My boyfriend & I are on what we are both hoping to be just a break. We lived together for the last almost 2 yrs. been together almost 3. We still get together, try to do things, but when something little upsets me, I get angry and say very mean things. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions on just being content with what I have and know that I am lucky to be with him. I hate to say it but it seems to me I'm selfish when it comes to him. I just want to be more laid back, & realize that he loves me to death. Any thoughts, suggestions, experiences concerning anything like this would be appreciated. When we're together and happy, the world could not be better, but when things are bad... they can get really bad.. but it starts with me, getting so upset & freaking out. I'd just like to be able to keep the happiness alive & not get upset & dread when something doesn't go quite my way. Thanks for your input.
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2007-09-07 12:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by angry & hateful, dunno why. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel your pain . . I won't say anything or make comments, but you may want to take a self assessment. I have posted a site that you can read that may or may not answer some of your questions.
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2007-09-10 07:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by whyulookin4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you get angry like this with anyone or anything else? first i'd try to figure out what's making you so angry. the best way to do that is to talk to a pro. perhaps something's going on with you that you aren't aware of. there is a reason you aren't content. you need to find out what it is. when that happens, you can relax a bit and enjoy your relationship.
2007-09-07 20:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, have you ever thought that the problem may not lie in your relationship...but within yourself? Maybe you are depressed? I had postpartum depression and things were like that with my hubby...then i got some happy pills and i feel like myself again..I was the same way always wondering why I was so upset all the time and sad and angry...just a thought...
2007-09-07 19:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lonely Turkey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋