2007-09-07 09:59:18 · 53 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the circumstances, did you promise to love forever them for sex?
2007-09-07 10:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it depends. I think you need to get to know the person well before you decide. Love at first sight doesn't happen that often, so don't write anyone off untill you've given them a chance. But if you are feeling like you already know you wont...you probably wont. Most of the time people don't worry about if they love someone or not unless they are thinking about if they should stay in the relationship or not. If you don't love her...don't get serious.
2007-09-07 10:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by J Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when sex happens that fast, the interest of one or both parties is usually superificial. It doesn't necessarily mean that one day you can't come to love that person though. Sex isn't the point, it's whether or not you have a deep interest in someone that determines whether or not you might come to love them. Even then, sometimes you just can't tell. It's a game of chance.
2007-09-07 10:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by lifecynic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex has nothing to do with love, that's where people get deceived. Sex only ties into love when both people's hearts and minds agree that's where they wanna be. So don't feel guilty about not loving the person. If you didn't love them before hand, sex isn't going to do much to change it
2007-09-07 10:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by RelentlessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Maybe if you spend enough time with that person, and get to know more about them, you may grow to love them. Just because you had sex with someone after knowing them for a month, doesn't mean you have to love them, and it doesn't mean that eventually you won't, ya know.
2007-09-07 10:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the movie Sid and Nancy, Sid and Nancy weren't in love at first but then they were shagging only a few days after meeting each other. Then they fell in love. Then they got into so many fights. Then they both eventually died. So like, I'd not do what Sid did. Even though he was so cool.
2007-09-07 10:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Lapidus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love often doesn't occur in a mere month. That's not very long to get to know someone...however there should be some fondness, affection, chemistry or some form of attraction other than physical to work with until you've given love time to develop (if it's going to).
2007-09-07 10:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if sex is all you guys are doing then chances are you aren't getting a chance to know this person to even fall in love with them. Next relationship wait for sex until marriage. Get yourself a best friend who you know you can love and trust.
2007-09-07 10:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by falnangel07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had sex after knowing someone for a few hours. Doesn't matter as long as you are safe and responsible with your health and also discussing how your feel honestly.
People fall in love quickly or sllowly. It just depends. But if this person is saying I love you, don't say it back unless you mean it!
2007-09-07 10:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by thejenmartin 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Having sex with someone doesn't mean that you signed a contract to give your life away. I hope that both of you are consenting adults. So act like it. The more upfront and honest your are the better.
2007-09-07 10:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by JoeClyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you had sex with a person, it doesn't mean you are going to love them. Just give it time, if you are serious about the relationship, or move on, if you aren't.
2007-09-07 10:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋