Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

I have been with a guy for 2,5 years. We fought a lot but we also really loved each other. I never felt anything for anyone like I did for him. But we weren't really comparable. For instance, I never really found him attractive. We broke up a year ago but we still talk everyday. Now I met someone who I think I like. I would like to try it out with him but I know that if I do there won't be any chance of coming back to the first one. What if he was really the one and what if I'll make a mistake by going out with the other guy? The first guy cheated on me, that's why we broke up, but he's really trying to make up for it. for example, he lost his job casue he stayed till morning to help me with my homework, knowing that if he won't go the next day he'll be fired.

2007-09-07 16:07:28 · 3 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

My Fiancee just deployed three weeks ago and recently before he left he was using one of my cell phones......yesterday I recieved a voicemail and it was a female.....it came out to be his ex-girlfriend.........she said "hey I just wanted to say hi and see how u are doing in Iraq...i'm not sure if this is your phone but whoever this is Disregard this message...well i'll talk to u later".......so I called her all day she didn't pick up until later that evening she called back saying did someone call me?....I said yes this is my phone and don't call my man anymore...she said who? I don't know who your talking about....I told her that she was lying because I already knew that it was his ex...so then all of a sudden she was saying oh yeah I saw him three weeks ago and he came to see me...(his car is broke down and I have his keys so that was a lie) .....and then she said that she was intimate with him and that she's not trying to start anything...what should i believe?

2007-09-07 16:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone been in a marriage relationship like this? In that the Husband is very Open Minded person [me] and the wife is a very Closed minded woman [my wife]. How can anyone survive [be happy] in a marriage like this????

2007-09-07 16:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you say you are content?

2007-09-07 16:05:45 · 18 answers · asked by Samantha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-07 16:05:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what he or she likes to do
what kind of person he/she is
and explain how you feel about this child.

2007-09-07 16:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by Dream 1 in Family

I have a crush on a girl at our school. She once approached. She started talking to me, but I bored her, so she left...She is in one of my classes. We have a lot it common. What should I do? I am not brave enough to just go ahead and talk to her. She is the determined nerd, almost boyish, type of person, so I am afraid she will eventually end it up punching me. Any ideas what to talk about? How to start a conversation? I am kind of negative, so that's maybe why I repel people. any ideas how to be positive? I ALWAYS lack subject to talk about.

2007-09-07 16:04:48 · 23 answers · asked by sting 4 in Singles & Dating

before it happens?

2007-09-07 16:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by coco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating Justin for 2 years now, and he has always always always been the absoulte perfect boyfriend, the other day he got frustrated all at once because of all of these little, very minor things that he just keeps in side and all bottled up. He told me he wanted a break becasue he needs to figure out how to deal with his frustration but he keeps telling me that I am his soulmate and I am the one and he is not donig this because he doesnt love me, because he loves me very very much, and he says he just needs to clear his head...I feel so heartbroken! He said we will for sure get back together, HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!! but whyyy is he doing this to me if he loves me so much?!!?

2007-09-07 16:02:42 · 21 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a friend and she is not very close but we occasionally see each other and all. Well she had a baby 2 months ago and I got her a baby gift and have been trying to give it to her lately but she has been too tired for visitors. Anyway, I gave it to her hubby to give to her because he works at the same place that I work. But when I tell him I have gifts for his new baby.. he doesn't really respond about it and today I told him that my friend(his wife) was showing me some pictures of him and the baby sleeping together and how I thought it was cute.. but he really didn't say nothing at all. I just think it is kinda weird, he dont brag about his new baby at all. Oh and he tells me that he never really see's his wife alot because I guess he's busy. But it kinda seems to me he don't want 'girls' to know he has a wife and baby or something. What would you think? Oh yea and we both work at a gym and he is a personal trainer.

2007-09-07 16:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family

2007-09-07 16:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by ens56 1 in Marriage & Divorce

although we didn't work in the same office. We talked on a regular basis and confided in each other a lot. I suspect he is trying to get back with his ex. He is very distant and we rarely talk. I am trying to give him his space and not bother him. I don't know if this is the right thing to do or not. I don't want to interfere with his life, but I love him and miss him. What should I do?

2007-09-07 16:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by zento1110 4 in Friends

2007-09-07 16:01:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanna slap women who are like that. you know the type who get sloppy drunk and look like zombies from their last high then pop a cigarette in their mouth to "relax."

2007-09-07 15:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's leaving on a business trip for 2 weeks and to be honest I can't wait 2 weeks for her to get back. A man needs to be served and she won't be able to do her job for 2 whole weeks.

2007-09-07 15:59:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife, pretty much don't have anything in common with each other. Everything, that I enjoy out of life in general with my heart she hates and everything that she enjoys out of her own life, I pretty much dislike. So we are basically contradicting each other all the time.

2007-09-07 15:58:45 · 26 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 23 and i like someone that is 98 what should i do i have a wife that is 82 but i dont no how to break it to her help!

2007-09-07 15:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by brian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with this kid before,for months. we seperated and dated other people. Recently, we started talking again, and we have teh most AMAZING conversations at night. like unbelievable, we talk about EVRYTHING. and its JUSt like old times. and he always brings back memories.& we always get the chills together on the phone. i asked him who he likes and he replied " well the girl i am talking to right now!" and i was soo happy. i like him too.. but we have these amazing conversations and me and him talk about anything, nd he tells me he doesnt feeel awakrd expressing his feelings and stuff. so im deffintely special. but there are other guys at my school who are waitng for me they like me to. I told them im not sure whats going on right now with me and me ex. so i finally asked my ex about whats going on and he said " i like you but idk i dont want to go out with anyone right now, so you can do whatever". what does that mean? i feel the same way too, but is he just playin me then? help

2007-09-07 15:55:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate for someone to use the stall next to me when 3 others are open. Seems like they always have to poop too!

2007-09-07 15:54:58 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family

WHAT THINGS CAN I DO TO TURN A GIRL ON!!! I REALLY NEED TO KNOW HOW! PLEASE HELP

2007-09-07 15:53:06 · 15 answers · asked by Camello S 1 in Singles & Dating

OK well her boyfriends kid is annoying! were in the same grade and now im not popular because of her! She copys me like on my school description i said i love wwe skateboarding and stuff she said the same thing! she follows me, she does watever i do and i dont wanna say You Know your Annoying So Plz Stop because last time i made her cry!!! its getting outta hand shes just not getting the point!!! AND SHES SLEEPING IN MY ROOM WEARING MY MAKE UP AND IM VERY ANNOYED PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-07 15:53:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There was a divorce. I'm disabled, I live in Kansas, my children are in Alaska, all through the years my ex has made life so difficult, They're grown up now, I'll be seeing them, I don't know what to do, what to say, I'm scared to death!

2007-09-07 15:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What I mean by two weddings is... I personally want to get married in a church but my fiance is really not liking the idea... so I was wondering... is it okay to have a simple private church wedding... and then have a big wedding somewhere else?! is that even possible?

2007-09-07 15:50:39 · 23 answers · asked by RockStarMel 2 in Weddings

Was it special and how was your relationship afterwards? Did you love her more...how long did you want to be with her? Or were you still easy to break it off?

2007-09-07 15:47:49 · 28 answers · asked by Plumenon01 2 in Singles & Dating

See, I am interested in this man, who is 36 and a lawyer and who also happens to be EXTREMELY handsome (like an actor)... I never got my hopes high since he has girls all over him all the time, it doesn't mean that he's a womanizer or anything, but surely he has MANY options apart from me, I'm an attractive girl, but the girls that have a crush on him are like too beautiful to be real :-s , so the thing is that I've kept everything like friendship and try not to look desperate or hint too much that I like him because I don't want to be rejected, so, I was kind of in that safe middle, where I still got to talk to him, but without making things complicated.

So, today he started asking me this bunch of questions, that left me :-O and he even asked me if I have ever been engaged, which shocked me, because we haven't been so close as to ask that type of thing yet, and at the end he said

"You are interesting that's why I have so many questions! "

Now, what does THAT mean :-s ???

2007-09-07 15:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just checking in on my baby and she looked so much at peace. so sweet. so happy, but at the same time im dreading the moment she wakes up because the terror starts! hahaha. i love my little BooBoo, but sometimes i just want to strap her down to a chair. thats parenting though! i wouldnt trade anything in the world for my babies.

2007-09-07 15:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I was having that little joking conversation and he asked me "If we were to last long enough and get married in our lives would you want a traditional or contemporary wedding....or would you want to elope?"

My question is....whats the difference between a contemporary and traditional?

2007-09-07 15:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by . 4 in Weddings

I have been single "two years ish", I am tired of being alone. I am happy, I have my son, working on my education, securing employment, so I am working "me" things but I kind of wouldnt mind a little love in my life and where's the best place to meet someone? I am not easy prey, I do have a little challenge for a man but this alone stuff lately is getting lame an old and I need some fun. My friends still are chasing boys or getting married, hate the married life. I am 31 so I am inbetween. THOUGHTS PLEASE?

2007-09-07 15:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by defenseonly 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfreind has relativly small breasts. I could care less what size they are, I love her for who she is. The issue at hand though, is that she has brought this up several times. She will start talking about clevage, and bras tat give cleveage. I usually just pationtly listen to her, and it has become ovious to me that she has bad fellings toward the way she looks when it comes to her breasts. Next time she brings it up I want to say, "could care less what size your breasts are, or if you have cleveage or not. I love you for who you are, and to me you are the most beautiful person on earth. Some men might go after a woman for phisical features, but they are not worth it. You need to get past your breast size, and realize you have so much more to offer, and I love you notheless.
Would this be appropriate, would you girls like to hear this from your boyfriend?

2007-09-07 15:34:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do i am married and i love women please help

2007-09-07 15:33:44 · 17 answers · asked by cherieavon 1 in Marriage & Divorce