Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

Last night my boyfriend went out with his friend "Joe" to get a drink at a bar. Then they went to a restaurant/bar to meet my bf's friend "Sue". Shes leaving for Iraq in a week and she was pretty wasted. He told me nothing about it until I came to his apartment and...he wasnt there when he told me to come over after work. I was pretty upset. Really upset when he told me that "joe" left them as soon as they got there and they walked through the park and then he walked her home. Now hes going out with her again and some of her friends and one of his friends tonight. I'm not only jealous that hes out with her, but Im jealous that he can actually go out. I had classes all day then worked 7 hours and im exhausted!

2007-09-07 14:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a very shy girl, (only speak when spoken to... you know that kind of nature) my friends say im a really good listener and they trust me with anything...secrets n' stuff...
but i wanted to know do guys like a girl with a quiet nature or do you like the loud and over the top kind ????
: ) thankyou for your time

2007-09-07 14:42:57 · 26 answers · asked by °o.OѕтαяѕO.o° 3 in Singles & Dating

Im only reposting this bcuz i only got 1 answer b4. My friend is now 2 monthes is pregnant! She is one of my closest friend, and shes very depressed. She cuts herself, she crys herself to sleep, and when shes depressed, im depressed, we're so close, we feel each others pain. Her Ex-boyfriend always cheated, and abused her, and then when she finally broke up with him, he rapes her. Now she 11, and pregnant, and she doesnt believe in abortion, ive told her not to go out with a 19 yr. old, and now shes carrying his kid. I dont want to see her lose her life, by cutting or giving birth. Plz, help, nothing i can do will get to her, plz tell me wat i can say to her! It kills me to see her like this, and she wont trust men, not even my Bf, who wouldnt hurt her or me, or her brothers, or cuzins, or her own FATHER! she needs help, and needs to kno if it is best to abort b4 its too late

2007-09-07 14:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by Meh. 3 in Friends

but you could pick a different person to have had them with- would you?

2007-09-07 14:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this will be a little long bare with me. so there is this girl i have been dating for a few months now and i wanted to give her a surprise gift! so here is my idea! i bought a jar and am going to decorate it theme by what she like in life. she loves the beach wants to be a cop and loves elephants, so i bought a bunch of stickers and am planning on decorating the jar with them and filling the jar with hersheys kisses so that every time she has one it will be like a kiss from me to her! mixed inside i will put a letter of things that i enjoy about her and how i feel when im am around her! so what do you think is it a good idea? answers are appreciated =)

2007-09-07 14:36:04 · 19 answers · asked by jayfizzle1002 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that's a girl that is alwyas touching my butt and breasts. I have told her that I don't like it and she continues to do it. A lot of my family thinks that she is gay bc she's never had a bf but hooks up with guys a lot. I've told her before not to do it. Years ago she slept with me and i woke up with her hand on my breast. It's getting wierd and i don't know what to do.
please help.
She's also my cousin.

2007-09-07 14:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by WiseGirl84 3 in Friends

Me not really cause he slip to much , and now i give up on him . Mean that i am moving on can't waste my times anymore .

2007-09-07 14:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by Mar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 14:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by b.b. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 22 years old woman. I have been in love with his man for 4 years, but we never have sex and I am still a virgin.

Last year, we separated and kept in touch as friends. We actually hope to get back together one day. Recently, he decided to move on by giving me some hints. He does not even want to tell me the truth. When I asked him for the truth, he ignored me.

My heart is broken. I thought he is my true love. I have never dated any other guys.

What should I do? Please cheer me up. Thank you so much for your kindness.

2007-09-07 14:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i m too nice with people, when i talk to ppl i always have a smile on with me, ....i m a shy person to get friend with just anybody but i was never been the person with full of attitude...

as i said i feel like i m too nice with anyone, may be i should change it... i should;t be smiling everytime... i dunno..
cuz i feel like ppl dont care abt me, they dont show me respect,
they think i m too easy....
i just wanna be who i m but i wanna change smt in me to make ppl realize my worth...wut should i do?

thx!

2007-09-07 14:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by star 2 in Singles & Dating

He is always telling me not to party drink and stuff and he did when he was my age.(14) He tells me not to have sex but he got a girl pregnant when he was 15 and now there married and have a 7 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. He is being such a hyprocite. Why was it all right for him to it and not me??

2007-09-07 14:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-07 14:18:38 · 57 answers · asked by diamonds on my windshield 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when you're into a girl do u really read old emails that she sent u or look at a photo she sent you? Not a provacative one and please only serious answers???????????

2007-09-07 14:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how old do you have to be to choose who you want to live with?
I live in Colorado
And I'm 13

2007-09-07 14:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is a place hubby likes to go, and usually I'm fine with it (even though he knows waitresses by name and stays for extended hours "working" on his laptop or just relaxing.) Once in a while it makes me insanely upset (maybe on my fat days, haven't figured it out yet). We've been round and round and he says that he would stop going if I would forbid him to go, and yet I want him to stop going because he cares about my feelings, not because I've demanded it. I believe we have a great marriage, but this is just one of those annoying things that I can't seem to get a grip on.....any advice or suggestions?

2007-09-07 14:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating a guy for 7months. He knew I wasn't happy and ready to break up with him. He decided it was best we sleep on this idea and talk about it the next day at 12:30. The next day comes and I don't hear from him until 1:30pm. I am upset and don't answer... therefore i call him back an hour later and he doesn't answer.

We talk 3days later on msn. I tell him, if we're breaking up let's do it now. he says he wants to meet. I tell him fine... pick a day and time you can commit to. he picks monday... 3days later at12:30,1pm
we talk sunday night and our plans are still on. The next day I don't hear from him. I call his cell when we were supposed to meet and his house an hour later

***The whole time we were dating, he never changed his status to nothing in facebook or in a relationship. It remained single... i changed mine to nothing so people would not know my status.

At 2:30 on monday i change my status to single. he see's this and then blocks me on msn.

2007-09-07 14:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 14:10:25 · 51 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me theres this girl and she likes my friend and my friend likes her back but there not going out and they dont know they like each other but my friend is going to ask her out and if that happens im going to loose the girl of my dreams im pretty good friends with this girl but she is my friend to and i want her to be my girl i would do anything for this girl please how do i win her heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-07 14:10:08 · 43 answers · asked by THEguy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. I just went to high school. And I am joining volleyball and cheerleading. BUt I have to only choose one fall sport. Stupid school rules. Anyways, I have cheerleading whcih makes me "popular", and happy and be with all my friends or I am going with volleyball and be happy wiht no one. Idk. What do you think I should do? And the guy I likehis name is Mike, he's cute and everything and I want to get to know him! how do i do that without being all scared and shy. I am very shy around guys. help me! Have ways of me flirtig and talking with him. PLEASE I NEED HELP! He's the same age as me. Don't worry.

2007-09-07 14:09:29 · 17 answers · asked by shopperloverdrake 1 in Singles & Dating

You know that you don't really have much of a valid arguement, or that it's old news and old disagreement that you see no solving, and yet you just can't keep your yap shut....I guess it's self destructive. How do you handle or cope with this scenario, to keep the peace knowing that's the better road to take (mainly talking about with your spouse)

2007-09-07 14:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Marriage & Divorce

K so i have had a boyfriend going on 7 months and there has always been a conflict with friends and him. The trouble is balancing time between my friends and my boyfriend.
Him and I have friday nights as "our night" because we dont go to the same school, but my friends always want to hang on fridays too.
I keep switching off but both sides get their feelings hurt when its not them.
What should i do about this?

2007-09-07 14:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by xsweet.emotionx 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm pregnant and me and my husband havent had sex for about 3 months now and he tells me hes tired all the time. when i was pregnant with my 3rd and 4th child he acted the same way. and last year i found out he cheated on me while i was pregnant with them. do you think hes cheating again and how can i find out? please help!

2007-09-07 14:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need help to tell my wife about what to do in a marriage

2007-09-07 14:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by sasamijurai18 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote the guy I like a note during class that said I had a crush on him.... My friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. Should I ask him myself and how do I tell if he likes me and hes just hiding it....

2007-09-07 14:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by laughoutloud 2 in Friends

and is never ever intimate with you yet people will tell you how beautiful, goodlooking and sexy you are? By the way , you treat your spouse exceptionally good another words you kiss this spouses *** and take alot of crap from them.

2007-09-07 14:00:10 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been 3 yrs together. We were very happy the first 1.5 year after that he started to raise a company and work. All of a sudden everytime I try to get him in the mood to have sex, he rejects me. All the times he rejected me I was upset. Now I have changed my sweet mood and became a bitter woman and I know the reason if the lack of intercourse. Yesterday we set the fire and suddenly I recognize he made me love as animals do: It mean not touching or kissing just for satisfying himself. I was so disappointed and sad that I pushed him aside and then started a discussion: He told me a lot of things, that he is fat because of me, that I don't work up, that I don't know what to do with my life, that he is tired of me, that I am a ****. Today, we still are mad. I have the feeling he doesn't love me. People who say that don't feel love...right?

2007-09-07 13:59:27 · 35 answers · asked by Cristal Capsule 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just started a new job, and this guy that works with me, works in another room, and when he passes by , he always looks in the room,(but I guess that might not really mean anything) and everytime he passes by he always come in and chit chats, and he'll ask me what I'm doing(even though there are two people in the room) and he'll sit in my desk, and look at my computer, and ask ME stuff about politics, and news..I mean it's very casual but he always asks me if I went to lunch yet, and today, me and another co -worker sit in the same room and while they were talking I started doing my own thing typing my other friend on the computer, and he stood behind me and kept hitting my chair...and I'm thinking why does he keep doing that, and then he asks me if I know of a good church, because he hasnt been to one...'s been herein the city for almost eight years ...I'm confused as to why he's playing dumb and being nosey.. Well anyhow what do you think

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plus he asked me where are the good restauraunts were YOU live?I'm thinking why?

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Okay..plus...everytime my co-worker leaves for lunch..he comes in here and chit chats..and asks.me 'Oh have you been to this place..and that" and he asked so what do you do when you get off work"? I'm thinking "wow you are nosey"

2007-09-07 13:59:00 · 4 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you deal with someone that is a workaholic? I feel like I'm raising the kids on my own. He works 60-80+hrs a week and when he's not at work he will sit on the couch and complain about being tired from work...until they call and then he has plenty of energy to go back. What do I tell the kids when they ask where Daddy is...again...and why he can't make soccer practice....again...Thanks for any help!

2007-09-07 13:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by SuVmOm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my ex 1 year ago because he did not want to get married. We still talked a lot after we "broke up" so i felt we were still together in a way. Anyway, he never told me but i later found out he started seeing someone else. Long story short i asked him if he would like to get back together again and he says "it's never good to go back" so basically no. I know he would like to remain friends but i know i cannot handle being friends with him while he is dating someone else. it hurts too much and he knows that. I told him that I don't think we should have contact anymore unless he wants to have a commited relationship with me and then we could talk. He told me he understood. But he still calls me every 2- 3 weeks. Once I did not pick up and he left a message saying that he knew I did not want to be friends but he felt like calling so he did and that it was nice just hearing my voice. He has also called me again but does not want to get back together. Why is he calling me??h

2007-09-07 13:56:40 · 7 answers · asked by desiblack 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost going on 4 years, and now I think I want the divorce! My husband dosen't seem to take his family serious, or his job or responsibilties of being a man. I kicked him out of the house this past week, because he has been lying to me about where he has been at, he told me he was looking for work when really he was at his moms house doing things that I cant say and no he hasnt been with other women or men but lets just say illigal activities but he has tried to talk to other women behind my back some people say thats not cheating but his inttentions werent good. When I kicked him out he threatend me with taking my daughter with him, he always uses that against me, he has also hurt me alot in the past and I've alway take him back because I love him. Its been three long years (going on 4) with his lies (fake) promises. I really want to take him back for the 7th time (or more) but this time something tells me not to. Am I the wrong one? should we work things out?

2007-09-07 13:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Raw1987 2 in Marriage & Divorce