I dont have sex w/ every random guy that wants to have sex with me, but if i meet a guy, and get to know him, and i want to have sex with him, and i do, does that make me slutty?? I think its okay, as long as you want it just as bad as the guy does, right?? As long as i use protection, and know who im sleeping w/, i dont think theres a problem with it. whats your opinion?
2007-09-07 08:42:20 · 42 answers · asked by sienna2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-07 08:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your sex life is in your own hands. If you want to sleep with someone you have every right to. Don't get caught up in names and definitions that society has labeled what you're doing with. If you are using protection and protecting yourself which is really the only main concern than I say carry out your life the way you see fit. Men more so than women parade around having sex with whom ever they choose, whenever they want with no consequence. Why can't you as a woman you do the same? My best advice is that you are cautious with this lifestyle. Do what ever you choose and with whom ever you choose but don't carry it like a banner because people will judge you. Unless you feel you are comfortable with all the cons that will come with voicing your sex life.
I think every person needs to find their comfort level with sex and it seems you are very comfortable and happy with your sex life which is great. Don't let others bring you down, you have one life to live. Live it the way that you see fit and not the way society has made it so.
2007-09-07 08:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex is part of life and if you are getting to know and have some trust in the guy first you are not slutty. The days of a girl only being with one or two guys their entire life are long gone.
2007-09-07 08:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Larry G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't as long as you leave time in between meeting different guys. For example, don't meet one guy, get to know him, have sex with him, it's over and then you meet another guy the next week and start all over again. If in a year you have sex with about 3 guys and you went out with them, got to know them and (as consentual adults) slept with them then that does not make you a slut. As long as you are officially dating a guy enough to sleep with him, it is not wrong. Don't kiss and tell though, people criticize a lot.
2007-09-07 08:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by n_garcia83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, a slut is someone who just goes around sleeping w/anyone & everyone & dont care about themselves...
It's good that you're using protection be/c the statistics for pregnancy & diseases are outrages these days!!!!
Just to add another thing...dont let anyone tell you that you're a slut, be/c guys can be labeled as a slut too....im sick & tired of guys getting away w/calling a girl a slut for sleep w/a few guys, but god...if a guy sleeps w/100 girls in his lifetime...he can't be called a slut...it's not fair or right either.
You do what you want for youself, & not for others... be/c it's your life....not theirs!!
2007-09-07 08:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by **annie anytime** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Slutty is sleeping with everyone and being "easy" to get into bed, you're young and testing new waters and there is nothing wrong with sleeping with guys that you could "potentially" be with one day. As long as you use protection and don't wake up the next morning wishing you didn't do that then you are OK.
2007-09-07 08:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this doesn't make you a "w h o r e."
This is the common thing that girls want in a realtionship.
They want to get to know the guy. See if he's their type. They want to see if he's the right one, one that can keep a long-term with not so many issues.
A w h o r e is someone who dont give jack about the guy. They just want " a long thing inserted in them."
That answers your question.
2007-09-07 08:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how you look at it. Are you actually dating these guys are you just sleeping with them? Is there more than one guy per month or week? If you sleeping with a lot of guys I would say yes that is being slutty, but if you don't then I wouldn't think so.
2007-09-07 08:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with that either so long as you both know where you stand with each other, I personally like to wait a while but we're all different and it sounds like you're happy that way so keep doing what makes you happy it's only sex after all, have fun :D
2007-09-07 08:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by LittleMissLolita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone "knows" who they are sleeping with, since they are doing it. I think that makes you pretty slutty. Getting to know someone for that kind of relationship shouldn't take days or weeks. The time should be counted in months, and years if you are looking for the right person.
2007-09-07 08:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're in a relationship with the guy and u pretty much know about each others passed then is okay. And yes protection is always important.
2007-09-07 08:47:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋