Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

Ok so my bf and I are getting married but no one knows yet we're waiting until just the right time to tell everyone. The thing is that I feel like I'm on my own for this. he keeps kleaving town to go camping with friends and stuff like that and the thing is while I am planning I'm realising we probably cant afford this right now and when I tell him i want to push it back a year he tells me he doesnt want to... what do I do?

2007-08-11 06:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by Vickey 3 in Weddings

We dont have any kids together, however he has a 4 and 7 year old, and I have an 11 year old. He did a 360, and completely ignores me and the kids, and entertains himself by going to stripper clubs and the casino. He complains to me that we cant do anything together because I have to watch the kids, which is not fair. I don't work because I take care of the kids, and now he wont give me any money for anything. We have been together for almost 5 years. What can I do? I love all of my kids, but I want out of this. I have been so silly regarding this situation, because he took my cell phone and the keys to the truck that I was driving, but the police told me it was community property and he could not do that to me. I was gonna leave but from the advise of outsiders: I was told to stay and take advantage of the veterans benefits that I now have andgo to school for free or find a job. He keeps saying how he is going to move out and leave me homeless and I dont know what I can do.. help me

2007-08-11 05:59:30 · 35 answers · asked by lisa h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-11 05:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for 2 yrs. We both love each other. He has been signed up for several online datings. When I found out and then asked him, he said so what? they dont mean anything to me, he said he only talked or having conversation with all of those women. I was very upset, cos he wrote lots of his profile on those website with words single, looking for erotics emails/ chats, casual encounters, nsa and etc.He gave his cell numbers to several of them, couple of them have been sent me emails , called my house and they felt sorry for me. My question is , "Is he cheating on me? ". He is so defensive at first then he felt bad and apologize to me, but I told him that I need a week apart from him. What should I do?

2007-08-11 05:57:52 · 17 answers · asked by Eve Sola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my bf for 3 years and the sex is really dull its becoming more like a chore than anything.
Any one got any tips to make it more exciting thanks

2007-08-11 05:53:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In all seriousness, I believe I am so badly broken I will never be capable of an adult relationship which could involve sex, dating, and marriage. My anxiety has a life of its own and whenever I try to interact -- it goes off the scale. I have had panic attacks. To talk to women at work is doubly problematic, not only do I have to worry about rejection itself but also being charged with sexual harassment as the penultimate form of rejection.

2007-08-11 05:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOl...i just think its wierd, it's cold in our bedroom at night, my hubby will cover with the blanket about 10 minutes later he is sweating to death, it's gross, so i uncover him and he's like hey give that back, i'm like your sweating he's like so....lol...i've offered him a sheet before so he won't sweat so much but no...he has to cover with a blanket, then the next day our bed cloths stink and theres a big wet sweat spot on his side of the bed...lol......this is so crazy...what's up with this/ any other men do this?.....lol...just curious

2007-08-11 05:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

is it okay to have a girlfriend that is 8 months older than me? So, we're both in grade 11. & I just want to ask this girl out...

P.S. Any tips on how to ask her? (This isn't my first time asking girls out)

2007-08-11 05:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 11 years and dated for 5 and lived together for 1 year. When we first got together, both of us partied. Well we are both 40 now with a 3 year old son and only one of us has grown up and stopped the drinking. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works a very high paying job. On his 2 days off a week, he will do anything he can think of to get into town to be able to stop and drink. He says he won't be long and will come hime up to 10 hours later. He has had one DUI twenty some years ago, his older brother just got a DUI. He knows we could lose everything if he gets a DUI and loses his license. Everytime I bring it up, he just says it's bullsh**! I worry myself sick about his drinking. I dont know what to do. Any advice from anyone out there?

2007-08-11 05:47:23 · 14 answers · asked by trittnut 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 05:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

real answer please,, good or bad,, real answer please

2007-08-11 05:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ergh. i know its stupid. but me and my friends are meant to be going out tonight. now its 5.30, and we were meant to be meeting at 5. so i was abit late, i left at 5, bought a train ticket to get to thr next station where i was meeting them, once i was in the station, my friend called me, told me there was a change of plan, and we're now meeting at 6.30. but i was trapped in the station, my ticket wouldnt let me out at my station! SO i had to get a train to another station where i knew there was no ticket barriers, buy another ticket to my station.. ergh i paid!! and now i have go back out and meet them again, and i really cant be bothered. help meeee?!


(i know its not much of a question!!!)

2007-08-11 05:39:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are your parents still here,if they are do you tell them you love them?If their gone do you truely miss them and wish you can see them again?

2007-08-11 05:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by Betty M 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girlfriend are both 16 and have been going out for just over 3 months now.

I really like her and im quite sure that she feels the same way.

The only thing is that shes quite shy meeting new people and stuff like that, but once shes got to know you a bit, shes all good. Her being bit shy is not a problem at all.

The thing is that because of it she doesn't like to call my house because she doesnt want to have to speak to my sister or parents becuase she says it would be embarrassing.

She also doesnt want to come to my house i assume because she would feel a bit shy meeting my parents and the like.

Its been three months already :|

What can I do or say that will make her see that all will be good if she just trys it. Ive tried telling her before that theres no reason any of my family wouldnt like her and that theres nothing not to like, as i think this is another worry of hers.

What can I do to at least make her try it so she can see that theres nothing wrong?

2007-08-11 05:32:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I asked a question wondering if other girls started to think about what kind of a husband, provider, father etc... a guy would be when you really start to get interested in him.

NOw I want to know if guys do the same thing. Do you think about your future with her? Consider what kind of a mother, wife, provider etc...she would be?

2007-08-11 05:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it with the man that can't commit? Been in love with same man for 20yrs, we have 3 kids together. When all is good why does he bail out on us, but when we try to patchup and move on without him he returns for another go. Have forgave and forgot for 4 leavings of this family over the last 10yrs, he's just gone again. I consider myself a good worthy partner, look after him, don't nag him, have good intimacy between us, don't push or put him under the thumb. So what gives with this man. I want to move on and find a good man that will stick around and return the love I'm able to give on a deep and real level. But still he says if he wants he will return when he's ready again no matter where we end up. So what to do?

2007-08-11 05:30:39 · 30 answers · asked by Ms CMP5260 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys like it when their gf talks dirty 2 them

2007-08-11 05:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i tell his dad? he get beat by his dad llike evey day he dose not do notting about it and he hit me like yesterday what can i do and he try kill himself last nite he called me and he had a gun to his head but he didnt hurt me i didnt call the cops bec he put the gun down what can i do i still love him he 17 and i am 16

2007-08-11 05:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 05:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Done. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've posted a lot of things about my ex (who i am still in love with). we broke up 8 months ago but i haven't been able to move on. i have tried seeing other guys but it just makes me feel worse, and think about him more.
So we've been talking on and off on the phone/via text messages. It's mostly just friendly small talk. We also spent a weekend together about a month ago, and during that time we basically acted like we were a couple again. But he says he doesn't want to "force things." i asked him recently if he wanted to see me and he acted less than enthused. So i've stopped talking to him. He's been calling and i haven't been picking up. He's texted, too, and i haven't responded.

So he just called and left me a message, saying, "I'm sorry about what I said. I just have a full time job now and there are more important things in my life than a relationship. But I do miss you. And I think when you come back to school we'll probably see eachother." what does it mean?

2007-08-11 05:25:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I have been talking to for about 2 years now. I liked him, and he said he "kinda" liked me, but he wanted sex even more than he liked me. Everytime we talked, it was about sex, even though we never did anything physical. One day, we were talking and I was upset with another guy about something, so I agreed to meet with him on the coming saturday. That morning as we were trying to get everything together to meet up, I had the smart idea to ask if he had a girlfriend. He said "Ya, so you can't tell anyone." I asked if they were having problems or something and he told me no; that she just didn't want to have sex and that he really needed it, so he came to me. I didn't think it would be good for him to cheat, so I tried giving him suggestions about what to do to maybe get her to want it. after nothing i said seemed to get through, he said "Ive dun everything. Nothing worked so I thot I cud get help from a frend and I thot u were my frend but I guess not so bye." is it me?

2007-08-11 05:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1 in Singles & Dating

well, i'm with a guy right now and we just recently became bf/gf and whatnot. i mean noone knows him like i do... he tells me more things than he tells anyone so we have a great connection. every keeps telling me he's bad news and that i should stay away and all that jazz but i don't really see why they are saying it. we've been with each other pretty much every day for 2.5 months and have only had one argument that lasted a total of like 4 minutes.

everyone's opinion is getting on my nerves... am i doing the right thing by listening to my heart and not others?

2007-08-11 05:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

need some advice please

2007-08-11 05:20:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will be moving to Valrico and I am looking for info about the town and was wondering if anyone has in home daycare for my children. Thanks for your help!

2007-08-11 05:17:18 · 1 answers · asked by razing4boys 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this guy were going out for almost a year then we split like 2-3 weeks ago, but we still talk..he said he doesnt know what he wants...and i didnt either but now i do...i want him back we are going on a date 2nite to this really nice resturant..im getting him a card and flowers already but i want to get him somthing else....HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-08-11 05:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been dating this guy off and on for like two or three years now and I can not stand him. In the past he has cheated on her atleast 3 times that we know of because each one of them resulted in a paternity suit. He is no good for and she deserves better. She is 19, so there is really no convincing her of this and I am done trying but I do not approve of the relationship and I am not going to act like I do. Anyway, my husbands birthday is next week and I am having a little get together at my house to celebrate. And I do not want my sister's boyfriend there but I am afraid that if I tell her he isnt invited she wont come either. What should I do? Should I even care if she chooses not come because he cant?

2007-08-11 05:07:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have liked this guy for a long time and have talked to him for quite a while. It all started last year and a long time ago I actually asked him to do something with me, but he wasn`t interested. After a while I talked to him again.
Here are all of the things that he does: when I talk to him he is nice and I feel like he talks to me like one of his guy friends. I don`t feel tension when I talk to him. After I talk to him he tends to look at me and occasionally glance over his shoulder. When we pass eachother in the hall he will first look at me with a shy smile and then when our eyes meet he will timidly look away or even walk in a different direction. He tends to avoid me and looks nervous when I am around. When I walk over to talk to him sometimes he literally runs away.

I can`t figure out if he likes me just as a friendly person, has a crush on me, or finds me annoying and doesn`t want to talk to me. He IS nice when I talk to him and looks me in the eyes and laughs at times.

2007-08-11 05:06:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive seen people just keep going and going after that special someone till they get them in the end is that not making someone fall for you?

2007-08-11 05:05:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok,So I really like this guy.

He doesnt talk much though and he is SO cute.

Anyway I want to make him like me. I know I cant really MAKE him but ...What should I say to him. I got his phone #. Well I want to text him. But what should I say?? Please help

2007-08-11 05:01:26 · 32 answers · asked by H0TTCHiCK 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I was hoping to seek some help here, see if anybody could help me out a little bit..

I had met my best friend when I was in junior year of high school, and we would always joke around and talk about anything. Well then the next year, senior high school, we still talked and stuff, but I noticed it was going downhill. We would still partner up for labs in science, but we didn't keep in contact outside of school anymore. His girlfriend (who i'm good friends with too) also noticed that he wasnt hanging around as much, and even started ignoring her sometimes too (but not as much as me).
Now, I'm in freshmen year of college (just started) and he is completely out of contact with me. I always have to push him to have a conversation, and I have to keep the conversation going. Yet, whenever we hang out (which is very very rare anymore), I always think that "hey, maybe things are getting better." Any advice on how to improve this friendship? I'd to anything to save this friendship!!!

2007-08-11 05:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends