Plz Help! My friend was raped! and She has no idea wat to do :'(?

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Im only reposting this bcuz i only got 1 answer b4. My friend is now 2 monthes is pregnant! She is one of my closest friend, and shes very depressed. She cuts herself, she crys herself to sleep, and when shes depressed, im depressed, we're so close, we feel each others pain. Her Ex-boyfriend always cheated, and abused her, and then when she finally broke up with him, he rapes her. Now she 11, and pregnant, and she doesnt believe in abortion, ive told her not to go out with a 19 yr. old, and now shes carrying his kid. I dont want to see her lose her life, by cutting or giving birth. Plz, help, nothing i can do will get to her, plz tell me wat i can say to her! It kills me to see her like this, and she wont trust men, not even my Bf, who wouldnt hurt her or me, or her brothers, or cuzins, or her own FATHER! she needs help, and needs to kno if it is best to abort b4 its too late

Ok, the person in line with the second answer, Wtf do u mean by that? Im worried for my friend, and u think this a JOKE??? U r sick! i have no where else to turn, and u dare say that bi tch?!

The guy, i think, left the state, or country with his current, prego girlfriend, to move to malaysia, or something, i overhead it, but i dont remember, so police wont work

Oh man, i just got a call from her, and shes positive for HIV and genital heperpes, she was crying, and im so friking pissed, y cant i help her?? Her family wont even help her! im still wondering y they let her go out with him? :'(......

Answer 1

I'm not going to be like some people and tell u to tell ur friend not to abort. she's carrying a child that was pushed on her and she's only 11. Does anyone else notice that the girl is 11? Please find help. Find someone!

Answer 2

It's not rape... it was sexual assault. (but they were drunk... I wonder if that counts? I mean if a chick can't consent when drunk, can a guy assault when drunk?? fruits of feminism right there lol.) Well, you probably could've done something, but I think there's a statute of limitations on assault so there's not much you can do now... but I hope you feel better, and I can only pray this doesn't traumatize you to the point of dysfunction... have you ever considered therapy?

Answer 3

SHE NEEDS TO GO TO A THERAPIST!! something dramatic like that can mess up you mind! and she needs to report it to the police! and get that 19 year old locked away for child molestaion, he is a preadator, there is a law were adults can make any sexual contact with a minor you friend is a MINOR.

Answer 4

your friend needs some serious help, it is her own decision to decide whether to abort or not, and all you need to do is help her understand she needs help and can't face this problem on her own! no matter what decision she makes it will affect her whole life! I think you need to convince her to talk to her parents of a family member or even a councilor!

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Answer 5

dont abort! watever u do dont abort! call the cops on his as* and if he says it aint his then when tha baby is born get a paternity test n his as* is goin to jail! n just maek sure u stay by her side no matter wat n dont leave her. she would be ok if her parents help her out alot. she should go to counseling though.

Answer 6

I'd recommend goin to school at one of those pregnancy places. They offer counseling, too.

Don't abort.

Answer 7

Get a life and go troll elsewhere. Call 911 if you are in any way serious.

Answer 8

police hun'. he might do it gain. go file a police report. it is a crime. a serious one many women go thru.

Answer 9

well you need to tell her parents. even if she is willing please. she's dumb not to tell. im mean he can do time in jail 4 that.
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