my ex, Z &I broke up in February &I never exactly got over him. He was my first intimate man...besides kissing &stuff like that. I know, 4a fact in my heart, that i love him... still unfortunately. During this time period, he came to me &said he might want to get back together.. &then quickly pulled back &changed his mind. Then a few weeks ago, his very trustworthy friend started talking to me &he said that Z really likes me still &s just really confused about "us" He just doesn;t know if he wants 2have me back. I am a very strubborn hard *** &so I haven;t told him that i'm not over him. I don't want 2seem desperate 4him. I want him 2love me back.. not just be me loving him. I don't know whether 2tell him how i feel &try to get him back or play it off cool &remain "sort of friends". we just started talkin a few weeks ago cuz he said he made a mistake of cutting me off &wants 2b friends again. I don't want 2scare him, I'd rather be friends than nothin. Should I fight 4love or give up?
2007-09-07 07:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by ktshox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey i am going through the same problem with my ex-girl she left me and went back to her Highschool sweetheart and moved up with him. I know its really hurts and feels like you cant live without that person you lost. Really I do, but you cant keep killing yourself over this you have to move on. I want my ex to come back and hope she realized what she missed out on, but i cant wait for that to happend. I hate when people say this but you have to move on you cant keep killing urself over someone that couldnt see how good u were. Its there loose not urs.
2007-09-07 07:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by mover1799 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence...you sound like you're about 14-15 years old. I'm not trying to make light of your emotions or anything, but if he was the first guy you had sex with, he will always see him through rose coloured glasses in certain ways...even if he turns/turned out to a rat bastich.
If you do decide to jump back in with him, take it slow, and try to see if you can rebuild the sense of intimacy without the physical side right away.
If you broke it off, sit down and think about exactly *why* you broke it off, and try to figure out if the reason(s) are still valid.
In any case, I wish you luck with the choices you will have to make.
2007-09-07 08:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he couldn't find another girl who would be intimate with him. He might be only wanting to get back together with you because of what you do. Not because of who you are. You might just get yourself hurt. Focus your love on something, or someone else who is worthy. You deserve better.
2007-09-07 07:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I just wanted to know. How's life being someones Yo-Yo ? Do you like being thrown back and forth and drug around? If not you need to cut the string.
2007-09-07 07:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by c20_6929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be friends, and nothing else now. If after a couple of months if you both wnat to try it again, give it a go....
2007-09-07 07:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I'm in a similar situation. I feel for ya!
2007-09-07 07:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should let him know how you feel, and if he doesn't feel the same way you could always just be friends.
2007-09-07 07:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by me, me, and me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for love;)dudette, if he does still want u and he wants to still b frineds just give him time and time will only tell;)
2007-09-07 07:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by christine l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious as to how old you are?
2007-09-07 07:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋