Family & Relationships - 7 September 2007

whats your favourite "let down" lines?

2007-09-07 07:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by smithzer luvs bowie :) 7 in Singles & Dating

So me and my ex broke up like 5 months ago. it wasnt a rought breakup, but it wasnt all happy either.I got sick of her "games" after the breakup where we were gonna work things out. Now, its been about 4 months since i last had a conversation with her. But my really good girl friend told me the other day that my ex wants to be my friend really bad but that I make it hard because i wont even speak to her. She also said that she cant seem to let go of me for some reason. Ive lost alot of weight, have many friends and girls flock to me and she knows it.So i thought she was over me., i was COMPLETELY WRONG. Although she is dating around/hookin up, and I myself have a gf, but my heart still belongs to my ex. =\ What are some things that i could do? I am kinda mad and disappointed at her still and im trying to stay away frm her but i know deep inside that i cant fight the way i feel about her. Why is she feeling like this. Guilt? Love? Why does she try to speak to me? Does she misses me???

2007-09-07 07:34:39 · 1 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfreind is always on my ___ ! about what im doing, where im at and who i talk to.... But heres the thing. He will drive by to see if i am where I say i am. U THINK HES THE GUILTY ONE?

2007-09-07 07:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa*LiSa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 07:32:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wow \
what a response. more info... I am sexy!!! I spend a lot of time at the gym keeping in shape, and at v.s. on sexy clothing. I never nag, (hardly) and am pretty easy going. I take care of everything at the house, and kids etc. plus have helped him build his career.!!!!!! I am hurt because I am always ready for sex (anything goes) and he is NOT, and fyi I did go to the strip joint ALOne the next night, i was sooooo p******!!! I could have been taken home by any number of men, ( did not of course,) left after 2 glasses of wine. but had to see for myself, we have gone to a strip club together and that is no biggie. I am more the "teacher" as far as the bedroom goes, I really think I could not do more for him at home beside run around nude, but with two young boys it not going to happen. thanks for all the advice

2007-09-07 07:31:39 · 3 answers · asked by gwens 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently have 5 bridesmaids for my wedding, my mom and my fiance are pressuring me to add one more, my fiance's brothers wife. I cant stand her, everytime I am near her I get a stomache ache, she is mean to me about everything, from weight to my engagement ring. She is constantly comparing us and whenever I talk about my wedding with the family she has to bring up her wedding. My fiance and I live across the contry from her, and at her wedding she left me with a bunch of strangers while my fiance sat at the head table. She takes every chance to tell me how much my fiances family dislikes me. She is just bitter and mean. I just dont want to have to "deal with it" at my own wedding. My mom says that she maybe nice if I have her in my wedding, but I am not holding my breathe and I dont think its worth the risk. What do you think? Would you just "deal" or would you say no way. I somehow fell by not asking her I am stooping to her level, I need advice! Thanks!

2007-09-07 07:31:11 · 50 answers · asked by Hardcore Hon 2 in Weddings

Where are you right now?
As of home, work, and what country? Thanks!

2007-09-07 07:31:07 · 29 answers · asked by Ajlina 2 in Singles & Dating

None of us at our office have been invited to our coworker's wedding (kind of understandable due to budgetary reasons). However, our boss is hosting a bridal shower for the coworker. 1. If I go to the shower and get her a gift ($20-$25 gift card?), do I also need to contribute towards another gift for the actual wedding? If so, how much? Are they two separate gifts? 2. If I don't go to the shower, do I need to get her a shower and/or wedding gift at all? We're on friendly enough terms but aren't super close, and no, we don't work in a posh or upscale office. Thanks!!!

2007-09-07 07:30:03 · 33 answers · asked by Jane S 2 in Weddings

i know my boyfriend will never cheat on me. i know we'll eventually get married. i know he loves me more than anything. and still i find myself going through his text messages and calls getting pissed off at ANY girl who talks to him. i've NEVER been like this before. why now?!

2007-09-07 07:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex, Z &I broke up in February &I never exactly got over him. He was my first intimate man...besides kissing &stuff like that. I know, 4a fact in my heart, that i love him... still unfortunately. During this time period, he came to me &said he might want to get back together.. &then quickly pulled back &changed his mind. Then a few weeks ago, his very trustworthy friend started talking to me &he said that Z really likes me still &s just really confused about "us" He just doesn;t know if he wants 2have me back. I am a very strubborn hard *** &so I haven;t told him that i'm not over him. I don't want 2seem desperate 4him. I want him 2love me back.. not just be me loving him. I don't know whether 2tell him how i feel &try to get him back or play it off cool &remain "sort of friends". we just started talkin a few weeks ago cuz he said he made a mistake of cutting me off &wants 2b friends again. I don't want 2scare him, I'd rather be friends than nothin. Should I fight 4love or give up?

2007-09-07 07:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by ktshox 1 in Singles & Dating

We have so many differences at times it feels as though we should not even be talking. Completely opposite in nature...i am clumsy, outspoken and outward (as in have a need for people)...he is reserved, can be shy and quiet, responsible. Yet there are times when its just "bliss"...should I leave him alone? Or hang around for a while longer?

2007-09-07 07:25:09 · 3 answers · asked by sweet_intellect 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been married to my husband for 6 years. Most of my friends are males. I have never really gotten along with females. I went back to school and bonded with a male student. We have gotten along great and have done many projects together. We have exchanged cell phone numbers and still communicate even though I have graduated. We have had some pretty intimate talks. He is also married.

Can a girl and guy have a friendship that will stay a friendship without it leading to cheating? I have been told that if a guy wants to be a girls friend it is for one reason, sex. Is this true?

2007-09-07 07:21:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been dating this guy for about a week now. However, he never takes her anywhere nice. They always meet at a sleazy bar in the local neighboorhood. He has bought her flowers and she bought him candy. She calls him and he does not really call her. He will not take her anywhere nice like to dinner. He just wants to meet at the bar. Is this considered a date?

2007-09-07 07:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a couple where the husband had an affair, then got back together with his wife and went to counseling. 6 years later he has another affair and has apparently fallen in love with women he has been seeing on the side. Would counseling work for this couple again when it didn't the first time?

2007-09-07 07:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by hmbuehler1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend and I have been friends for ages. Last year he kinda acted like he had a crush on me. Looking at me in class, getting mad at the guy with a crush on me, sitting and walking with me.
But now this year, we don't know anyone but each other and you'd think that would make us closer, but he is not talking to me, yet he's talking to other girls. We've exchanged smiles and waves. That's all. Why is he doing this?

2007-09-07 07:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-07 07:15:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are getting married next year, we don't have kids and we have decided to have a wedding with out kids. We are getting married on a small boat house with the ceremony on a large floating dock. We figured it would be safer and less people. We figured to send the invites out just addressed to the parents. But our problem is my older sister is one of my bridesmaids, she has two kids, I love them, but I can't invite them with out inviting my other nephews, with all the kids will be wild. How can I tell my sister with out hurting her feelings and making parents understand?

2007-09-07 07:13:30 · 26 answers · asked by Crystal D 2 in Weddings

I am invited to a destination wedding and the hotel that the bride and groom are staying in is very expensive and gives no deals to the wedding guests. The bride and groom informed their guests of this and suggested that people find their own accommodations that are in their own price range, however guestst that will not be staying at the same hotel will have to buy a "day pass" which is approximated to cost around $75 per person, in order to enter the hotel property for the wedding. What should I do about the wedding gift? how much should it cost?

2007-09-07 07:12:04 · 12 answers · asked by katenysh 1 in Weddings

He hasn't said it... but I feel it... and it's been 4 months...I hope it's true and not because I want him too.... I love him, but I don't want to say it first.

2007-09-07 07:07:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, So I Did Like A Boy, We Used to flirt and stuff, but now, he just talks as friends, ever since he's been off his holiday, and now, this guy whos 1 year below my year [my friends little brother] and i really like him, and he flirts quite abit, but my friend likes him, what shall i do? I cant stop feeling the way i do, please help xx

2007-09-07 07:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by wowuhl 1 in Singles & Dating

Great in Bed?

or,

Really Big?

2007-09-07 07:07:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate watching people in the streets smiling and enjoying their lives, coz I’m not enjoying mine. No one understands me, no one will ever do.
I feel that I’m the only one on this f**king planet who hates people.
I’m not talking to all my friends. I hate them, they never helped me when I needed them...I think that I will be lonely forever.

2007-09-07 07:06:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

U grow to love not fall in it.........be realistic.

2007-09-07 07:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by supaflychic 1 in Singles & Dating

k so there's this guy who's a grade older than me and he really likes me. and i hung out with him for a while one day but just as friends. He hangs out with potheads and even though he says he doesn't do it i think he was high. anyways all a sudden he's practicaly on me trying to make out and im like god! then i push him and leave. then like the next day he's all like you're so prude! and he's talking trash about me. idk wat to do.

2007-09-07 07:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been dating for around a year and a hlaf and recently i found out that he lied to me and he said he did coke 4 times and mushrooms 4 times...we were on a break/dating kinda thing so its complicated.. im not sure if i should forgive him or i should stop talking to him.. please help me

2007-09-07 06:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Very Very. 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's father is a deacon of some sort that will be able to perform the ceremony but I don't know if a church will let him do it.

2007-09-07 06:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my deceased husband cheated on be while i was pregnant with our 2nd child.,17yrs ago. (it was my sister) i caught them!,in our house,they where in engaging while i was sleeping. then a few months after that i started firting with a neighbor, phone conversation ,touching ,and kissing "ONLY'. out of anger, but i never told him. should I tell my new husband what did?I only told him half of this story. what do you think?

2007-09-07 06:53:54 · 23 answers · asked by Gracie H 1 in Weddings

i need help, me and my boyfriend are tired of the same thing, give me some new ideas, not doogy style or 69 either interesting games or something fun that will get him going.

2007-09-07 06:53:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-07 06:52:58 · 16 answers · asked by phantom 3 in Weddings

Roses are Red,
Violets are Blue,
I am coming home to kiss on you,
So just lay down,
take off your clothes,
relax your body,
mind, and soul,
and hubby will do things to you,
that would make you yell out, o' baby OOOOHHHHH!!!

2007-09-07 06:51:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships