Ok, So I Did Like A Boy, We Used to flirt and stuff, but now, he just talks as friends, ever since he's been off his holiday, and now, this guy whos 1 year below my year [my friends little brother] and i really like him, and he flirts quite abit, but my friend likes him, what shall i do? I cant stop feeling the way i do, please help xx
2007-09-07 07:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by wowuhl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he changed his mind or maybe he is shy
2007-09-07 07:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lily, I never was one to give a second thought to what my friends told me to do, allow the boy to choose whom he chooses to talk and flirt with, If this is just a crush on her part and he doesn't pay her any attention, that is not your fault. Just let it happen. Tell g/f you have no control over his choices and to chill out. No offense but they are usually jealous. When a man young or old, is in persuit of a female, nothing absolutely nothing can get in his way, and they are usually not afraid to show it, or they may just be shy.
We decide how people are going to treat us by setting boundaries, if you allow your "friend" to dictate who you can and cannot speak to, again goodbye dignity. This will also show your friends you know how to handle anyone, young or old, because you know how to command respect for yourself. It is a simple concept, not always easy, but nothing worth having is. I have much respect for myself, I try to treat others the way I want to be treated.. On the other side of the coin, if this was her old b/f or they had some type of realtionship at all, like meeting at the mall, etc., then I would back off, just being a loyal friend. As I have said they are so many other boys in the world. Some that write on here seem to have forgotten what it was like to be young. I loved boys in kidergarten, like it or not it is normal for human beings to start seeing one another in a different way. I didn't see where you wrote anything about having sex with anyone! I believe I know where you are at, it is so much fun at your age. Don't ruin it by getting too serious about it just have fun. Love you, JANA
2007-09-11 07:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok lets c where i start ok umm...well if u like him c if he likes u n if ur friends get mad well there not really ur friends then if they would choice to not be ur friend cuz a boii got in da way so yea thats wat i would do n umm..bout that other boii unless he tlks to u n he likes u jus forget bout him u knwo u cant wait for ever for him to act like how he did before.......thats just wat i would do hopefully that helps at less a lil bit!!!
2007-09-07 14:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by janene f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, he's WAY too young for you! And you're way too young to be dating anybody!
Now, go do your homework.
2007-09-07 14:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.what a mess !!! well if i were u I'll take my chances and I'll follow my heart.coz if I don't,I'll always ask myself how thinks would end up if i did follow my heart.
2007-09-07 14:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wowuhl, It will pass, please save yourself for your husband !Sex is a wonderful thing meant to be shared with only one person. Your husband !
2007-09-07 14:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋