im a very shy girl, (only speak when spoken to... you know that kind of nature) my friends say im a really good listener and they trust me with anything...secrets n' stuff...
but i wanted to know do guys like a girl with a quiet nature or do you like the loud and over the top kind ????
: ) thankyou for your time
2007-09-07 14:42:57 · 26 answers · asked by °o.OѕтαяѕO.o° 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loud usually signifies annoyance. For me, anyways. Just be yourself and don't worry too much about what us guys think. You do what YOU want, and trust me, one of us will find that sexy(probably more than one, eh lol) So, just chill and relax.
2007-09-07 14:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by vancup2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it really just depends on how the guy is. i like a little in the middle. On one hand i dont like girls who are overly quiet. But on the otherhand when they are one of those loud anoying chearleading type girls that never know when to shut up, that justbugs me. My advice is not to change how you are. You can try to be not as laid back but dont change yourself for other people because not all guys like a very loud and obnoxious girl. You are fine the way you are.
2007-09-07 21:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shy girls makes to guys try hard to know them and ends up being like a challenge for them .. at the long run the majority love shy and quite becuase they have respect and love to listen .. other then loud girl who talk all the time which become tireing after awhile..
2007-09-07 21:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by smoothkiller89 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy but guys like a girl who can hold a good conversation. You don't have to be a chatterbox but give your opinion about something. Guys don't like a girl that just agrees with everything he says he likes to know that you're intelligent and outspoken but not bossy or pushy and have a mind of your own.
2007-09-07 21:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quiet nature.
2007-09-07 21:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not a guy but I can tell you the majority of guys that I have dated wanted me to be myself, not who/what they thought I should be. Some guys may like the fact that you are quiet. But be careful because there are guys out here who like to take advantege of quiet girls like yourself.
2007-09-07 21:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is in between not an option? but i tend to like em not so much shy since im a bit on that side too but only in the beginning once like i kno someone i speak my mind nonstop basically
2007-09-07 21:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by crizmaz4u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we like the ones that are, all by themselves, just are. alot of times guys are just too intimidated to make a move on a girl that is reserved, too many variables, not enough information about what they like, who they really are, what kind of guy they like, or if she is shy or just really stuck up. I went thru this in highschool. i always thought i was shy, then, years later my sister in law told me she thought i was stuck up because of how i acted. it's a fine line i guess.
2007-09-07 21:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Idealguy? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love to be with a quiet and good listener girl who knows when to speak..and how much.
2007-09-07 21:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Honest_&_Loyal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and most guys will like you- only desperate guys are attracted to girls who are way over the top and throw themselves on people
2007-09-07 21:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋