my friends and i have known each other for so long,or so i thought.?

Question

two of my friends got into an argument.let's call them friend A and friend B.i know what happened,and i know friend A is wrong, but wouldn't accept it and tries to pin the fault with friend B.she started harrassing her by texting and calling her everyday,kinda threatening her to tell about her private life,her secrets.now i feel disgusted,sad,and very disappointed with friend A.she calls us her bestfriend,but her treatment of my other friend is just so wrong.now i got turned off with friend A.i have stopped responding to her calls (she would bring up the same topic over and over again,and let me know that she's right).she wouldn't listen to reason because in her rationalization,she's right.but she's sooo wrong.i have lost my respect,trust and love for this friend,because if she could easily do this,she can do this to any of her friends.now i feel empty and sad,for i considered her as a sister.what should be the best thing to do?

Answer 1

Tell both of them to settle their differences and to leave you out of it!

Tell them that you like them both and will not be drawn into their argument. If they can't put aside their argument when they are around you, don't bother to come around.

Also tell them that if they choose not to make piece with each other, that is OK as well. Just don't expect you to pick between them.

In case you didn't pick up on my message, don't get involved in the argument. When you are with them, tell them that you don't want to hear them complaining about the other and that you'd like them to make peace. If they don't like that, maybe both of them will leave you alone and you can find friends that aren't at daggers drawn with each other.

Good Luck, being caught in the middle means you catch hell from both sides.

Doc

Answer 2

just tell friend A that she's wrong and tell her to not get mad..... tell friend A & B to just settle this. if they do not want to be friends, just tell them to leave u out of this...