i hate them! my mom acts so annoying and acts very ridiculous towards me and is just so angry at times. then my sister on the other hand looks like a tramp with her clothing and sleezy personality. then my dad is a huge jerk! you need to see it to believe it. how do i get over this?
2007-09-07 17:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh, and they are sooo friggin LAZY!
2007-09-07 17:48:57 · update #1
Instead of talking behind their backs, saying things you know would hurt them terrifically, try communicating with them. So, you sound pretty opionated, you know what you don't like about the, try finding things you do like about them. Put your ego and pride aside, and really look at your family. What are some good things? What do they find annoying about you? Have you ever asked them, I'll be they'll say you are judgmental and feel you are better than they. If they feel this way it's because they are reading and feeling your vibes toward them. Try helping your sis with makeup and fashion tips; try to find out why your mom is so angry sometimes, be her right hand instead of disrespecting her so. Does your dad work and provide for you and does your closet have clothing and shoes and purses and coats and are you fed and have a roof over your head? Stop complaining and try to be part of the solution.
2007-09-07 17:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get over it, they're you're family. The closest people you've got in this world. Instead of bad-mouthing them, you have that "Family Talk". It really helps. You should respect your family no matter what. Especially your parents, I mean, if not for them, would you be alive? As for your siblings, you've got to stick by each other. You can't rely on your friends forever, but you can rely on your family always no matter what their personalities are.
2007-09-08 03:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lamia T Vamp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chitown, give it another year.and reply back. Let me guess, your about 13-16 yrs old right?We all thought our parents were square and our siblings were being "chosen over us" !!!!! Time will tell. So just be open minded and wait for the hormones to even themselves out , OK?
2007-09-08 00:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're the perfect child...right?
They probaby have problems that wishes not to share with the kids. And with those problems, they fail to recognize the way your sister dresses and your TEMPER !!! Address the issue with your sister and don't call her a tramp.
2007-09-08 00:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't something you "get over"
But you can accept them as they are and just get on with your own life.
If you are of age, move out and get your own life. If you are still a minor, keep to yourself, focus on your goals and dream of the day you get to escape
2007-09-08 01:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like all you do is complain about them. I really can't help you. Think about the good instead of the bad..maybe?
2007-09-08 00:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hae no idea how old you are if you are old enough and can leave do this and don't look back you can go to foster home and they can do it just go to school and they will move you abuse can do it. take care.
2007-09-12 00:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.i knw wat u feel..My mums great with sarcasm,my dads a freak playboy and my sis has her own world...u knw what..just forget about them....live ur life..do wat can make u happy..but does not hurt u..(dont get into drugs!!!! or jump into sex!!) travel..be with ur relatives,frens,....join a frat..the nice one..sing!!!
2007-09-08 01:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by arnz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋