My friends wife is very agressive in nature,yell's at him and even tried to hit him. The poor fellow tries to ignore such acts because he loves his children and wife too. She accepts her fault when normal but the friend feels, that this is effecting his kids psychologically.
2007-09-07 10:58:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is essentially teaching the kids how to communicate badly. they need to not be around that environment any longer. she needs psychiatric help. he needs to tell her that either she/they get help and figure out what's wrong or she will need to leave. for the kids sake. sometimes the right decisions are the hardest, but the kids are suffering the most and they don't even realize it yet.
2007-09-07 11:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I will not suggest any dissolution of marriage on this ground to be covered under the category of mental cruelty as in such a case the lady in question is not committing any mental cruelty intentionally but it is a psychological problem with her for which she requires proper treatment. I agree that her nature & behavior effect the children psychologically & their over all growth get retarded. If this couple separates or dissolve their marriage then that will add to the misery of their children who are already facing such trauma because of their mother's nature. I will suggest that this person should meet some good psychologist & discuss the whole situation with him/her & get a proper treatment initiated for his wife. Taking his wife to a psychologist should not be a problem as that person can always be introduced as a friend or colleague but taking her to any metal clinic or psychiatrist will mean telling her that she has gone nuts & that will spoil the whole game. Such psychological counseling will definitely help in improving her nature & bring peace in their marital life.
2007-09-07 17:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Some poor guy is getting mentally and physically abused by his wife but loves his family too much to speak out.
If this was a woman, everyone would advise her to take the kids, get an order of protection, divorce and take him for as alimony and child support as possible.
Instead since it's a guy, you get petty comments from people like Sarah and Angel. Sarah say it's HIS fault for being a victim, and Angel even has the nerve to say its GOOD for the kids to see them fight.
2007-09-07 11:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cope wife aggressive nature
2016-02-02 03:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling, Or good Friend for both can advice, if her parents are there call them give them details of situation, ask him to take the children's to some vacation trip without her let her know in real how it feels. Yes fighting in front of children is bad example and effects their life too.
2007-09-07 14:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Raghu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend can apply for divorce and custody of children on grounds of mental cruelty if he can corroborate the facts as stated by you by independent witnesses, including such as yourself.
If your friend is a Hindu, he can apply u/s 13(1)(i-a) on the ground of cruelty. But if your friend wants to continue his marriage there is nothing you can do, it is better a third part does not interfere in the marital affairs of a couple. since your friend is an adult he can make up his own mind on when to end the relationship.
2007-09-07 13:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it affects the kids.
I'm guessing it affects him more than he lets on too.
I'm a believer that to be a good parent, you have to be a happy parent. To be a good spouse, you have to be a happy spouse.
Now, the question is, is he happy?
2007-09-07 11:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by American Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends wife sounds like she's bi-polar to me..... or she has some sort of addiction, like to meth or booze.
If she isn't using drugs, then your friend should have her tested for bi-polar disorder. One minute she loves him, the next she hates him.... she gets so mad that she tries to hurt him, but later she feels sorry for what she did... or in some cases, she won't remember what happened.
My ex was like that. Its hell on a marriage...however, it can be treated with meds like Ambilify and in some cases Lithium.
Good luck to your friend
2007-09-07 11:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs some serious anger management classes. The kids see what is happening, and will believe this is normal, and they will be worse. We either teach our children good things or bad...our choice.
2016-03-18 01:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... may be he has to get some cojones and act like a man and don't let her bully him or else his kids are going to look down on him and be afraid or aggressive themselves. she needs to control herself and he needs to stop behaving like her victim.
2007-09-07 11:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋