Ok I have a friend and she is not very close but we occasionally see each other and all. Well she had a baby 2 months ago and I got her a baby gift and have been trying to give it to her lately but she has been too tired for visitors. Anyway, I gave it to her hubby to give to her because he works at the same place that I work. But when I tell him I have gifts for his new baby.. he doesn't really respond about it and today I told him that my friend(his wife) was showing me some pictures of him and the baby sleeping together and how I thought it was cute.. but he really didn't say nothing at all. I just think it is kinda weird, he dont brag about his new baby at all. Oh and he tells me that he never really see's his wife alot because I guess he's busy. But it kinda seems to me he don't want 'girls' to know he has a wife and baby or something. What would you think? Oh yea and we both work at a gym and he is a personal trainer.
2007-09-07 16:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To be honest she probably got pregnant because it was the cool thing to do, not because they both wanted it. I hate women.
2007-09-07 16:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Das ist mein fluch 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Tasha, you're either very young or very naive. There isn't anything wrong with the guy's marriage. Good grief! He just had what is probably his first child who is, as you say, only 2 months old.
It takes new fathers time to adjust to being "a dad". He's probably still mesmerized by this new baby who is "his".
Just because he's not a blabber-mouth doesn't mean he isn't into his child or that he doesn't love his wife.
And as to your friend being tired and not wanting visitors right now...have you had a baby? Do you know anything about how the birth went? When I had two of my kids, I was happy to be left alone for the first 3 months. There's nothing "weird" about that.
I am sorry to sound rude but your question sounds like an "all about me" complaint.
"I got her a baby gift and have been trying to give it to her lately"
" I tell him I have gifts for his new baby.. he doesn't really respond"
"I thought it was cute.. but he really didn't say nothing at all"
"I just think it is kinda weird"
"it kinda seems to me"
Do you see a lot of "I" and "me" in here?
Isn't this just sour grapes because they aren't kissing your feet for buying baby gifts?
This isn't all about you, sweetheart. It's about a couple and their baby.
Leave them alone and stop judging. They don't owe you their time or any explanations. You're right ptmamas, this is none of the askers business.
2007-09-07 23:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
new baby brings new stress's , it may be that his wife has PND , or other complications , he could be losing sleep , financially feeling the pressure , etc .
if he needs a shoulder to cry on , then assist , otherwise just let the problems go , dont speculate.
2007-09-07 23:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by DSV 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How about its not your business .... its his and his wife's ...Find something else to do with your time. and leave him and his marriage alone. New babies can be very stressful ... let him deal with it his way.
2007-09-07 23:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
He's not happy with his marriage. Maybe even questioning if the baby is his or not.
2007-09-07 23:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
yell (through a speakerphone) "this guy has a wife and kid!!" if he punches you he is an absolute jerk, if not you're a good friend for announcing his child's birth >:)
2007-09-07 23:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by b3nzin 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is into other women?
2007-09-07 23:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋