Was it special and how was your relationship afterwards? Did you love her more...how long did you want to be with her? Or were you still easy to break it off?
2007-09-07 15:47:49 · 28 answers · asked by Plumenon01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very awkward, and I never saw her again.
2007-09-08 09:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first time was great in that we both loved each other and had been regularly dating for 4 years, but neither of us had any clue what to do and it was disastarous, in a good way. We're still dating and we have sex at least once or twice a week. But it's really hit and miss with first time sex. It could be wonderful and it brings the two of you together, but it could also make you not like the other person due to a less than spectacular performance. I've had no desire to leave my girlfriend and we haven't looked back. But one piece of advice before I cut this off; DO NOT DO IT DOGGY STYLE. It really hurt her and that's most likely why it ended the way it did.
2007-09-07 23:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Commodore Lucas J. McSaucypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually the first time kinda sucked! Not only was she experienced, but she was soaking wet down there! Eeewww!!! That relationship didn't last long because i thought that it was gross. Turns out that i was wrong and it wasn't gross but that i was with the wrong person! When i did find the right person, there was nothing better on the planet!! But that didn't last long either. Older chick young, virginal guy! Just didn't work. So if i got some but didn't have an orgasm my first time, then got some like six months later, was i still a virgin???
2007-09-07 22:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by justinbig9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first several times I had sexual experiences were not with girlfriends. There was no extended relationship. They were little more than one night stands, just getting lucky with a promiscuous girl.
What was it like? Well, it was a learning experience...after I started to figure it all out it was getting pretty good.
I am not happy about it..I never heard from those girls again; I would have liked to have had a relationship, sure.
2007-09-07 22:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually always good for the guy. Unless they're uncircumcised then it takes a little getting used to. Some guys with foreskin complain about pain their first times.
Fortunately, that's a problem I've never had to worry about.
**Parents: BE SURE TO GET YOUR SONS CIRCUMCISED!**
In regards to the relationship, & "loving" her - that's irrelevant for one night stands. But when it was with my girlfriend, well you always become closer. After the first few times that is. But when it becomes a routine type thing, then the relationship doesn't change much.
Now, if you're asking because you want to sleep with a guy & you're wondering what it will lead to... Make sure he loves & respect you! A guy only stays with a girl that he respects.
2007-09-07 23:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Long story so hang around
I was????? 17 i think
We stayed together for 2 years...well two days shy of two years
We broke up and tried and stay friends....but apparently I'm good at what I do and she wanted me back...so I stopped talking to her.
I moved out had a small stint with one other girl
Then my roommate threw a big party...he later bailed on his own party
She was there and after a few snide remarks and several drinks later.....we were back at it...like rabbits.
Now I live with the ***** and she always brings up getting married. Seems like I would have learned my lesson but I didn't
But yeah I do still love her....Now I am also comfortable with her
2007-09-07 22:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Scratchy_Joe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did it because she wanted it; I didn't. We were together two and a half years. I thought of her more as a friend and it was awkward and during that time it only happened twice. We continued to see each other for a while but I moved to a different city. She got really fat after that and blamed it on me because I wouldn't marry her. I told her I made it clear at first that I didn't want to get married - ever - so it was not my fault that she ballooned.
2007-09-07 22:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was just a friend. There was never a relationship there and there probably was never going to be one.
i still liked her after it, but didn't pursue it because she didn't seem to have the same interest.
She was a crush of mine for a short time.
2007-09-07 22:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by my_name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i loved my first, i thought it was ok the first time i was kind of nerves but still wanting to do it. and after finishing the first time we made out for 10 min. then got back in 6 different times
2007-09-07 22:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by KrAzY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i fell in love with a girl named ashley last year and surprisingly she was in love with me too so we gave it a whirl, and it sure was different for the both of us. the hard part was we never kissed anybody else in our life so that took some time to get used to.and i do call her my one and only cause we have never been more close with anybody else
2007-09-07 22:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jessee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as I have already stated, it was expensive
it was really quite nice, she was about my age, she was at least pretending to like it, maybe she even did
I was 18 or something, all the girls before that said no
after you wait like 10 years you kind of need it
2007-09-07 22:53:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋