What would you do if your husband ex calls?

Question

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. The other night his ex calls and wishes him on their anniversary when they first met, he let her know it was not okay to call. The next day she calls again, of course I got on the phone can call her some names ***** , how can I get her off our backs, of course she is also married. Which obviously she is not happy considering she is still thinking about her ex.

Answer 1

Dont let it bother you. You have what she wants now and she cant get it anymore. Just change your hubbies number and ignore her and if you really want pay back then get even and call her ex. So dont let her get under your skin b/c she is a thing of the past and nothing anymore.
Remember you have the love of your man and no one else. So f her.

Answer 2

If he doesn't have children with this woman,then there is really no reason for her to call or him to answer. She is probably doing this to make you anxious and cause problems. So the next time she calls, be sugary sweet. Don't let her know in any way that it bothers you at all. Ask her why she is calling in a very pleasant voice and if she says"because it is our anniverrsary" say thank you very much, And I will be sure to tell my husband you called. Then hang up!!
On the other hand, if they had children together, she has a legitamate reason to be in contact with him. However the fact that you are not allowing it to cause a rift in your marriage will speak volumes to both her, and your husband.

Answer 3

I wish it was only one ex that called mine. Not only ex wives, but ex girl friends. There's been 5 in the last few months, who out of no where have found him. Some from 20 years ago.
Your husband needs to stop this, it is his responsibility. He needs to tell her even if it means he has to be mean to her that he isn't interested and doesn't want her calling like that any more. If that doesn't work, get your number unlisted.

Answer 4

Well she has some nerve doesn't she? I'd simply tell her that if she doesn't want her husband to find out she's calling she needs to stop. Then I would just not answer the phone when she calls. Doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about. If it gets to be harassment you can change your phone number or seek legal counsel. I know it is probably hard not to cuss her out but look at it this way. You already are the winner. Don't lower yourself to immaturity. Good Luck. I'd love to hear how it turns out!

Answer 5

When my ex calls, I say hello. My wife would answer the phone and she would say hello also. Of course rather than being hostile and suspicious, we have been good friends. My ex and her husband were very supportive while my wife was fighting cancer. They attended her memorial service. i stop by and shoot the breeze with him after work. Get the point? It does not have to be an ugly relationship, but it can be ugly if the parties so choose.

Answer 6

Get caller id and the "block private number" services on your phone, and screen the incoming phone calls. She obviously has issues. But don't change your phone number, you shouldn't have to.

Or you can keep a log of all her phone calls, and file a police report because it is a misdemeanor for harassing phone calls.

If she shows up at your house, tell her to leave or you will call the police and file a restraining order against her.

How sad, she is pathetic.

Answer 7

depends on if he has children by her, but it isnt that bad someone would call me up and say happy anniversary when we first met, atleast someone was thinking and not pushed off to the side. Its just being friendly i mean i wish i could have someone do that to me.


Really i think you should just be friends i mean its just childish to get rid of your ex's perminate i mean all girls i had in my past i still talk to but not on the line of getting each other back but so far as friends still. Only ones that wasnt was like my ex she was just to childish all she did was yell at you with everything she had i mean you wouldnt even have to say but one question like How are you without her arguing and etc. Other ones are disceased. its sad life but i almost end it so many times because of that

Answer 8

Do they have children together? In that case communication between them is inevitable.
If not, then be the mature one and avoid calling names again. If she calls again tell her both your husband and you would appreciate it if she would stop calling. If it happens again after that, just hang up. Don't even bother saying anything....just hang up. Then tell your husband that you need to change to an unlisted number.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

When she calls again, tell her that you're hanging up now and calling her husband. Maybe he can put a stop to her stupidity.