I wrote the guy I like a note during class that said I had a crush on him.... My friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. Should I ask him myself and how do I tell if he likes me and hes just hiding it....
2007-09-07 14:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by laughoutloud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wrote the guy I like a note during class that said I had a crush on him.... My friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. Should I ask him myself and how do I tell if he likes me and hes just hiding it....
I also asked him if he liked this other gurl in a note and he replyed NO!
2007-09-07 14:11:41 · update #1
Hi Hon!
To be honest with you..I would just make small talk with him when I see him alone..Don't expect too much, just in case, he really did say he didn't like you..
You will be able to tell, when you speak with him, if he likes you or not..
If he acts like the cold fish..The heck with him..It's his lose!
Just tell him.. kind of matter of fact like.. Okay..Take care! See you around..And leave! And get on with your life..You'll meet new guys, that you like even better!
On the other hand, if he seems interested..just ask him is he would like to hang out! And take it from there!
Good Luck Hon!
2007-09-07 14:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are passing notes, that means you are young. Then you asked your friend to ask, and he said NO. So now you want to have your feelings hurt by asking him yourself. If he likes you, he would be trying to talk to you, and be around you, which he isn't. Leave this one alone, and get the next fish.
2007-09-07 21:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a hard one. Im not sure if u should go directly and ask him...cause wut if he says no?? ur gonna feel crap. So instead try and see first if he likes you, you can do that by just looking at him and smiling and seeing if he smiles back. U can try and talk to him and be flirty and see how he responds to it. If he reacts good and flirts back then bingo, he likes you too. Then u can ask him.
2007-09-07 21:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should ask him yourself.
Some messages get mixed up sometimes.
If you get him alone he shouldnt lie, but in front of his friends he might get a little overwhelmed, and embarresed or something.
So, You should just ask him yourself :D
Good Luck.
2007-09-07 21:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jessarama! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a chance he likes u and was just shy..but on the other hand he could really not like u and if hed say no in ur face it would make u and i guess him feel really bad...good luck
2007-09-07 21:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on Baby. don't wait your time trying to get someone to like you. it makes you look needy and less likely that they will like you. Just put yourself in their shoes. Would you like to hang with a guy that was stalking you?
2007-09-07 21:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he might just be embarresed to tell your friend. ask him who he likes. and if he says someone else than you know the answer. unless he is just embarressed to tell you too. well the same thing happened to me and i just asked his twin brother and he told me. well he probly doesnt have a twin. ask one of his best friends.
2007-09-07 21:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by BIlly Bob Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys like to keep it a secret unlike me, which i told my friend and somehow got around the whole school
2007-09-07 21:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by ◄•.:¿¡Éric Pharòm¡¿:.•► 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you wont know for sure unless you drive n just go for it i mean who is it goin to kill just to ask him
2007-09-07 21:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you like him now so now you have to play it cool. dont push it let him do the running, if he likes you enough he will.
2007-09-07 21:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by gotcha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋