ok so i just started college and it is different than high school there is this girl that i am starting to like and i wonder how could go and talk to her i mean i just go and starting to her because well she does not seem too interested it is a huge class(like a 100 or more ) students i mean i want a girlfriend badly give me some suggestions on how i can start a conversation with this girl or any girl in the class
2007-09-07 09:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by bell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit next to her at the next class and ask her if she has the notes from the last lecture b/c you had miss class.
then, introduce yourself, smile, be casual.
then, sit through the lecture together and after class she'll give you the notes and let her know you'll give them back to her next class or see if she wants to walk to the HUB with you so you can copy them and you'll buy her a coffee for her kindness!
if you give them back to her next class, then take that moment to invite her to a party or concert or something for her help.
if you go and copy them together, then at the next lecture don't sit with her, but sit close. if she looks for you and smiles and waves, then you know you ahve gotten onto her radar.
proceed from there.
good luck my friend....oh and by the way....a girl in college does not want to hear how you really want a girlfriend...at least not right away. take things slow my friend.
2007-09-07 09:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, Hi, I'm so and so and ask where she is from. What's your major? Are you a freshman? What do you think of this prof? You getting anything out of this class? What other classes are you taking? etc.
Then, ask if you can buy her lunch or a Coke or something sometime. If she says sure, then ask in a day or two.
2007-09-07 09:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit by her in class or whoever in class......ask her casually if she would like to hang out sometime. IF she says no or has a boyfriend, then she isn't interested and that's your Q to move on. Good luck.
2007-09-07 09:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yes, college days.
Try the good old, bump into, "oh, sorry, I'm a clutz. I was wondering.. you take good notes it seems, maybe we could compare or you could help me out.." and.. you're in.
Be direct, be geniune and be nice. Girls dig nice.
2007-09-07 09:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act cool be normal and friendly introduce yourself and let it go from there. It is hard to start making new friends but you gota make the first move if you want something to happen.
2007-09-07 09:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi or purposly drop your books in front of her and say sorry or purposly but accedentally push someone to push her and pick up the books with her (but she needs to do it first) and say are you ok??? it always works well sometimes but just be friends first or dont do any of that. i hope you find a better answer than me cause i kinda thought of fantasy relationships!!!!
:)
2007-09-07 09:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about class n stuff....then go out on a study date
2007-09-07 09:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and be her friend or ask her to study with you and ask her to get a cup of coffee or some lunch.
2007-09-07 09:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by califababy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study buddy!!
definately ask her if she would like to study with you. then you guys can start to chill and talk!!! ohh i miss college....good luck!! =o)
2007-09-07 09:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋