ok. I just went to high school. And I am joining volleyball and cheerleading. BUt I have to only choose one fall sport. Stupid school rules. Anyways, I have cheerleading whcih makes me "popular", and happy and be with all my friends or I am going with volleyball and be happy wiht no one. Idk. What do you think I should do? And the guy I likehis name is Mike, he's cute and everything and I want to get to know him! how do i do that without being all scared and shy. I am very shy around guys. help me! Have ways of me flirtig and talking with him. PLEASE I NEED HELP! He's the same age as me. Don't worry.
2007-09-07 14:09:29 · 17 answers · asked by shopperloverdrake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you try a REAL sport like cross country. but i doubt you would LAST! lol! stop worrying about boys and cheerleading/volleyball and do something worth while!
2007-09-07 14:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're in different seasons. Both aren't at the same time, in most schools. You can be both. You also sound like you have a stereotypical view of cheerleading and volleyball. Do some research.
2016-04-03 09:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think cheerleading makes girls popular, I think many popular girls choose cheerleading.
Choose the one you like more, the one you're better at, the one that makes you feel good, the one you might continue in college.
I don't have an answer for the Mike question, but I don't think it depends on the right cheer/volleyball choice.
2007-09-07 14:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by DW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should go for cheerleading. Ull get fit and exercise and ull be popular. Now if u do get in then im sure flirting with guys will be easy, since they will be the once going after u. Now ways to get the guy to like u is just be urself. When u see him smile at him and wave. That will make him notice. Next u can just say like, "hows it going, how r u" something like that. He`ll get the point by then and will go after u if he likes u back. U shouldnt worry too much about it tho.
2007-09-07 14:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my honest opinion is cheerleders are realy prepy and that gets really annoying and i know that alot of peple dont like that but if ur friends are in it then u should definatly do cheerleeding, vollyball is way cooler, but u wouldnt want to be a loner so i guess i would go with the cheerleeding if i were u. and about that boy just be yourself laugh at his jokes and just be friendly. thats all the advice i can give u. hope i helped.
2007-09-07 14:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by littlebell1993 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
popular decision at my school. LOL I would pick cheerleading. In cheerleading you can talk to the guy mike about football if he a football player. That got me 2 boyfriends so far. :~)
Hope this helps
2007-09-07 14:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you'd be pretty popular in volleyball too, maybe even more.....
Just smile at him and let him know you won't knock him down when he does come over to sa hi. Just be yourself.
Have a great year!
2007-09-07 14:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u shud go 4 cheerleading. and about the Mike dude go to myjellybean.com it has a bunch of flirting tips.
hope this helps : )
2007-09-07 14:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im your perfect helper lol im a freshman 2 and i like cheer leading and volleyball... and im really shy..... The best i advice i can give you(and myself) Just breakthrough the shyness...... guys wont know who u r if your shy and probly wont like u cuz ur shy.. i just started not being shy like last week and do you know how many guys asked me out? Like 3.... ha ha no one even looked at me when i was shy..... so just break through it... if i can do it... trust me you can do it! lol
2007-09-07 14:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by brittbby☮ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
k are you ok being alone bcuz if you rnt go into cheerleading and if you want to make more friends take volleyball.
2007-09-07 14:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋