle this? Should I confront them? Or just back off and quite helping people?

2007-09-07 12:04:04 · 7 answers · asked by brianswife 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It has been almost 6 years since the 9/11/01 attacks. Have you forgave Osama yet or no? Also, do you want him to be captured or remain in hiding away from society?

2007-09-07 12:01:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been married to my husband for about 7 months now and we have a 5 month old son together. we had been dating for about ten monthe before we got married. well to get the meat of the story he doesnt ever kiss me or never wants to have sex anymore. i try and make out with him and get all touchy with him but then he says he has to got to the bathroom or that he's tired. and i always have to beg him for any kind of affection and there was one time when we were making out and i opened my eyes for a split second and he was looking at the tv at the girls on tv. and everytime we go somewhere he always stares and smiles at other girls. its not like i gained a lot of weight or anything because im pretty much the same size i was b4 i got pregnant so i dont know... im seriously really sad and i have no idea what to think anymore

2007-09-07 11:59:01 · 23 answers · asked by celcel27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, did the sex go out of your life? Or how do you manage to still be intimate? I need help! I feel without the intimacy that I'm being robbed and I'm considering a divorce. I love my spouse but I also have needs. What do you do? And don't tell me to get myself off. Did you end up divorcing? I feel like I'm living a lie, this isn't a marriage, it's being roommates. Please help.

2007-09-07 11:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by Amy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a woman for quite a while now. She is a home nudist. It's a lifestyle that they never wear cloths at home. Her kids are nudists as well. (12 year old boy and 16 year old girl). They kept cloths on when I first came around but now that I've been with her for a while, they now are nude when I come over. after many months, I finaly just recently started to take my cloths off at her house. I felt extremely awkward at first and thought I would warm up to it. I don't mind being naked in front of my girlfriend, but it's in front of her daughter that is a problem. She is a very well endowed young woman and many times I will get an erection seeing her nude in front of me. She will notice obviously, but will just smile and pretend she doesn't notice. My girlfriend has noticed too but says it's alright, that it's totally natural. It's just too awkward for me. I just cant get used to it. what do you think about home nudists? particularly my situation.

2007-09-07 11:53:49 · 18 answers · asked by tracker 35 2 in Singles & Dating

is it a good sign that after being with my girlfriend for 3 months told her parents and then they said it was ok? does this mean that she truly loves me or just really likes me?

2007-09-07 11:50:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What kind of signs do you give your man when you are in the mood? without just telling him?

2007-09-07 11:50:29 · 19 answers · asked by mista mista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone please help me with this my husband wants to go back to Egypt and leave me because he has not gotten his papers yets and it's been pending since Dec 19,2005 and it will be 2 year in Nov since we will be married and he gave me stupid reason why it's over his dick is to big he doesn't believe me anymore and he also tells me that he is to tired and wants to sleep he works 7 days a week and I told I don't want to lose him but he doesn't care and he won't tell me when he is going home he said once he goes he say won't say bye or anything can someone help me please.
well my parents and the rest of my family don't know I'm married to him is there any other way than a divorce and how much will it coast but I really don't want it to be over.

2007-09-07 11:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

k so today i hugged my friend because she asked can i have a hug and so i did but i gotta a girlfriend and i give her hugs all the time. is it considered cheating? (stupid question) and my girlfriend knows the my friend i hugged

2007-09-07 11:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Brad 3 in Singles & Dating

My hubby jerks off to porn he only does it when im not there he says he has it on becuase he needs the noises and he says that he looks up at it and then pictures me and him doing what they are doin what do you think..is he feeding me sh** or tellin the truth and also do you guys spank it when you are stressed just to relax and is it possible for u to get off if u arent horny and not in the "mood"..

2007-09-07 11:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I have been really close to this one professor and I guess you can say I had a crush on him...But he helped me out so much, he was the one that changed my life, opened my eyes, etc. So when I was done with school, I asked him for a hug and he said he couldn't because of "policy". Now, So many of my profs gave me hugs because it was my last term here, and then the one that I was crushing on tells me "no because of policy"? Do you think it was because he knew I had a crush on him???Thanks

2007-09-07 11:42:56 · 19 answers · asked by annonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

any advice on how to get him to open up??

2007-09-07 11:35:35 · 3 answers · asked by leanwitit653 1 in Singles & Dating

I first told him i smoked a few weeks ago and we nearly finished, he hates it. I want to stop because i really dont want to lose him. Most of my mates tell me to stop to but a few mates smoke themsleves and if i quit would make me want to smoke again how can i quit fullstop?

2007-09-07 11:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by ILoveYouLewis [: 1 in Singles & Dating

in the child's life. He has never visited him or talk to him. Should I still file for legal custody or should it be presumed that I have sole custody of my son. (He is listed on the birth certificate and pays child support...sometimes)

2007-09-07 11:25:02 · 10 answers · asked by bkjanet4 3 in Family

Can someone please help me with this my husband wants to go back to Egypt and leave me because he has not gotten his papers yets and it's been pending since Dec 19,2005 and it will be 2 year in Nov since we will be married and he gave me stupid reason why it's over his dick is to big he doesn't believe me anymore and he also tells me that he is to tired and wants to sleep he works 7 days a week and I told I don't want to lose him but he doesn't care and he won't tell me when he is going home he said once he goes he say won't say bye or anything can someone help me please.

2007-09-07 11:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by Elizabeth h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, here goes: I started "seeing" a college friend from long back. He introduced his parents at a restaurant; his dad was an ex-councilman-once conservative, now more liberal-minded, a phd; and his mom's a pro-life counselor, in a wheelchair for six years, also phd. He's a grad student working with mice, seriously afraid of his mom, but follows her every word. His dad manages real estate and has me working for him, which is convenient, but the bad thing is that his dad and I have been fooling around (especially since I work late nights at his office). His mom doesn't allow him to touch me in her presence (maybe she knows; not sure) and now wants him to find a better job, not at a lab with mice all day, so he's planning to move to Baltimore, but wants me to keep working with his dad (what am I supposed to do?). His dad wants him to stay at home longer and wants to pay his son to get an apartment, too. I'm almost considering letting him move in with me, if it's okay with his father?

2007-09-07 11:11:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I know girls don't like skinny guys, but I mainly wanted to gain weight for other reasons that were affecting my performance in track. I am 19 years old, 5' 5.5" and originally weighed only 105 lbs, extremely skinny. Over the summer I went past my goal weight and hit a max of 135 (right now I'm at 130) staying on a consistent protein/ high calorie diet. While I have been lifting w/ this too, my arms still look very skinny and I only have a 29" waist. My question is what would you consider a more ideal weight for me? I still feel so self conscious and like a little weakling still because I know the majority of girls hate skinny guys.

2007-09-07 11:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by surftaco400 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes i had Sex with my boyfriend, and it was my first time, for some reasson it didnt hurt at all.
Now he think i actually had sex before him!
what happen is it normal?
HElp>... ASAP!
thank you for your help!

2007-09-07 11:09:33 · 33 answers · asked by Curious! :D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Run down Me- engaged for 5 years and plan a vegas wedding, reception when i return. Her- with the guy for 3 years, get in big fight and she leaves, (she says) they make up and he asks, she says yes and then they plan date. All of this happens in a weekend. Work on Tues Guess what we are getting married a week before you!

2007-09-07 11:03:27 · 27 answers · asked by yahoo user 2 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have been living together for a year. We are both in our mid-twenties and he just graduated college.

I am ready to get married and we have talked about it but nothing yet. How long were you dating before you got engaged?

2007-09-07 10:59:39 · 49 answers · asked by crystaldawn1315 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends wife is very agressive in nature,yell's at him and even tried to hit him. The poor fellow tries to ignore such acts because he loves his children and wife too. She accepts her fault when normal but the friend feels, that this is effecting his kids psychologically.

2007-09-07 10:58:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the black sheep of the family. But have always gone out of my way for them . Still I am never thought of or considered, not even on a weekly or monthly basis, I do not want to be hurt by this anymore. I am the one who took care of our father when he was sick and dying for years and I am now taking care of mom, her finances ect. I asked for help to purchase a head stone for our parents plot. No one cared . This has been this way since I was alittle girl?

2007-09-07 10:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my best friend is overweight , and i have noticed that she has no clue she is . she lies about her weight , and eats huge amounts of food . i am afraid that she is harming her body by eating all this junk . what is the best way to tell her that she is obese ?

2007-09-07 10:57:29 · 43 answers · asked by TFCITD 3 in Friends

2007-09-07 10:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you recently been through a seperation from either a spouse or a person who you lived with? What were some good coping skills and things you did to ease the transition?

2007-09-07 10:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by Alexandriagal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately, we are not enjoying it as much as usual, even though we are in our 20's and it's still pretty new. What canI do to spice up our sex life?

2007-09-07 10:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a boy in my homeroom named Dylan. After the first day of school he imed my friend and told her that he thought I was "cute". That was on Wed. Yesterday, he came up to me and gave me his phone number and screen name. He was joking around like "This is so we can you know, stay in touch!" My friend told me that he was really nervous to give it to me because we had just met. Things are going around in the school that he likes me because that's what he told his friends. [It's a VERY small highschool news travels fast]

But then this other girl says to me, "Oh don't get excited because by the end of the year, Dylan will have asked almost every girl out" My friend told me that Dylan told her that he was going to hang out with this girl he met a few months ago later today. He told me friend that he doesn't know if anything will happen. I've only known him for a few days, but I really like him. Do you think he likes me? or should I forget about him?

2007-09-07 10:42:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go with this boy and he is very flirtatious and i dont know if its good for our relationship. He doesnt really do anything with other girls but i can tell that he is flirting with them

2007-09-07 10:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lady'D' 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 10:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by cats 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am really at a very odd thinking point. OK Approximately 3 times per week I always go to subway to eat because I really like to eat Subway food. This guy that works there now looks like a model because of his exotic looks. I am straight, but even i must admit he is a very pretty man, not handsome but absolutely pretty. He is very stunning. Blue eyes, blonde hair, natural red lips. But the thing is i think he is either gay or bisexual. Almost everyday now since June of 2007 he has struck up conversations with me or whatnot, which I do not mind, but as of late for about the last 2 weeks he has been telling me that he is curios and he says that I am handsome or whatever, and that I seem like a nice gentle person. He even told me last weeks that He wants to make love to me at his place, he says not sex, but that he wants to make sweet passionate love to me. I am truely flattered that someone thinks that way of me, but i am not bi, or gay so I don't want to. Advice please.

2007-09-07 10:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by sam j 1 in Singles & Dating