My boyfreind is always on my ___ ! about what im doing, where im at and who i talk to.... But heres the thing. He will drive by to see if i am where I say i am. U THINK HES THE GUILTY ONE?
2007-09-07 07:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa*LiSa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank u for all your thought.... I argree with everything everyone is saying... Ive been and trying to get out but heres the catch... Guys dont get mad.. Hes got $$$ He pays for **** and the sex is well worth it words cant explian it!!! u want more info he left his wife for over 18 yrs to be with me and Tjhe age thing is a issue also im only 27 yrs and hes well 49 !! Help Me ....
2007-09-07 07:50:46 · update #1
Sounds pretty possesive to me. Run while you can!!!
2007-09-07 07:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Majestic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no free rides in life. It sounds like your relationship is based on convenience not love. If that's what you want than stay. If you're sick of being with a control freak and actually wish to be happy then get out.
2007-09-07 08:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Man in a Blue Box 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no **** that. i was that way with my gf. and i have NEVER LIED or cheated on her. so its not that. with me, it was because i LOVED her and was afraid to lose her. but anyways. it might not be that hes possessive, unless hes like pissed about it all the time. but driving by to see where ur at IS pretty psycho. so i only defend him half way. BUT, he needs to learn to trust you. If he doesnt trust you, the relationship will go to ****. Ive been there. and might have lost the love of my life because of it. but im still hoping to get with her sometime in the future =)
2007-09-07 07:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by bad2bone2212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty psycho. Get out fast. Trust is an important facet of relationships. It could also be possible that his mistrust of you reflects his cheating ways.
2007-09-07 07:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by nlfergsn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the human beings who're saying "strengthen up" and to observe porn all of the time with their "boyfriends" for sure are youthful women (decrease than 30) that lack experience, or adult adult males that decide for to do it. I used to experience that way too. women, wait till you're an older and caught with a pervert who can in no way get sufficient of girls who're strangers to him. you will go through too. the element is, that's DISRESPECTFUL to all! particularly if he gawks at women in public whilst he's with you, which the porn habit encourages. that's disrespectful to the girl he's ogling, and to you his spouse or lady buddy, and the worst section is he makes himself appear as if a creepy pervert. that's embarrassing to all! for sure a no win situation. those adult adult males decide for outcomes. I recommend everytime he treats you with disrespect the two with heavy porn use, or his gawking women whilst he's with you (or maybe once you're actually not there), agree till now hand with him, that if he does this, for 3 weeks, refuse to be sure him, refuse to have intercourse or to furnish him affection, refuse to make him food, and don't even consult with him, for 3 weeks! in case you reside jointly, attempt to flow away for component to the time, or purely supply him the frosty shoulder (attempt to sleep in a various room) for 3 weeks. on the top of the three weeks, have a three way communication with him and with a information superhighway counselor approximately what obstacles to put in place. If he does it returned, repeat the approach: No food, no intercourse, no affection, no communication. If he doesn t start to furnish you admire, the two via struggling with the porn dependancy, or gawking at women whilst he's with you, then the three week hiatus will build your capability, and finally supply you different concepts. reliable success. And keep in mind you're captivating women who need to be enjoyed thoroughly, and not lied to.
2016-11-14 10:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by oppie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be guilty of anything when he is stalking you all the time? He doesn't have any time to do anything wrong. Except that he stalks you and you should dump him because he is obviously crazy.
2007-09-07 07:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's extremely insecure, unfortunately he may not know it, and neither do you...but it's only a matter of time before the beatings, and emotional, verbal abuse begins. Get out now. I know, "that won't happen to me...I'm strong..." blah blah blah....if your strong, get out now.
2007-09-07 07:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Double Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get where your coming from.Seems like cheaters and liars are more suspicious than honest people.
2007-09-07 07:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa Lisa, My dear end it now, you are giving danger signs !
2007-09-07 07:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he scared of something like you being with other men
2007-09-07 07:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋