Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-07 09:30:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him
2007-09-07 09:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what i told my boifriend: 'If you ever cheat on me, and I found out...(cuz i WILL find out)...I will pretend to be okay with it. I will ask you and the stupid biotch you cheated on me with to go out to the middle of nowhere and have a threesome; (every guy wants to try one); and then I will kill you both."
But being more realistic, since you don't wanna be pinned for murder, I would rip the b*it*ch's hair out, and kick her A*S. Then, I'd never speak to him again. If he thinks it's worth it to go find some other girl, then he shouldn't be worth it to you. Trust me...there are soooo many people out there that would LOVE to be your boifriend. I had the same situation, and people told me the same things, and it took awhile for me to listen. But I finally got tired of it. And I did find someone better. Good luck, love...slap that jerk for me. Pick up all the pieces of your heart and glue them back together before you get into another relationship. Enjoy yourself for awhile. If you need someone to talk to about it; I will listen and sympathize. I will not judge. ;) blazin_mamma@yahoo.com
2007-09-07 16:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by blazin_mamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest you handle this situation carrie underwood style and...
...dig your key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carve your name into his leather seats...
take a Louisville slugger to both headlights,
and slash a hole in all 4 tires... and MAYBE next time he'll think before he cheats!!
But seriously....leave him...thats a simple answer....it takes one incident to break down trust and a lifetime to build it up. And if he was drunk.....don't let that slide...its the lamest excuse in the book..
BUT if u decide to take him back (poorest decision of your life) then u need to trust him and believe him again and not always nag about the fact he has cheated before. And if he cheats on you again......u need to get out no matter how much in love u are.
First time cheating---shame on him.....2nd time cheating....shame on you!
Good luck!!
2007-09-07 16:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dump him and move on and get over it!!! It happens to us all!!! And it sucks. But, there is nothing you can do but move on. Hes not worth the crap he will put you through. Believe me once a cheater always a cheater. Not necessarily with each new relationship but with the one he has been in always will be a cheater.
2007-09-07 16:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by HottShorty78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to understand in which circumstances did he cheated whether he purposely or by mistake he has done. if u can forgive him or not but first tell me what is the problem then i will tell u whether to leave or not. but try to understand him is the way u can carry on relation
2007-09-07 16:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by adnan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just pack my things, put my dog in my car and go home. It's not worth it. Once a cheater always a cheater. You owe it to yourself to have that much respect for yourself!
2007-09-07 16:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, u shouldnt even needing to ask the question, just go, once a cheat always a cheat sorry hun
2007-09-07 16:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by some people are rude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll chunk da Duce! I'll be gone! I look @ it like this! Men come a dime a dozen, they run like the bus! one after another, so what one man won't do another one will baby! So that's that!
2007-09-07 16:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him. If you take him back then he'll think it's o.k. and keep doing it because you took him back the first time.(I know from experience) Guys are losers they think they can get away with any and everything.
2007-09-07 16:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd quickly become a single woman again. I don't tolerate that kind of disrespect...there are TOO many other options out there.
2007-09-07 16:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a lot of factors. of course the obvious answer would be to leave but there are some situations where leaving isnt the answer
2007-09-07 16:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by Contessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋