Becuase i have made this commentment to myself and god but sometimes i find myself worrying if i'll ever get married. Not alot of men like this idea.at least i think tey don't like it.????
2007-09-07 12:19:23 · 11 answers · asked by trueworship712 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think it is very possible to save sex for marriage. it is a good thing you see commitment as something relating to marriage. believe me i was there before; wondering when i would get married. but in all reality, you will attract the guy that is meant for you by the person that is reflected inside of you. when you focus on pleasing the Lord and seeking him intimately, like getting yourself in His word and living life to the fullest, you will realize that marriage is not such a big idea that society makes it out to be. don't worry about if guys don't like the fact that you're worried about getting married. it's about the person you are striving to be and the integrity that you have in saving yourself for marriage. you're still growing as a person, well everyone still is. believe me sex is so overrated. be patient and focus on having fun!!! life is so short. if you're a single woman in the Lord check out these websites, they are great articles about marriage and sometimes our assumptions about meeting Mr. Right
webhttp://www.singleness.org/assumptn.shtml andhttp://www.singleness.org/assumptn2.shtml
God bless and take care
2007-09-07 12:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by sheilaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now in days its just dumb to wait till your married. You need to go out and experience sex. Sex is not always a bad thing, safe sex is good and sex plays a major part in your health and in everyday life. What would happen if you waited till you got married say at 25 or 26yrs old and then realize that sex with your husband is not good at all? Now you're married to this guy and have to spend the rest of your life with him and have sex with just him!! You're going to regret not experiencing it first. I'm not saying to go out and be a slut, but what I am saying is that sex is different with every guy/girl. You have to experience it and find out what you like and dislike. I hope this helps you make a better decision. Good Luck!
2007-09-07 19:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's very possible. If a guy is going to have a major problem with it, they're not worth your time. I personally am not waiting for marriage specifically, but for someone who I really love.
2007-09-07 19:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what other people think, it's about what you think. If you don't want to have sex till you're married then don't have sex. Don't doubt marriage, you are gonna get married, take you're time and don't settle for anyone that you don't think is worthy of you.
2007-09-07 19:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by misskai16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to wait for marriage do it. Don't let someone pressure you into changing your mind for anything. I wish I had waited. But hindsight is 20/20
2007-09-07 19:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think if you try hard enough you can do it,and the right man would wait for you...If you do keep the commitment you will fell so much joy,happiness,love, and accomplishment
2007-09-07 19:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mommie2Be_KaTie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your goal then stick to it, there are some others who feel the same way. Remember you can still do some heavy petting
2007-09-07 19:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by Don D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you believe in than stick with it. You will get married someday just keep looking for that special one.
2007-09-09 13:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by sabri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you have a very short romance before you get married.
But if you're together for months and months or even years and year ?
No, probably not.
Sorry.
2007-09-07 19:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course! more worth it!
2007-09-07 19:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋