Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

Today I told my bf after school, that I thought he was being too 'clingy' because he said he loved me twice, and were just in a begining of a realationship and also how he wanted to come along to the halloween dance with me and my group of friends, and i told him today that it made me feel unconftorable and that i feel like i need a bit of space and then i gave him a hug and walked home. but also i feel like he is clingy with his words, or something but he's not really flirting with me... like on our first date i kept thinking "why hasnt he out his arm around me" well, now im thinking he was probably shy at the time. so idk i kinda pushed him to kinda do that when i rested my head on his shoulder in the movies, and he held my hand, i did that to show him i want to be flirted with, and i rather did that than confront him about that too, because it would feel awkward to confront him about why he isnt flirting , 1 sec

2007-09-07 17:56:47 · 25 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is STILL giving me the silent treatment over my going to dinner with another man while he was out of town but I don't understand it at all. I wish he would just get over it since nothing happened and it was just a casual dinner. It's getting to be really childish! Just this morning he left me a note saying he had to go out of town again on Monday and to pack his bags, instead of just telling me this! He has also resorted to writing notes about other little things too like about what he what's for dinner and to take his clothes to the dry cleaners! It's getting really annoying now! Does anyone think this is childish?

2007-09-07 17:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have girlfriend who s of very open type of nature n iam also though iam not able to give her INDICATIONS that i want her on bed and to know tat she also wants me or not iam afraid wat n how to do...as its my first time.....we speak about everything even sex but not with each other ....

2007-09-07 17:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by checkinharsh 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys: do you like it? if you do, tell me how you like it. how you like it best, like how she talks, what she says, what she does. if you don't like it, tell me why.

Ladies: What do you think about girls who make the first move towards men? do you do it yourself. any past experience? do you think women should do this or should men make the first move? if you do this yourself, please tell me your way of doing it.


most descriptive answer gets ten points. :]

2007-09-07 17:53:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

$2000 and i have to pay for the honeymoon with whats left

2007-09-07 17:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Weddings

2007-09-07 17:52:43 · 10 answers · asked by emily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy on and off for over a year. I love him so much! He's nice, funny, thoughtful and when I'm with him it seems like everything in the world is perfect.

He's 21 and has been out of high school for over 3 years. He's been fired from 2 jobs in the 6 months. He has no plans, is undecided about a career, lives at home, doesn't really plan on going to college and can't find a real job.

I want to be with him so bad but I'm pretty sure that will me an I'd be taking care of him and making more money than him or even worst be t he only working adult in the household.

So I'm not sure if it's worth the risk or if I should try and find someone who wants the same things I do. I just graduated and I start college in the spring. I'm going to get a Master's degree. I plan on owning my own home, car, and starting college funds for my children before they're even born. I don't want to struggle through life like my parents did.

2007-09-07 17:52:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is 14... and naive as far as I am concerned. I have caught her doing a lot of things lately, like sneaking out, and talking to guys who are my age about drinking. I'm 17. I've laughed everything off up until this point, but I'm starting to worry that she will make the same mistakes -- that being getting into trouble with older guys -- that I did at her age. I can't decide whether to have a serious talk with her or just let her make her own mistakes... help me decide. Thanks.

2007-09-07 17:51:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm so lonely. I'm a freshman in college across the country from where my family is. My sister, who used to be my best friend, won't talk to me on the phone, but right now I need her so much.

I live in a triple, and my two roommates click with each other, but not so much with me. I don't want to go to parties because I don't drink and I have a lot of social anxiety. I just feel very lonely and depressed all the time. I began looking for Sufjan Stevens tickets in my college's city, to lure my sister, but then I cried when I found out that he wasn't playing in Oct. this year, but that he played in Oct. last year. I felt stupid thinking I could bribe her, but I miss her so much. I'm worried about her too. She got her GED (she's 16) because she was having lots of problems. She's brilliant too, and she wants to go to college, but she doesn't think she can get in. I don't know if she's jealous of me, because I'm in college and that I'm going to where she would like to have gone.

2007-09-07 17:50:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i hate them! my mom acts so annoying and acts very ridiculous towards me and is just so angry at times. then my sister on the other hand looks like a tramp with her clothing and sleezy personality. then my dad is a huge jerk! you need to see it to believe it. how do i get over this?

2007-09-07 17:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i dont know whose baby it is but i have a feeling its not my husbands. omg what should i do!!! help

2007-09-07 17:41:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A lot of teen activities are from 7-12 or 8-12. Including church activities.

2007-09-07 17:40:42 · 9 answers · asked by rundelltoni 1 in Family

there's this girl I haven't seen in a few years that won't stop sending me messages on myspace. i wrote her back the first few times catching up on old times - like married, 2 kids, happy home. but now she seems obsessed and writes stuff like "i know you saw my last message - write me back" and "i'm disappointed, it's been a whole day since you've emailed me". i don't want to hurt her feelings by deleting her, but it's awful annoying - any advice?

2007-09-07 17:38:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

har khushi aapke hisse mein
har gham humare hisse mein
har aasani aapke hisse mein
har mushkil humare hisse mein
har muskurahat aapke hisse mein
har mayusi humare hisse mein
aur kya kahe ae mere dost humara
har pyaar aapke hisse mein
aapka har nafrat humare hisse mein
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ek ek pal,ek ek arsa ki tarah guzarta hai
ek ek pal,ek ek arsa ki tarah guzarta hai
dil mein jo dard hai woh kanch ki tarah chubta hai
pyar sab ke liye banaya hai
seh ke liye bas dard aur gham ka saaya ha
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Dil mein jo tadap hai bechani kaise bataye kisiko,
jab seh par barosa nahi kisiko.
dost jisse samjha humne woh bewafa nikle
pyar karke bataya nahi jaata kisiko
jo tadap humare dil mein hai,woh na de kisiko
par Allah har khushi de har kisiko .

2007-09-07 17:37:05 · 20 answers · asked by SmArTy SeHeR cHaNd 4 in Friends

2007-09-07 17:35:32 · 5 answers · asked by John L 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, whenever one of my freinds who is 2 years younger then me (we went to grade school together and all lived down the street from eachother) throws a party they bring some of there HS freinds from there class.

Theres this girl, I THINK she MAY have been giving me some signals or something like that (Laughing at jokes, talking to me ect...). IDK really, but ahh its hard to explain. I would like to get to know her better but I can't remember for the life of my what her name was.

I had an Art class with her when I was a senior, so she knows who I am from somewhere other then our freinds.

the real problem comes with that since they are 2 of my best and oldest freinds, they know me, and they know how I get around girls, and they also know the brooding they are gonna have to deal with from me ect ect ect.... (BUT THATS IN THE PAST)

So I just need some tips on how to get them to drop some information I can use to try to get to know this girl or something like that.

2007-09-07 17:35:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-07 17:27:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-07 17:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by Diva Mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I am a sophomore, && my best friend is a junior. I liked him for about 3 months before telling him. He said he liked me also, but really didn't want to have a relationship because he just really doesn't want one right now, and that I understand. So I thought I was really over him. My other friend, who is also a junior, just told me he liked me. I told him that I liked him too, because I do, but he hasn't asked me out yet. My first friend, left home about 3 days ago. No one had heard from him, or knew where he was. I was really worried. I told my friend that I loved him. I know that I really dont know what love is, and I'm not saying I do, but I really do care deeply about him. Hes coming home now, so I feel better. I just don't know what to do about the other guy. Yes, I do have some feelings for him, but I dont know that its enough. He plans to ask me out monday. I kinda feel like I lied to him, or that he will think that. Suggestions on how to deal with this? And explain myself?

2007-09-07 17:25:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have found through some BAD choices in relationships, that sometimes maybe I need to EDUCATE MY HEART!! ~~ because, it sure made some bad decisions!!

2007-09-07 17:25:38 · 25 answers · asked by 100% ♥Creole♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

By intimidate, I mean that they're older than me and I think they'll find me boring. I'd love to speak to them because I always see them having fun and laughng a lot. I kind of wish I could just be like that.

How can I work up the courage to speak to them?

2007-09-07 17:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Hailey 3 in Friends

Either through actions or words.

2007-09-07 17:25:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've noticed about half of the women I see or more are attractive. About 1% of the guys I see are attractive.

I'm a straight woman, which sucks, cuz men are so ugly in general.

So why do men have to be so ugly?

2007-09-07 17:24:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone look at my 360 page and check out my pix, I want my hotti rating from guys also things that are good, and things that are bad......also from girls how to improve.......thanks!

♥

2007-09-07 17:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is purely a logical type question so please remove any moral belief from it please. Back before legal abortions on demand there was a phrase called "if you play you pay" meaning if you had sex and the girl got pregnant then both parties would be stuck with the baby, either by marriage or child support. The US Supreme Court said that women are the only ones that can chose to have an abortion or not because it is their bodies and is a matter of privacy. It is HER choice to have a kid. If the man wants it but she doesn't the man has no choice if she aborts. So why then, if it is HER choice to have the baby, does the man have to pay child support for her choice? It was HER choice to have the baby so why should the man be stuck with the ramificatins of HER choices, after all, it was a private matter and HER CHOICE?

* I made some words bold for emphisis.

2007-09-07 17:19:51 · 11 answers · asked by badbender001 6 in Singles & Dating

Alot of the guys i know are so gross .. what are women thinking...

2007-09-07 17:17:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

two of my friends got into an argument.let's call them friend A and friend B.i know what happened,and i know friend A is wrong, but wouldn't accept it and tries to pin the fault with friend B.she started harrassing her by texting and calling her everyday,kinda threatening her to tell about her private life,her secrets.now i feel disgusted,sad,and very disappointed with friend A.she calls us her bestfriend,but her treatment of my other friend is just so wrong.now i got turned off with friend A.i have stopped responding to her calls (she would bring up the same topic over and over again,and let me know that she's right).she wouldn't listen to reason because in her rationalization,she's right.but she's sooo wrong.i have lost my respect,trust and love for this friend,because if she could easily do this,she can do this to any of her friends.now i feel empty and sad,for i considered her as a sister.what should be the best thing to do?

2007-09-07 17:16:49 · 2 answers · asked by naiobe 2 in Friends

Ok well a few months ago I caught my 21-year old boyfriend looking at a whole bunch of porn online. I got really creeped out because he was looking at mostly legal porn, but he also downloaded a few things in limewire that were illegal (child porn, pthc). He was also looking at anime porn. I don't understand because we'd have sex almost everynight but he'd still go online after I fell asleep and he'd look at this porn 3 feet away from me while I was sleeping. He's been looking at porn for a long time so I see from looking at my temp internet files. When I found out I was extremely upset. Is he a pedophile? Should I break up with him if he's not doing it anymore? I'm really not sure what to do.

2007-09-07 17:16:06 · 46 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Singles & Dating

First thing first, my sister got her laptop computer taken away today as a consequence for lying to my parents (she's 15... I'm 13).
Today, while I was at a rehearsal, I accidentally forgot to log off of my computer. I have a Mac, so every time Safari (which like Internet Explorer) opens, it records your history.
When I got back from rehearsal, I saw that she'd gone on a few website on my computer while I was gone (I saw this on my history in Safari).
I normally log off ALL the time, and a password is needed to get back in that only I know.
Considering that I'll try my best to prevent this from happening again, should I confront my sister about it? - OR should I confront my parents about it?
Should I confront both my parents and my sister? - OR Should I just keep quiet?
Which, do you think, would be the right think to do? =\

Thank you so much for your help!

2007-09-07 17:13:06 · 43 answers · asked by Life On Wheels 2 in Family

HOW AUDACIOUS MUST SHE BE to do something like that

she's not 21, she's 18 for God's sake, she's barely an adult

Yea she can do whatever she wants, but she must be responsible

Sending nude pictures of yourself to her boyfriend, what does that suggest to her fans?

SEX IS IMPORTANT yea thats the message shes sending!

Just like a month ago she said on a magazine that she was brought up as a child with morals instilled in her and she wanted to be a role modelWHAT A HYPOCRITE

is this how a role model supposed to be... be sexually involved with your significant other?

And people say she's doing it in private...SO that means what she says about herself (And how she acts) in public means is untrue and that she's a faker and she's leading a double life!

FIRE HER CANDY @ss Disney!

Why are people giving excuses and giving her the benefit of the doubt

Yea she committed a mistake, but this isn't a little mistake like a parking ticket

2007-09-07 17:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends