I'm not trying to be mean. But a man needs what a man needs. What can I do??
2007-09-07 10:03:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweet Pea you are not being mean you are being real. A man does have needs and they do need to release themselves at least once a day. I know how the wife feels though. Being with child gives you a lot of hormone run around. I say please be patient with her or talk to her about the situation and see what you both can work out. Good luck!
2007-09-07 10:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by b n real 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your wife is pregnant, you have to cater to her whims. She's not capable of catering to yours and probably feels bad about it (if she has the energy to.) Unfortunately you're not going to get a whole lot for a good long time after the baby is born either. That's part of parenting a small child. Basically, a lack of sex is part of the contract you signed when you got her pregnant. Gotta read the fine print you know! Get affection from your wife via cuddles, and get relief by yourself. If it makes you feel better, she'll want another kid eventually, so you'll start getting some again :)
2007-09-07 10:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man needs what a man needs? Good lord, get over yourself already! Take a cold shower and thank God you have a pregnant wife.
2007-09-10 03:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Bill,
I am 36 weeks pregnant and I cannot understand how she could not want sex...UNLESS she is sick all of the time.
Now, from the beginning of my pregnancy I have been and AM as HORNY as all get out!
In fact, I have had to tease my man just to get what I want!
I want it everyday! Sometimes 4 times a day! EVEN when I was so sick I thought I'd die...I still wanted sex!
So, just give her time if she is sick...it will pass and then..BAM! She will be back on that horse again!
Blessings
2007-09-07 12:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL,
How Pregnant?
Sex and pregnancy for 1st time parents is something they need to overcome together. it's ok to have sex nearly up until full term, in the 3rd trimester it's starts becoming uncomfortable for the woman, You have to be creative about 'position' and motivation.
And frankly, you can get by without it. In your "I need what I need statement" tells me is your going to throw a temper tantrum if you don't get it. Kind of selfish and narcissistic.
Think about her for a change. Put yourself in her shoe, ask her what you can do for her for a change instead of thinking about what you can take from her.
2007-09-07 10:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know every woman is different when she is pregnant... but for me I WAS ALWAYS HORNY and ready to have sex with my man. AND he still cheated on me. (asshole prick) haha. Comfort her and give her the support she needs. Shes a emotional train wreck at this point right now. Don't go straying off, your hand will work fine for now. Did you try talking to her?
2007-09-07 10:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk things over with her and see how she feels...
Many women feel totally un-sexy and ugly; and this explains why she avoids sex. (She might not like what she looks like right now ....and unless you tell her you think she looks great- then chances are she will hide herself from you.)
Reassure her that both she and the baby will be fine. IF she is still not convinced, visit her doctor together and he should put her mind at ease. Unless it's a complicated pregnancy, sex is usually OK.
2007-09-07 10:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any man who insists that his pregnant wife have sex when she doesn’t want to is NOT a man. I’m sure she has a reason for it, even if it’s simply that she’s exhausted.
Use your hand.
2007-09-07 10:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to STOP thinking of yourself for 9 months. Most likely this is temporary anyways. Her hormones will fluctuate, and one day you might come home and she might attack you. On another note, I bet you might be slow to have sex if you felt like you had a watermelon shoved up your hiney 24/7.
Ask her to pleasure you in other ways. Or...take care of yourself for a while. This is not forever, Dude. Trust me, I understand your pain, but you kind of had a part in this, and anytime we do ANYTHING, we have to be ready and willing to accept some negative results from our decisions/and or actions.
2007-09-07 10:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do some self love man.....she is pregnant and probably doesn't feel like having sex.
2007-09-07 10:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋