My boyfriend, Shawn said he wanted to have a baby... That is something that I don't agree on but he wants to have a threesome... He said he wants to try to get me pregnant while having a threesome with my childhood friend... My friend's name is Margaret... We been friends since the 1st Grade... I have dated Shawn for two months... That is kinda the reason I don't want to have a baby... I don't feel comfortable having sex and being naked in front of a childhood friend and I'm definately not ready to have children and I KNOW I AIN'T GOING TO SHARE MY BOYFRIEND!!! I told him that I didn't want a child and didn't want to have a threesome.. But my crys fall on deaf ears... What is a girl to do?
2007-09-07 16:46:11 · 45 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to find someone else... But for some reason, I can't... :(
2007-09-07 16:51:09 · update #1
I'm 26... Turned 26 on last Friday..
2007-09-07 16:52:45 · update #2
What do you mean publish this? I'm not trying to be on the Maury show or Jerry Springer!!
2007-09-07 16:56:04 · update #3
my2cents, I'm not a child... If you could read.. I'm 26!! :P
2007-09-07 16:57:44 · update #4
Margaret is 25, I'm 26, and my boyfriend is 27.. He is turing 28 in November... What the hell are you talking about? There is no minors...
2007-09-07 18:07:06 · update #5
Hi There, You can ask God to help you out with this. He is there for you. YOu could stay with your bf or find someone that does not want a baby. Any way good luck on it. Be brave. God loves you so much. God bless you. Or you could ask God to help you find someone else for you. That is way cool and kind and sweet.
2007-09-07 16:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Having sex with a minor is "statitory rape" for you both.
According to the law. There is no "legal consent" by a minor,
even if it is mutual. So don't do it. Shawn is a "petifile." and
that is the only reason for the threesome. You both will end up
in prison, and there he will be having a threesome alright.
And when you both do get out of prison. You have to register
as a "sex offender" for the rest of your life.
What's a girl to do?
Call with any problem, Anytime:
Girls and Boys Town National Hotline
Phone: 1-800-448-3000
Email: Hotline@girlsandboystown.
org
They have the trained professionals
to help you with this. Please call now. <}:-})
2007-09-07 17:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loved you he would put stress on you especially for nasty dumb stuff like this. Dump and I repeat DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!
And don't let age be a factor there's someone out there for you. If you stay with him you will be constantly wondering why you put up with his crap.Or you do something you'll regret. Especially since ya'll only been together for 2 months . Count this as a blessing for letting it be revealed what kind of man he really is. Take the hint and run for the hills girl. Shoo just scare and ask to do it with one of his guy friends instead.LOL JK
2007-09-07 16:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by I am mizz chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are very young and naive. No, you don't have to have sex with your friend and no you don't go making a baby with someone you've known for 2 months. What is there to cry about? Get a backbone and stop acting childish. Tell him to go to h.ell next time he's trying to push your buttons.
2007-09-07 16:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by marie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should certainly not have a baby with someone you have only known for 2 months. I would make sure that you are the one supplying the condoms...just in case! I would also suggest getting on the pill.
As for sharing your boyfriend, do not do it! And tell him that if he doesn't stop bringing it up then you will no longer be in the relationship with him.
2007-09-07 16:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
most guys who want a threesome are not trying to make a baby. so either he's whack, you're whack, or he's feeding you a line to get you and your friend at the same time. since your cries are falling on deaf ears, it's time to lose the loser because he's probably going to make a move on the friend with or without you.
2007-09-07 16:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by jealous elf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! Run in the oposite direction!! If won't listen to what you have to say.. that's reason enough!!! Only 2 months and he wants a child? It takes 2...and to want a 3some also?! he is a control freak trying to get you to do something you don't want...HE IS A TOTAL LOOOOOZERRR... it wont get better..it will only get worse...only 2 months with this guy...get out NOW!!!
2007-09-07 16:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by moon_mistress_in_the_night 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.
there is nothing wong with having a baby, or a threesome or sex with a childhood friend. lots of people do it every day. but they all want to do it, you dont.
and getting you pregnant and a threesome at the same time is kind of out there.
2007-09-07 16:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there!
You could ruin your friendship with your childhood friend. A child should be a decision the two of you make, not three..
If he doesn't want to listen to you then let him go, he's not for you
good luck
2007-09-07 16:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by whirla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop that guy like a freaking rock.
If you don't feel confortable fullfilling his requests, then tell him. Explain to him why you don't want to fullfill his requests. If he fights and complains get rid of him. If I were you, I wouldnt get pregnant with a guy ive been going out for 2 months. I would have a baby with a man I have spent years with.
2007-09-07 16:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by ☮ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, GIRL it's time to dump his ***. You need to go to school and get a job. This guy has been around for 2 months and he want's a baby and a threesome. GIRL ('cause woman is too far for you right now) you need to keep your legs closed, dump this piece of poop BOY you got and go read a book.
Your cries fall on deaf ears. WTF?!?!!?!? Say NO and mean it. What grade are you in now....7th????
Get away from this loser and keep your legs closed. You sound like a child.
2007-09-07 16:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋