Am i really being to sensitive about this? who is right him or me?

Question

ok ive been talking to this guy the situa. is weird though we cant be real freinds /lovers so its casual. we IM eachother alot & talk about everything
we wanna hook up &we talked about how many people we have been w/ i initially lied because i havent been w/ alot of people --he clamied to be with alot of people hes 27 im 21-- + i am fat and self concious BUT i mostly dont have sex not because its not availible-& belive it or not im not ugly- but because guys suk at it and thats the truth . he said "look im not stupid, i know u arent comfortable with your body so i know u havent had sex that much, ive been with girls like u (meaning fat) before so i kinda know that" he basically assumed i was a mutant---well hes seen me in person 2x's & he said i was cute and weve even kissed -he intiated it--- but im still pissed. hes been nice to me or whatever but hes always sending me mixed signals &**** he said "damn im sorry i didnt mean it that way & your being too sensitve i4got u were

he even said "the girls i have slept with who have been on the heavier side were always so concious about their looks, infact they wouldnt let me keep the lights on or **** liek that, and i think thats wrong, i think if u are grown up enough to have sex u should get butt *** naked bcuz i love being naked and f*** like rabbits and who cares how anyone looks" "ok i signed back on real quick bcuz i do have to go, but annyways u are really taking things the wrong way, u have the right to be mad, but we are just talking, and i didnt reolize that i might of affended u so anyways ill tlak to u soon and sorry again, ba bye" we were suppose to hook up on monday but now he did this s-h-i-t- is he being a d-i-c-k on purpose? i may be needy or defensive but shodnt i be pissed?

i feel stupid for trying to prove sexual prowess to a whore and former crackhead but i guess since because ive only had sex since i was 19 --im now 21--i felt kinda weird, weve been talking as sorta friends for a while so i dunno i should just delete him from my IM list i guess and also be real with myself
sorry if question is leghnty but thanks for any help. did i make a mistake by talking to him or trying to-- as a friend although we met under the pretences that it would be casual. weve been talking about eachothers lives and sex parners for like 3 months hes said even if you dont wanna hook up well talk but then hes like welll even if we hook up a few times we wont meet eventually and i have deleted my IM name and list b4 too because of guilt but i wont leave without telling you most likey i dunno hes a d-i-c-k and hes not

Answer 1

sounds like he was being very honest with you

Answer 2

i usually am on the side of the lady -- this time yes i feel you are being a tad sensitive --- he is being honest and saying that he wants you to be proud of who you are and i dont think he is sending mixed signals at least he does not think he is --- he likes you and wants to know you better ---- best wishes