i think i need to change my attitude....wut to do???

Question

i think i m too nice with people, when i talk to ppl i always have a smile on with me, ....i m a shy person to get friend with just anybody but i was never been the person with full of attitude...

as i said i feel like i m too nice with anyone, may be i should change it... i should;t be smiling everytime... i dunno..
cuz i feel like ppl dont care abt me, they dont show me respect,
they think i m too easy....
i just wanna be who i m but i wanna change smt in me to make ppl realize my worth...wut should i do?

thx!

Answer 1

It is very good to smile. Do you know the hidden power of simile? Smiling is an art not everyone can do. When you say Good morning just say with a serious face and with a smiling face and you will notice the difference.

Now come to the point. It is good when you have conversation you smile and you think that people think you are easy.

First of all when you are talking listen conversation then react. People always like a good listner which is a really hard thing. It is good to be nice. There is noithing wrong with it but use it when necessary. Too much sweet is not good. Always use BALANCE technique.

If you want people to respect you. Follow this:
Listen full conversation then react or reply.
Smile but not for everything. First you listen then judge if you need a Mona Lisa smile or not.
If someone ask you to join them and they are the same member/group (or a person) do not always accept invitation. Keep a balance. In a week one or two time you can meet. Learn how to refuse without hurting anyone.
And the most important thing,

You are not suppose to change yourself just try to be a head of friends in general knowledge. You know better what type of your friends are and usually what they talk about. Be in perfect in that field. And when they will notice you too know much their attitude will be changed.

This topic is too long I must stop here. If you can send some more details that will be much helpful to guide you.

I hope this will help you.

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Answer 2

Smiling and being nice is a Great Attitude.
Unfortunately, not enough People feel that way.
You can smile and be Firm too. If someone is making you feel disrespected, smile and tell them. If that is not enough for them to accept you should consider moving on.
There are lots of people out there who feel the same as you do. Seek them out and start creating life time friendships.

Good Luck

Answer 3

yea i know i am always like u but one time i did what i had too...just be your own if no one cares and don't be nice to people who ever is mean to u and i know thats makes u people no caring maked mee too i was so sad buy i took my friend advice just be your own..... don't change your self how u are and its good to be nice ........... also good luck with it ok bye ♥