I am the black sheep of the family. But have always gone out of my way for them . Still I am never thought of or considered, not even on a weekly or monthly basis, I do not want to be hurt by this anymore. I am the one who took care of our father when he was sick and dying for years and I am now taking care of mom, her finances ect. I asked for help to purchase a head stone for our parents plot. No one cared . This has been this way since I was alittle girl?
2007-09-07 10:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop doing things for people that don't appreciate it and start doing more things for yourself.
2007-09-07 11:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't you like yourself? God loves you, you love you but you have to like yourself in order to make it in this cruel world . So, dont sit and wait for your siblings to pitch in DEMAND IT! They have just as much responsibility as you sadly you were the only one strong enough and willing enough to take center stage. You live only once do you really want to fret over what they arent providing you with? Since you have taken charge of your parents issues, it is now time for you to take charge of the rest of your life. Say it loud say it proud and if you still get no reply try to get assistance from the government and ask around there are plenty of people ready and willing to help JUST LIKE YOU!!!!
Bless you.
2007-09-07 12:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a socalled blacksheep doesn't mean that you are not a good person.
Look towards the bible and see that sinners that have been forgiven are the most worthy to go to heaven.
You are a good person that aparently loves your parents very much.
The wordly attitude of your siblings should not concern you.
It is your father in heaven that you should care about pleasing and i think you are doing just that.
2007-09-07 12:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ann N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How sad, but let it go. They sound like uncaring, unappreciative, inconsiderate people. Life is too short to be miserable. It is a shame that family is like this, but things will probably not change so just move on and spend your time with your true friends.
2007-09-07 11:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your hurt. I too experienced a lot of hurt from my sister as well as my Mother. We just go on and live the best life we can. Try not to dwell on it. Be happy. God Bless You
2007-09-07 11:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a long time to go take crap off anyone
I don't know why you would continue to go out of your way for people who clearly give a rat's a@@ about you.
maybe you like being a victim, who know's.
shake it off and just do you.
blood is not thicker than water - it don't mean s#!+.
2007-09-07 11:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lady D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget them, your blessing are gonna come. Your'e to old to be acting like that now.
2007-09-07 11:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing things for them then. they dont do s**t for you! Dont consider them either ur being a good daughter.
2007-09-07 11:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uumm, Yeah...
2007-09-07 11:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh boy! this is ashame but you are the do-gooder and they can go to hell!!!!
2007-09-07 11:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋