Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

k well earlier in the summer i found out by one of his friends he liked me.... then we started school and i started liking him.... so i wanted my friend 2 tell him and she said it right when i was like right there. and i was so embarassed, anyway he was like ok..... your the 3rd person 2 tell me that, i think some of his friends overheard me talking..... anyone.... she kinda caught him while he was passing by and he had this kinda look on his face like half smile half weird look, it was really random and i don't think he was expecting it. he kinda looked @ me then looked @ my friend

do u think he likes me?

2007-09-07 13:09:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CAUSE I DO

2007-09-07 13:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by blasting ♥ music 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been talking to this guy the situa. is weird though we cant be real freinds /lovers so its casual. we IM eachother alot & talk about everything
we wanna hook up &we talked about how many people we have been w/ i initially lied because i havent been w/ alot of people --he clamied to be with alot of people hes 27 im 21-- + i am fat and self concious BUT i mostly dont have sex not because its not availible-& belive it or not im not ugly- but because guys suk at it and thats the truth . he said "look im not stupid, i know u arent comfortable with your body so i know u havent had sex that much, ive been with girls like u (meaning fat) before so i kinda know that" he basically assumed i was a mutant---well hes seen me in person 2x's & he said i was cute and weve even kissed -he intiated it--- but im still pissed. hes been nice to me or whatever but hes always sending me mixed signals &**** he said "damn im sorry i didnt mean it that way & your being too sensitve i4got u were

2007-09-07 13:01:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom of 2 kids ages 3 and soon to be 5. I love my kids dearly, but I am stressed! I am working it seems like 20 hrs a day. Between selling houses, online business, and the family responsibilites I am about to loose my mind. When I hit the door everyday my kids begin screaming at me that they are hungry and will ask me the same thing 10 times in 30secs.My son talks so loud people think he has a hearing problem, but he doesnt have any type of diability. My daughter is so mean sometime and I have no idea why. My kids are wonderful they are loving and very bright. For some reason they only really act like this with me.The screaming and crying ahs got to stop! I have never let them run me over but im getting tired. My mom has MS, my kid sister is pregnant, I am facing cervical cancer, and i broke up with my boyfriend of 21/2 yrs. were still friends, but I do miss him. I feel like running away. My sons dad has been mia for 3+yrs and my daughters dad lives 4states away. Im tired.

2007-09-07 13:01:07 · 40 answers · asked by lilmama24 3 in Family

I dont wanna seem to eager .........

2007-09-07 13:00:49 · 16 answers · asked by Marli 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and and I'll be 16 in a month. My father is in jail and I live with my mother. My grandparents are upper-middle class so they help out my mom and buy my siblings and I all our clothes. My grandmother and grandfather make independent incomes and manage their own finances. In the last year my grandmother has bough me braces(5,000), paid for a school trip to Italy (2,000), bought me new furniture for my 16th birthday (2,000.) I only got the furniture, and I'm not having a sweet sixteen party. My bed was broken and I got my old and than only ever furniture set when I was four. Just for the record I get pretty decent grades so it's not like I'm lazy. I am involved in a lot of clubs and I never go out and never get into trouble. I do want to get a job because I feel like I'm sponging off of my mom or grandparents whenever I ask them for money to get lunch after school. I feel guility whenever someone spends money on me. Whether it's my friends or family. Am I a moocher?

2007-09-07 12:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family

It's been almost a year. The thoughts of what happened haunt me daily. I will never forget the fact he left me for some b itch he worked with, then came crying back, but why can't it stop torturing me? I cry every single day. why did this have to happen? i can't accept this, but i don't want to leave. i cant talk to him. there are so many unanswered questions.why won't the thoughts go away? its almost like i am obsessed with it. why do i have to know what is going on in the bitches life? i hate her for ruining my family, but yet i need to see her live in misery, why do i feel the need to know what is going on in her life? when i want to forget about her? i feel so strange about it, but its like i have to know what is going on with her. ( i am refering to the coworker) i have so much hrut and anger. this hatred is tearing me apart. i have no one to turn to. everyone says forget it, well i wish i could. but this tortures me everyday and i cant control how i feel.

2007-09-07 12:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From a Mans Point Of View:I mean isn't a female supposed to be treated with respect care and love?? Why do some men abuse they're girlfriends?? From a Women's Point Of View: And why do some women accept the abuse??

2007-09-07 12:52:01 · 2 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I luv ALOT of guyz, so many guyz r so HOT and i just want them to kiss me. but theres something diffrent thats making me uneasy. I want this ONE girl, to kiss me also, along with the 5 other guys i have a crush on. Also this One girl, is my 12-year-old cousin. Im 15. Ofcourse i haven't done anything out of the ordinary to her, or made a move or giving hints. Nope i havent done a thing. I only say everything in my mind. Actually, I want her 2 kiss me. i will never kiss her first because that will just bring unnecessary problems that she does not need. and i dont want her to get as confused as i am. I dont want to make her suffer like that. But the other problem is, I Have crushes on guys. and If i see naked girls on some pictures that my guy cousins are looking at, i feel disgusted. Its only her that I feel attracted to. Also guyz from my highschool ive liked for 2 years. Whats wrong? im so confused...

2007-09-07 12:51:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok,
i'm 13 years old and i want your opinion. is 12 years old to young to start GROUP daiting?? just write if you group daited at my age or if you would let your daughter?

thanks!

2007-09-07 12:48:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyone sd that i need to meet someone but how do you do that

2007-09-07 12:45:44 · 4 answers · asked by MISS D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ohk . so theres this really cute guy i like . i`m not sure if he likes me back . he already has a girlfriend . so i`m trying to get over him . he can be a jerk sometimes but he`s cool like that . guys will be guys . he does nothing mean to me though . lots of ppl say i should just be over him . && i do try , but sometimes he`s soo nice to me , it makes him really hott that way . what do i do ? any advice . help please !

2007-09-07 12:44:43 · 15 answers · asked by ♥bbyLin 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I are on what we are both hoping to be just a break. We lived together for the last almost 2 yrs. been together almost 3. We still get together, try to do things, but when something little upsets me, I get angry and say very mean things. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions on just being content with what I have and know that I am lucky to be with him. I hate to say it but it seems to me I'm selfish when it comes to him. I just want to be more laid back, & realize that he loves me to death. Any thoughts, suggestions, experiences concerning anything like this would be appreciated. When we're together and happy, the world could not be better, but when things are bad... they can get really bad.. but it starts with me, getting so upset & freaking out. I'd just like to be able to keep the happiness alive & not get upset & dread when something doesn't go quite my way. Thanks for your input.

Any comments of demeaning or belittling nature will immediately be reported.

2007-09-07 12:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by angry & hateful, dunno why. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend wants to send a cheque through the post, what does anyone think about the reliability of the UK post office, would any of you do this?

2007-09-07 12:43:12 · 2 answers · asked by purple_ronnie_always 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Another hypothesis of mine...because I have done a nonscientific poll...and have found that people tell me they fell in love rather quickly....even though they would endorse a slower safer approach...how about you....was it quick...like a fall... or did you sensibly meander down love's tender halls until you both slowly embraced the prize.......

2007-09-07 12:39:50 · 17 answers · asked by Goldberry 6 in Singles & Dating

I will have some invitations for my wedding/reception going out to out of town guests. Some may drive, some may fly. Where do I being the directions at? The airport? Or just do the directions for the church to the reception hall? I'm not sure what to do. Or do I take the guests address and do it that way? Or include both? ...I have no clue obviously. Thanks for all your help!

2007-09-07 12:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. The other night his ex calls and wishes him on their anniversary when they first met, he let her know it was not okay to call. The next day she calls again, of course I got on the phone can call her some names ***** , how can I get her off our backs, of course she is also married. Which obviously she is not happy considering she is still thinking about her ex.

2007-09-07 12:36:22 · 25 answers · asked by Flaca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people put importance in Hillary being a forgiving wife? The Bible says adultry is grtounds for divorce. To tolerate his behavior certainly dont make her a very strong woman>

2007-09-07 12:33:01 · 16 answers · asked by Bob S 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 28 years old and I don't like settling for just any guy. I'm a person who has high standards in life. So many women will hook up with guys and sleep with them but I won't do that. I stick to my morals and beliefs. I work really hard in life and I'm attending school to become a teacher. I've never really had a boyfriend because I find it tough to meet a decent guy.

2007-09-07 12:31:34 · 3 answers · asked by P 5 in Singles & Dating

my bf can last a long time but still i cant ***. and yes i am relaxed when were doing it, and i feel nothing good! im getting so fusterated i feel like im missing out. hes the only guy i been with so im not sure if its him or me? i have to fake it so he doesnt feel bad. can he tell if i *** or not? and another question?....can he feel the difference if someone else has been inside me?

2007-09-07 12:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Becuase i have made this commentment to myself and god but sometimes i find myself worrying if i'll ever get married. Not alot of men like this idea.at least i think tey don't like it.????

2007-09-07 12:19:23 · 11 answers · asked by trueworship712 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a friend that I only see every once and awhile and only talk through email to. She just had a baby 2 months ago and I had gotten her a baby gift but never got the chance to go to her house to give it to her b/c she said she was really worn out and wasn't really up for visitors. Well, since I work with her hubby, I gave the stuff to him to take home to her today. It has probly been an hour since he went home and she still hasn't called me or emailed me a thank you letter. I am not being selfish... It would hurt my feelings if she didn't acknowledge it though. So how long should I wait for her to contact me? As in what would be a reasonable amount of time or days before you would get kinda mad?

2007-09-07 12:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have 2 kids age 1 1/2 and 6. The 6 year old has her "birth" father's last name and the 1 1/2 year old has mine(don't know who her birth father is or could be). How do I go about changing their last names when I change mine(get married)? The birth father of my 6 year old is not in her life, and would prob. sign whatever papers needed. But I don't want him to be able to "get out" of having to pay child support for her. Please help thanks.

2007-09-07 12:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Katelynn & Melissa's Mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im posting this agai nsome girl pantsed me today at school...god i was soo embaraseed because i was wearing briefs and she was like saying "aww cute" red tight briefs too be exact

the bad thing is my bulge(my penis sticking out and showing on underwear was showing)

but the good thing is that the only people who were there was her and her 2 friends..we'r pretty close (same age)

2007-09-07 12:14:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, i have a question. Ok so i'm a sophmore in high school. I don't know if i should ask this guy out that i like, we don't really know each other but we sit at the same lunch table and have the same study hall together. I really like him, but i don't know what to say to him! And i'm nervous of what he is going to say. What should i say?
Another problem i have, is my friend thinks he is cute and flirts with him. I'm kind of shy in school and i dont know how to flirt without looking stupid. I'm afraid he likes her, and won't want to go out with me.
Please everyone help me.
I dont know his phone number or anything so i cant call him and ask him if he wants to hang out. Blah idk. Im even too nervous to ask him for his number.
Help!!!!<3

2007-09-07 12:13:37 · 4 answers · asked by jenni xo 3 in Singles & Dating

Drives me nuts. >_<

2007-09-07 12:10:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-07 12:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by emma r 2 in Singles & Dating

would you still tell a girl that you love her even if you know one day it will be over?

2007-09-07 12:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many is tooo many?

2007-09-07 12:07:04 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your wife is there, she loves you and trusts you, she believes all your excuses from being late from work or traffic. What do you do to overcome the gulit. Do you ever feel like confessing?
How do you deal with it? Do you try to blame her for not being how you want her to be to help you deal with the guilt? Do you try to be nicer than usual to mislead her? What are your coping tecnques and have you ever gone close yo confessing..

2007-09-07 12:04:04 · 18 answers · asked by silver wings 4 in Marriage & Divorce