Ok, I know girls don't like skinny guys, but I mainly wanted to gain weight for other reasons that were affecting my performance in track. I am 19 years old, 5' 5.5" and originally weighed only 105 lbs, extremely skinny. Over the summer I went past my goal weight and hit a max of 135 (right now I'm at 130) staying on a consistent protein/ high calorie diet. While I have been lifting w/ this too, my arms still look very skinny and I only have a 29" waist. My question is what would you consider a more ideal weight for me? I still feel so self conscious and like a little weakling still because I know the majority of girls hate skinny guys.
2007-09-07
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surftaco400
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➔ Singles & Dating
i love skinny guys! i think if you gained 5-10 lbs though it would be the perfect weight. (135-140lbs).
don't think all girls dislike skinny guys. not all girls are into big muscular men! ;)
good luck.
2007-09-07 11:19:50
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answered by Kate B 3
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NO skinny guys are my type guys with a six pack thats nice to but nothing bigger than that i dont want him to make me feel smaller than i already am. A little weakling yeah i doubt it. some people are just like that. i will eat a lot than, lose it the next day dont worry (i prefer skinny guy a lot of girls do.)
2007-09-07 11:18:35
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answered by I♥EdwardCullen 3
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We don't like guys who try too hard and focus on their appearance too much. It makes you look as if you spend too much time working on improving your body and not enough time improving your mind. A bit of muscle tone and some personal hygiene standards is plenty. I would roll my eyes if I went out with a guy who was paying more attention to his appearance than me, especially if he was dieting instead of just eating sensibly.
It's not true to say the majority of guys hate skinny guys. In actual fact, many girls don't even notice a guy's looks until they've already decided he's interesting and they like him. You do have to be physically attracted to a person, it's important, but the relationship should start because you like and interest one another. "I fell in love with your hair" is a dumb reason to start a relationship, so if it works out, it's purely a fluke. Relationships are too important to leave to a fluke. You're just fine mate, if you're turning girls off, it's with your insecurity, not your looks. If you know you're a great bloke, that's enough.
2007-09-07 11:23:55
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answered by Rosie_0801 6
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A girl should like you for who you are. You may have a high metabolism and are just destined to be thin. According to health charts you are at the right weight. If you are trying to gain muscle mass, all you can do is keep doing as you have been. It is a long and hard process.
2007-09-07 11:17:15
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answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7
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I think its time to shove twinkies down ur mouth and gain wait fast then stop it and turn the fat into muscle. Muscle is more denser then fat so as u burn the fat away u become stronger and heavier. so eating junk food for 2-3 months would work and at least 2 months of excercise. ull gain like about 20-45 pounds.
2007-09-07 11:25:45
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answered by jvue16 2
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around 130 to 150
2007-09-07 11:15:30
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answered by Jen 2
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i like skinny guys and some guys that have meat on them (mussle) by the way i am 130. So i guess its okay the weight that you are but like i said i like guys with meat ( mussle) and skinny ones, its just kinda based on the personility. And i am 5' 3.5 tall,
besides that your fine
2007-09-07 11:22:52
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answered by MSC 2
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Um... I kinda prefer skinny guys to those buff ones.
You shoulder just stay the way you are. But if you're self-conscious then do what you want.
And most people would kill to be skinny like you.... so *shrug*
2007-09-07 11:17:50
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answered by the_green_eyes_found_the_black 1
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You shouldn't be doing this just to attract girls. If you're doing it for track, thats a different story. But no matter what your body type, girls go for the confident guys. You don't have to be attractive for someone to be attracted to you.
2007-09-07 11:18:55
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answered by skubity 2
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Most girls actually like skinny boys more than big muscular boys.
Unless the girl is bigger & taller than you. Then she just feels fat.
You sound fine to me.
Ask my question?
2007-09-07 11:16:00
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answered by cambrexia 4
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