Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

If your mate suggest that you can learn how to be more giving when you already pay all the bills, take care of the kids, and ect. What the sad part is your mate doesn't work and suggested that you not only pay his or her fines but you help him or her get their license back that clearly didn't have anything to do with you. Would this blow your mind?

2007-09-07 17:09:20 · 25 answers · asked by Promise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

an age gap of say, 4 years??

2007-09-07 17:08:56 · 16 answers · asked by dixie_chick 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 17:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced for four years now. Prior to the break up and ending up in a sour note, I raised this question from my ex-wife. My question was: "In the event we divorce and the time will come when we will reconcile, I will only ask you one question. And that question entails: Have you slept with another man or had casual sex with other men during our separation." Naturally any educated person could anticipate the woman would not divulge the truth -- e.g. she had been intimate with another person. And to the women reading this article would raise the question to me: "How would you know if your ex-wife was telling the truth or not." Naturally if my ex's response was "yes" she would jeopardize her chance of reuniting with me. Or is this type of speculation would be better to remain unanswered. Yes it is possible that my ex-wife MIGHT practice abstince during the four year separation. Sincere replies only please. Thanks

2007-09-07 17:07:58 · 28 answers · asked by Luis D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When there's no way you can do anything about them, and you see the person all the time?

2007-09-07 17:06:51 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 17:05:21 · 9 answers · asked by pradeep k 1 in Weddings

leaving is an option
staying is an option
death is an option
I rather have an option that will help not hinder me.
Do you have experience in or with a person who's in recovery? Do you have honest advice you can give me?
Friends, an understanding ear and good advice is what I'm asking for....thanks

2007-09-07 17:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever i am nervous i get very hyper and end up embarrassing myself, and whenever i am around my crush i get nervous and make a fool of myself...
how can I calm down enough to seem normal?

2007-09-07 17:03:18 · 30 answers · asked by miss addicted 2 in Singles & Dating

my bff elain told me last week that she was mentally retarded when i didnt believe her she showed me her docters results and now when ever i even look at her i cant help but feel a bit wierded out. how do i overcome this?

2007-09-07 16:57:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My history for being in trouble is legendary with any one who knows me. I got pregnant my senior year in high school and was due during my graduation... I got married as soon as I turned 18 to a illegal immigrant who hates America. Now I am over $30,000 dollars worth of debt from a company on my name.
I can't seem to keep my husband sober and my two children are sometimes more than I can handle. Every day I wake up and it is the same story or getting worse. I have been held back from getting my education to become a nurse by my husband who continues to say he will take care of everything, while all my bills are snowballing to gross proportions.
I don't even have a drivers license yet, because Hubby always has an excuse not to take me. I am going to be 21 next month and I feel like my life has hit its end. It is to the point where I don't even know where to start on getting my life back on track. Does anyone have some advice???

2007-09-07 16:54:14 · 21 answers · asked by marymouse26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately i really don't get much done in a days time and it really gets me mad at myself... What can i do to get the most out of a single day.. can you offer up any tips that might help me ? If I keep up my current ways.. i will never be successful .. It seems like theres always too much to do and i never have enough time ... or any control over my life lately...

2007-09-07 16:50:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-07 16:50:26 · 22 answers · asked by John L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i just started 8th grade, but at a different school then what i went to in 6th and 7th.
so theres a guy named thomas that i really like.
he talked to me on my first day and was really nice and he always glances at me during class.
im pretty sure he likes me at least a little bit.
but the problem is that when he talks to me it seems kind of like hes flirting but, im so shy and not very witty, i just cant think of anything to say back except for "yes" or "no".
what are some good things for me to do to get to know him and for him to get to know me??
and what are some good flirting tips???

thank you to everyone!!! :]

2007-09-07 16:47:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can a wife get alimony if she is a service holder? Can she claim the jewellery gifted byher inlaws?

2007-09-07 16:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by puja s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, Shawn said he wanted to have a baby... That is something that I don't agree on but he wants to have a threesome... He said he wants to try to get me pregnant while having a threesome with my childhood friend... My friend's name is Margaret... We been friends since the 1st Grade... I have dated Shawn for two months... That is kinda the reason I don't want to have a baby... I don't feel comfortable having sex and being naked in front of a childhood friend and I'm definately not ready to have children and I KNOW I AIN'T GOING TO SHARE MY BOYFRIEND!!! I told him that I didn't want a child and didn't want to have a threesome.. But my crys fall on deaf ears... What is a girl to do?

2007-09-07 16:46:11 · 45 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a stept sister. I like her. not as a friend...like like her. I have a crush on her but im not realy sure if tis ok to feel this way. I noly ask this cus were not related what-so ever...but i like her... IS this right or wrong?

2007-09-07 16:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he is only 13 and not planning to go to collage and (atleast he claims) he is'nt a virgin. how could i convince him that collage is the way to go otherwise its walmart or mcdonalds for the rest of his life.

2007-09-07 16:42:54 · 4 answers · asked by conƒused-little-man 2 in Friends

What can I say or do to my boyfriend to make him happy? I love him so much and all we do is make out. It is getting kinda boring.

2007-09-07 16:41:17 · 3 answers · asked by sephora hawtie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 16:40:38 · 1 answers · asked by Connor27 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 16:40:22 · 39 answers · asked by sousaphone_player 3 in Singles & Dating

I had talked to him at 3:30 and had not heard from him since then I was calling all night because I was worried and he has never done this, he gets home at 9:30 tells me his phone is dead and he has a car charger, and we have 3kids all of them were worried , he said he was at the shop at his job but he told me when i had talked to him earlier he was getting ready to leave to check on job about 30 minutes from where we lived and he told our friend he works with he was getting ready to come home help me please! IM drunk and upset tonight!

2007-09-07 16:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by Texasmom26/30 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok see i have this friend and he called me last week and told me he was in jail
so u kno he gave me a address and what not so i can write him
well i have a problem.. my mom is sorta actually is a nosey person and would read my mail in a min! once he reply back to me...she is gonna go off and gonna idk what she would do but somethin crazy
now my question is ( i kno its a a stupid question but i dont mail letters im only a teen all i kno is e-mail) So my question is can i write him without a return address? will it still go to him?
Also, if not how could i get away with this without my mom finding out? bc she gets the mail 1st bc we use a p.o box please help ( sorry about the grammar and spellin mistakes i jus don't want yall to think im stupid lol ) so if u have any advice please can u help

2007-09-07 16:39:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just want to be happy, i am a christian raised in a baptist church and i know all the "answers" but that does not seem to help, i am 22 and i have only had one real girlfriend 2 years ago, i want to date someone i ask but never a date, i am lonley and want to be married, i just want life to begin. i love god but i dont seem to be able to get close to him, i still feel empty and lost. i have a great job and i thank God for it but i also still feel like a looser..... What is wrong with me??? i have always thought about suicide but have never wanted to act on it. but why do i have those thoughts all the time? i can't give the devil the victory!!!! i know i am a child of the king!!!! please help.

2007-09-07 16:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Teddy 1 in Singles & Dating

My 5yr old told me today that he doesn't like his heart and that he doesn't feel special. He does have a new baby sister ( 18mths ) and we try to spend as much quality time together as a family, but this nearly killed me to hear this, has anyone else experienced this ? I need help with the type of questions I can ask, to have him explain what's going on in his head ( or heart ). He doesn't like to play much on his own and it's difficult for me to keep him occupied sometimes. Any thoughts?

2007-09-07 16:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by dishjunkey 1 in Family

2007-09-07 16:37:26 · 47 answers · asked by angelpunk17 1 in Friends

For several years now, I've been living a second life. I go to BDSM events throughout the country and usually say that I am going to an Anime convention or something. I've told some of my trusted friends and of course my slave knows. I've even told my sister in case something happened, and I always have my cell phone.

My question is, my folks are opposed to it (from what I've gathered). I hate lying to them, but I think they would force me to see a shrink if I told them because they think it's wrong. Do they have a right to know what I do with my life? Or does the old addage still apply "what they don't know, won't hurt them"?

If you think I should, does anyone have any advice on how to break it to them?

If you think I shouldn't, does anyone have any advice on what I should tell them when I have bruises or the like?

This is a VERY personal issue for me, please help.

2007-09-07 16:37:21 · 18 answers · asked by tech_guy_towt 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

you know, when you meet someone new and hit it off right away, then the next day when you think about them and everything you did the night before this piercing feeling in your belly comes and it tickles? when you focus on it when it happens it kind of hurts but you love it anyway? what's going on in there? haha.

2007-09-07 16:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...even if you didn't want him to do it? Would you feel freightened and uneasy or proud of him he was taking a stand?????

2007-09-07 16:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by terry_powerprofit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to ask for a hug or kiss and we have only had sex like 15 times within the past two years.If I ask him what's going wrong he'll say he watching TV or playing Xbox . The only time he wants to show affection is around our famiIies I have never been rejected by a man EVER !!!! I am seriously considering ending this joke of a marriage. I would rather be alone than to be unhappy.

2007-09-07 16:36:13 · 24 answers · asked by D J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was curios to its actual helpfullness and how much it cost, please no snide comments. I really think having a healthy sexual reationship and if you can do something to make it better, like toys and etc then go for it. I appreciate adult answers.

2007-09-07 16:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by DamnBiatchYouKnowYourStuff! 2 in Marriage & Divorce