how do i tell his dad? he get beat by his dad llike evey day he dose not do notting about it and he hit me like yesterday what can i do and he try kill himself last nite he called me and he had a gun to his head but he didnt hurt me i didnt call the cops bec he put the gun down what can i do i still love him he 17 and i am 16
2007-08-11 05:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs locking up
2007-08-11 05:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should get him some help from another adult and see what happens. You may have to put that hit aside to help him. I know that may seem crazy but it's about the reason and not just the hit. You know him and only you can judge that so you know what the reason was but if you love him then you can't leave his side right now because it seems he needs someone in his corner and you may have to be that someone. Just try being his friend and the hand that walks with him for now. Let him no that he's not alone and that you are there for him. Help him and don't leave him. Right now that is the thing and later when everything is cool, then you decide what happens with that hit situation and only you know what will happen with that.
2007-08-11 12:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems unstable!!!! He should go speak to a someone professional. Your far to young to be in that type of relationship. It will put strain on the both of you. Make sure he gets help. And i know you might not want to hear this, but if he ever hits you again get out of that relationship as fast as you can.
Good Luck.
2007-08-11 12:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably tried to kill himself cause when he hit you it reminded him of his dad hitting him and i guess his greatest fear is to turn out like his dad. And since you say that you still love him and want to give him a chance, all i can say is to let him no that he is nothing like his dad, tell him that you love him and you won't leave him behind, just show him as much love as you can. Also make him promise not to hit you again. Cause there is no bruises in love.
2007-08-11 12:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you need to do is call the cops before anyone gets seriously hurt or killed. I know it's gonna be hard, you never want to "turn in" someone you love, but he needs serious help.
2007-08-11 12:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do many things, including protecting yourself first. You should inform someone of the abuse he endures and when he threatens to kill himself, call the police. They will get him the help he needs AND investigate his situation. You also need to get counseling for yourself so you know you don't need to tolerate abuse by him or anybody else in your life, and if they truly LOVED you, they would never harm you. Best wishes.
2007-08-11 12:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get him some help. dont talkt o his dad about it because his dad may just take it out on him. so, just seek some advice from someone u can trust. I think your bf needs some help. best of wishes to you both
2007-08-11 12:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by davidslilprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs professional help. You should run like hell if he refuses to get help. He is being abuse and will turn around and abuse you. Next time and there will be a next time it will be worst.I know that you love him but he is no thinking straight right now.
2007-08-11 12:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Precious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs serious help!!! if his dad beats him he needs to seek help. no child/person should ever go through that. talk to him (over the phone for your own safety) and tell him to seek help from his dad. he needs counseling . . .
2007-08-13 22:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek help maybe not from his dad, but another trusted adult.
2007-08-11 12:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Queen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋