I have been single "two years ish", I am tired of being alone. I am happy, I have my son, working on my education, securing employment, so I am working "me" things but I kind of wouldnt mind a little love in my life and where's the best place to meet someone? I am not easy prey, I do have a little challenge for a man but this alone stuff lately is getting lame an old and I need some fun. My friends still are chasing boys or getting married, hate the married life. I am 31 so I am inbetween. THOUGHTS PLEASE?
2007-09-07 15:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by defenseonly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS to a few with the smart az comments I have an undergrad, am working on law school, and lecture at the University for which I go to with a 3.987 GPA, so the indigent who said I am searching for a father for my child can basically shove his thumb up !@#$%, I am doing fine and my sons father loves him so, take your attitude back to the trailer park from you grew up, I am sure you must be speaking from experience. Thanks God Bless
2007-09-07 15:54:04 · update #1
Sorry for the outbust any one who knows what being a single mom is surely doesnt tolerate people with mouths who speak of something they no nothing of. Sorry to all the rest of you have been endearing no offense!
2007-09-07 15:58:11 · update #2
I would start by joining groups with people who have the same interests as yourself. For instance, a single parents group. If there isnt one try starting one at you childs school. Reach out to some of the other parents to find out if anyone is interested. Try opening yourself up a little more when youre in class. If youre not already taking a night class, try one. There are usually more mature, career minded individuals that take courses at night. Also, try online dating. If nothing else it will force you to become more comfortable when speaking to new "prospects" on the telephone. And lastly, dont give a disclaimer about yourself.
"I do have a little challenge for a man
Im sure you a re a great person and there is someone out there who will accept and love you for you, challenges and all. We all have our own challenges, some more visible than others. Open yourself up, make eye contact with people and smile. People will want to be around you if they see your genuine personality shining through. Good Luck!
2007-09-07 15:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will be checking back to see your answers! I feel as you do. I have tried on-line dating, friends setting me up, flings and had a relationship with a dear friend that didn't last. I am a single mom that works and the arena for meeting men that aren't married, gay or at least have a job is narrowing!
Don't lose hope! If it is right, it will happen- or so I am told!
2007-09-07 15:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to make a suggestion that not long ago "I wasn't aware of myself" and I'm 39. I joined a very small community christian fellowship church. It has so few members that half the pews are empty on Sunday. But, I love it.....and the people (because its so small) you get to know on a personal level. You will never be alone again....someone is waiting for you...and someone who actually has some virtues and who may be divorced or alone too.
2007-09-07 15:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its easy u need a fun dynamic friend that puts u in prediciments that u wouldnt get into on your own its amazing how split decisions can turn out for the best. thats the person i am for my friends and i all to often here "im so glad u draged me out the other nite blake" thats how i found my self in many a relationship try somthing diffrent cause what ur doing now isnt working
2007-09-07 15:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by rud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an empty nest single mom. At least you have kids in your home. I am totally alone. I tried a site called meetup.com. they have all types of groups according to intererst. Movie groups, dinner groups, womens groups.....anything you can imagine. I have met some new friends in these groups. Good Luck.
2007-09-11 03:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im wear your shoes sister I swear . I am single for about the same amount of time with 2 girls as well .....
Ask your friends if they have any guy friends that they know of that would be good or you ..... If they work wiht someone or your friends bf might have a single friend . Try that ...
2007-09-07 15:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way: I'm 33 and am missing a little affection as well. Internet on a dating site is an option always....I've tried it before and it has worked. Hit me with an email and we'll see if we live close by :)
2007-09-07 15:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by bear2000ca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a distant penpal. Actually several because some you'll drop off. It's quite amazing how close and personal you can get through writing. Actually makes you feel secure -- and a bit smug because nobody can hurt you. You've always got friends, maybe one special one --and no telling where this can lead.
2007-09-07 15:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Madmunk 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Theres really not a particular place to meet a certain someone because assholes are EVERYWHERE!!Just take your time and continue focusing on you and trust me a good man will find YOU!
2007-09-07 15:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Lincy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋