does weight matter or do you just go after the personallity ????
2007-09-07 09:45:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in grade 10 are3 guys my age shallow to
2007-09-07 09:50:25 · update #1
i am 50 pounds over weight is that bad my fat isn't hanging all over i can still run track and play sportsd and i doesn't slow me down so is it really and issue
2007-09-07 09:54:56 · update #2
and believeit or not i have curves and a bubble but
2007-09-07 09:58:32 · update #3
weight doesnt matter to me i go if they will love me for who i am
2007-09-07 09:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by girls_man15 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To Me Sometimes Weight Matters But Most Of The Time I Would Say Personality Really.
2007-09-07 09:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Josh M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think physical attraction is first thing that guys look at.
Which means weight.
(from what I have read its an automatic natural response in both male and female. The reason is everyone is looking for a fit mate to create fit offspring. This happens in the animal world as well.)
Women do it too. How many times do you see a really attractive lady with some guy who doesn't look like he takes care of himself?
When I was young man up until I was in my early 30's I was always in fantastic shape. Women were always attracted to me. Even married ones. As I got a little older I stopped going to the gym and quit boxing. Guess what, I don't get checked out as much or asked out anymore.
Never once did anyone first ask "hey Dave do you have a nice personality??".
2007-09-07 10:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dave S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight matters to me, but not how you might think. If I'm in love, I want my partner to be at their personal best...happy and healthy, and capable of living a nice long lifetime together with me.
I have a great friend who is perfectly happy and in great condition at a size 18. I've had others who are miserable at a size 2.
However, as far as looks go, attraction is something that happens on many levels. Not just weight. Yeah, someone might be able to get my attention with how beautiful they are but if they don't have the personality to hold on to my attention I will be looking elsewhere very soon.
Which comes back to the first point. You can see (in many people) a reflection of the person they are in their style. That's a very good thing!
2007-09-07 09:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dominus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole package matters - Weight is not really much of a factor - well unless the woman is seriously huge - everyones opinion will vary.
I have a couple of female friends that are on the large side - they have a great sense of humour and are not shy - they have more fun and luck with blokes than the average lady!!
2007-09-07 09:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, weight matters, if we are talking more than 20 or 30 pounds overweight. But a thin girl with lack of character, humor etc. is just as much a turn off.
2007-09-07 09:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say the whole person matters. Appearance, yes, but personality, life philosophy, education, etc. It's all a package. No one is perfect so we all have short comings and we all have strengths. Try to minimize your shortcomings and maximize your strengths.
Compatibility is a very odd thing. You never know where or when it will click. Just be totally honest. That way you are not presenting something you are not.
2007-09-07 09:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by blackfangz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight does not matter!
Some men are going to be attracted to skinny women, and some to athletic women and some to bigger women.
The biggest thing that will attracted any man, is being confident (not cocky) just confident.
If your comfortable in your own skin than guys will find you attractive, but if your not happy with the way you are, guy's will pick up on this and not want to be with some one that doesn't like them selves.
Its funny how some woman get a name(sl*t) because of the way they dress or act when most of them are just comfortable with who they are and there happy and guys are attracted to that, but woman that aren't happy criticize them for it..
So first like your self , be comfortable with who you are and what you look like, then any man can be yours.
2007-09-07 09:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weight can matter if it makes it difficult in daily life or causes problems for cars, clothes, etc
weight gains can come from insecurity, women finding comfort in food, etc
when a woman become confident in self they stop the binging and weight gain and life becomes more about the journey than the image
personality is great but mutual respect and love gets your further
2007-09-07 09:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by voice_of_reason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl..but I'm going to give my input
Honestly, I like my guys without boobs. =/
I like the abs. I love the abs, actually.
But yes, personality does matter a lot. More than weight, but not by much.
Sorry if I sound a little mean.
2007-09-07 09:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Symone! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personallity means the most, weight is not an issure. When it comes to physical aperiance I look for a girl w/ a pretty face and a waist smaller than her hips. I have dated plenty of chubby girls who have this hip/waist thing going on who were HOT.
2007-09-07 09:49:35 · answer #11 · answered by workin man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋