i am all ways acting shy in class and never put my self out there! is that ok, and how do i make myself seem like m3?
2007-09-07 08:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by bonnie d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out for school plays. Take speech class. Join the choir. You will learn to present yourself to others that way. Join clubs. Participate in sports. You will learn how to be more assertive and make new friends. Guitar lessons might also prove helpful. Any skills you have can work to your advantage. Visit shut-ins at care centers. They would be glad for the company and you can practice building relationship skills.
2007-09-15 06:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a lesson from her and start up performing extra effective with the subsequent firl you date. If after 2 weeks this lady is asking you out on being too shy... i could lose her. Its too quickly in for her to be criticizing you. it can not be alluring for her, and actually I dont blame her. do no longer placed your self down (in case you do) ...and don't doubt your self. Take administration...make judgements approximately the place you flow, what you do. women like a guy who's on top of issues (no longer controlling nevertheless). look at her once you confer together with her. call her, do no longer await her to call you. sturdy success
2016-12-16 14:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem i was shy & etc. all through highschool [cept around my close friends & family] my friends tell me im loud, hilarious, spontaneous & wild [which i dont think i am] i was very insecure in highschool, always afraid of who would make fun of me or who would say something bad about me behind my back, but you just have to get over it and when your out of highschool you will see, all those people that talked bad about you & had their noses up in the air, will want to talk to you :)
just be yourself, i wish i could of been myself in highschool and not worried about what everyone thought, wear what you want to wear, listen to what you want to listen to, if you want to act crazy, act crazy, if you want to bust out singing in the hallway, do it. try to be more confident in yourself, if you think you have a great personality and people will love you for it, then show it :) you'll make more friends that way & have soooo many highschool memories!
2007-09-07 08:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school I was just like you! But I found being involved in other things outside of school helped me to build my self esteem meaning the people in school were more corny to me and I had more going for myself oppose to trying to fit in with the wack in crowd! Today it made me a strong individual and my confidence and self-esteem made my judgement and character better!!!!!!!!!!! Try doing you and finding other things to build you oppose to caring about how others view you and there's nothing wrong with being shy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You observe people better when your being shy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So yes it is ok to be shy!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-15 06:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To others
Open your eyes always,
your ears sometimes,
your mouth seldom,
your mind never.
2007-09-15 07:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe more in yourself, you shouldnt care what people think of what you do trust me once you do that u will start liking yourself more and as well as the people around you.
2007-09-15 02:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by cheli_luvr24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't care what people thing. if you like something you like it if you don't you don't. don't let people push you in to something you don't want to been in. be open to talking to other people
2007-09-07 08:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋