Confusing relationships...?

Question

So I am a sophomore, && my best friend is a junior. I liked him for about 3 months before telling him. He said he liked me also, but really didn't want to have a relationship because he just really doesn't want one right now, and that I understand. So I thought I was really over him. My other friend, who is also a junior, just told me he liked me. I told him that I liked him too, because I do, but he hasn't asked me out yet. My first friend, left home about 3 days ago. No one had heard from him, or knew where he was. I was really worried. I told my friend that I loved him. I know that I really dont know what love is, and I'm not saying I do, but I really do care deeply about him. Hes coming home now, so I feel better. I just don't know what to do about the other guy. Yes, I do have some feelings for him, but I dont know that its enough. He plans to ask me out monday. I kinda feel like I lied to him, or that he will think that. Suggestions on how to deal with this? And explain myself?

Answer 1

really confusing...just talk to him, he might understand

Answer 2

So you like two guys. You told them both that you like them. You are feeling guilty. Why? You are allowed to like as many people as you want and you are allowed to tell people the truth. That's ok. You are not married, engaged, or even dating either of these guys. Do you really think that they are expecting you to be "faithful" to them? Be yourself. Be honest. Don't lie to either of them, or anyone else And don't promise to 'go with', as in date exclusively, either of them, because it is really obvious that you are not ready to be in an exclusive relationship. You should just make friends, have casual dates--maybe group dates or double dates. Take it easy. It's not time to get married! Really. It's ok to like two guys. Just don't play games with anyone.