i have girlfriend who s of very open type of nature n iam also though iam not able to give her INDICATIONS that i want her on bed and to know tat she also wants me or not iam afraid wat n how to do...as its my first time.....we speak about everything even sex but not with each other ....
2007-09-07 17:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by checkinharsh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude...if u dotn talk about sex with ur gf, u need to start talking before you get into teh act...start talking about about filmstarts who is seeing who..and who is sleepipng with whom..girls love that goddip...then go ahead to talking about how sex is natural and how this is the right age to check things out....if she is scared of sex, probably u can suggest mutual masturbation initially which can later on develop into more activities...
or u can send ur bed to her house as a gift and she will be on ur bed every night..:)
2007-09-08 07:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should talk to each other first. Then u'll know where she stands on the subject. IF u say she's open, then all u have to do is approach her with ur thoughts and see what she thinks and feels and take it from there. U can't force anything, so if the talks don't give u desired results, be ok with that. But communication usually makes a relationship stronger. U never know, she might be ok with it too. But if u choose to engage in this, please use protection, and pray first. U want to be emotionally ready, and safe!
2007-09-08 01:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U must talk to her, compliment her, tell her she is very desirable and suggest that u need her and u need her ugently, and as she happens to be a open type of nature she will readily agree. They say that the closest way to a woman's heart is through her ears.
2007-09-08 02:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see, ur gal surly wants 2 hav sex wit u bt she is waitng it 2 start 4m ur side.. ask her she will surly giv u a frank answ ,, if she says s then satisfy her in sush a way tht she would ask 4 more n more !! bt plz dnt be WILD on her .. al the best :~)
2007-09-09 06:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by anupama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is only for married people why do you think like that. if she become to know that you think in that way she will even reject you if she doesn't think about it anymore.
Be aware..you can call her on bed, she will come surely but not for sex ok...
Love her and care for her build each other untill you get marry....
2007-09-08 02:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Prem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to yur room and make her sit on the bed and kiss her. Then the dirty deed will automatically happen even if you dont want to.
2007-09-08 01:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Buy a new BED. And ask her to come and see the new BED.
2007-09-08 01:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by thuppakki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You mean you want have dialoge with her on
BED i.e.
B- Before
E- Engagement
D- Dialoge
2007-09-08 01:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Brij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i liked the 2 answer
2007-09-08 01:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by 072594 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her to a store where yuu can buy condoms and stuff and start looking at her and then be like whatcha think about this?
2007-09-08 01:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋