My hubby jerks off to porn he only does it when im not there he says he has it on becuase he needs the noises and he says that he looks up at it and then pictures me and him doing what they are doin what do you think..is he feeding me sh** or tellin the truth and also do you guys spank it when you are stressed just to relax and is it possible for u to get off if u arent horny and not in the "mood"..
2007-09-07 11:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay to add...if there is any guy out there that would like to elaborate for me i would really appreciate it.. i may not understand but have some kinda idea of what other reasons there may be i just had a baby in july and feeling insecure about the way i look and after the baby docs orders was no sex for 6 weeks so he would spank it when i was there..even when i offered to give him a blow*** he said it was becuase he didnt feel right having me do that when i couldnt get off and also that he didnt want me to bend the way i do until i was healed..ado u think thats true and what are other reasons why a guy would prefer spanking it to a blow*** please anybody that will take the time to answer me and elaborate
2007-09-07 12:22:29 · update #1
He's feeding you sh*t. But don't take it personally. He still loves you. It's so hard to explain to a girl what it's like to have one of these. It's wonderful. It's a curse. It's good and bad all rolled into one. It rules us, overriding what common sense we might have.
Do we NEED to spank it? Yeah. So much so that we get blisters on it! We are just driven. So don't take it personally.
2007-09-07 12:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is telling the truth! Leave your poor husband alone about this.
What you do not understand is this has nothing to do with you. This does not in any way diminish your husband's love or desire for you. The best way I can describe it is, we just do it.
Again, leave him alone on this. This is not a problem. If you are so desperate to create a problem in your marriage, keep up the bugging him abou this. I promise you the next problem will be real and feel a whole lot worse in your heart.
2007-09-07 18:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, you need to realize that MOST men AND women masturbate. It's healthy and they do it whether or not they're also enjoying couples sex (intercourse).
This should not be something "threatening" to you.
Both men AND women do it for self-satisfaction, stress reduction, as a sleep aid, or just because they want to.
You should check out the site below.
2007-09-07 19:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by John Doe 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not compare any one of us to your hubby's likings, every body has a different fantasies when masturbating, maybe you like to offer your husband to give him hand job without reciprocating, see what he says you might enjoy both, you'll be in control and he be happy to have fun in your presence.
2007-09-07 19:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Zarzoorner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could very well be telling you the truth.
We do it (with varying degrees of success) to relieve:
stress
sleep deprivation
headaches
loneliness
frustration
obviously....being horny
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. and others you would not understand, nor do I feel like typing it all out.
2007-09-07 18:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok my bf is sitting next to me .. and reading this.. he says that extreme stress he may not be able to get it up.. if he can do that it is light stress.. and it is possible to get off if your not in the mood..
2007-09-07 20:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you aren't good at giving a bj
2007-09-10 09:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by hot_john_dog4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋