My boyfriend and I been dating for a year, he recently got engaged... but couple of days ago he run into his exgirlfriend. I'm sure he was polite and talked to her, but she asked him if she could go to our wedding. He didn't know what to answer cause he wanted to consult with me first. But, this girl cheated on him and wanted him back at one point several years later and i feelt that she really never let go because of the way my boyfriend talks about her. Anyways, to make it short. What should I say to him, if I said it's ok,... wouldn't it be odd anyways.. please advise.
2007-09-07 09:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by jennpor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I think that it is odd if you say it is okay. This girl should never have asked that anyway. Your wedding day should be all about you and what you want so tell him that you would feel uncomfortable if his ex girl was there.
2007-09-07 09:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this girl come to your wedding. Your wedding is important, if not the most important day of your life. If she still has feelings for him do you really want to chance her ruining your wedding? Even if it sounds too crazy, say maybe she respects you and you think she would never do something like that. You're marrying the guy she loves, do you really think it's a good idea for her to be there? She might be jealous and say nasty things, angry and do stupid little things to annoy you or just scary and say I object or something. I'm sure you're already worried about stuff going wrong, what's the point of piling more stress on you?
Good luck with your decision, have a good day.
2007-09-07 16:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by ....:).... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely Not a good idea at all to have a nerve even invite an ex ( or exes ) to the wedding . Past is the past , period . Everybody needs a break from bad relationship or breakup . You know , nobody wants to see the ex(es)in such a memorable wedding day . How about his ex runs to him and crys and say how much she reallys loves him in front you and the whole entire quests ? How about that drama queen who will cause the drama scene ? You never know what will happen . Only sick people who want to be in on their exes'important day ,especially the wedding day . Healthy mental people do not want to be on that day . Trust me ! ! ! Tell your soon-to-be husband that you will be miserable and uncomfortable to see his ex there ! It's very inappropriate even to just to think about inviting her . Do not let that past to ruin your important day of your life . He needs to listen to you if he really cares about you . You guys are going to share the rest of your life together that why he needs to respect your decision . Good luck to both of you .
2007-09-07 16:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by tippawan s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said he recently got engaged. Shouldn't you have said "we," instead of "he?" No, she shouldn't come to your wedding.
2007-09-07 16:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you wouldnt feel comfortable if she was there and not entirely happy.its your wedding day and you only get 1 so make i good!dont let her go it will ruin it 4 u!
2007-09-07 16:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's HER or YOU--period!! There is no reason your husband to be should even consider talking to his ex-girlfriend.
2007-09-07 16:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's not doing anything to mess up YOUR day,then its really no problem.
2007-09-07 16:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋