i met dis italian guy on the a penpal site..he was nice all the other guys i've met on that site were jerks...he was really nice and cool..he went on holidays so we didnt talk 4 s'time .i keep seein his name every where..e'thing i see reminds me of him.last sunday we were going to church then we saw this italian ice cream shop..i didnt want to think of him so i opened my bible then i saw a card in my bible..when i turned the back of the card i saw his name...i feel really bad when im going out with guys,and when ever im with another guy...everthing i see and hear reminds me of him...how can i fall in love with a guy that i dont even know ...a guy i just met on the internet....i've been trying to forget him since agusust...but e'thing i see and hear reminds me of him...ever since i met him i've been seeing italy every where..and when ever somone talks to me they say something that reminds me of him.i feel like this is huntin me .am i in love with him.if not then what is happening 2 me
2007-09-07 08:56:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People you meet on the internet are not always what they seem. You don't even know if this guy is available. He could be lying to you. Much safer to fall in love with someone you actually know and trust than a fantasy.
2007-09-15 08:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know whether you are in love or you are in lust. It sounds more like lust since you two haven't met.
How does he feel about you? is it a one-sided crush?
True love is knowing somebody really well (their good qualities and their faults) and accepting them.
If you continue thinking about this guy, keep in touch with him and work on your friendship. Who knows, he might end up feeling the same way about you..
2007-09-14 02:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by curiousmsichana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love i am not sure but i do know u love the aspects that you percived about him. All i can say is just try to find another guy like him with those same aspects. But to be in love with him no i dont think but to love what he said yes
2007-09-15 07:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cameron Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's infatuation... you can't truly love someone you've never met.. my advice put your attention to something else..this will eventually pass and italy (tho very nice this time of year) will be far from you mind. give it time.. and let it go.. if he's that far from you it would never work any way
2007-09-14 19:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by the critic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋