Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

after a long marriage my mother decided she wants to get a divorce. She doesnt know how to go about it & I feel the resposibility to help her.

What can I do?

Does a judge always order a 6months to 2yrs break before granting a divorce?

2007-08-11 09:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have found this site before but can't remember how I got to it, Can You help me?

2007-08-11 09:57:01 · 2 answers · asked by Joyce S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has cheated on me 7 times. He's even gotten 3 of the girls pregnant. I love him and we are expecting twins this October. Should I just accept him and maybe consider polygamy. It might be fun having tons of sister wives.
I'm 15. He's 19.

2007-08-11 09:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY "HUSBAND" DOESNT LIVE WITH ME AND HASNT GIVEN ME A DIME TO HELP WITH THIS BABY WERE GOING BE HAVIN ANY TIME NOW HOW CAN I MAKE HIM STEP UP DO I HAVE TO GET A DIVORCE FIRST BEFORE I CAN PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT

2007-08-11 09:53:11 · 10 answers · asked by ilovejemeice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you seen him? Jerry wants to speak to him

2007-08-11 09:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well I'm light skin black woman in my 20yrs an Is it really wrong for me liking white men so much but the problem is that white men don't like us black women.

2007-08-11 09:52:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has been my best friend for 10 years, weve been dating for like 2ish months and i have to break up with him. im 16 and hes 18. i am a competitive figure skater and that is all i do lol. i recently broke my foot and i am still on a break from skating for 2 weeks. my coach is making me break up with him because he is a "distraction" he tries to work with my scheudual but i really only get to see him for like an hour on sundays and like 10 mins a day durring the school year. its really not fair to him but he says he loves me and hes happy with the time he does get to see me. he even watches me at practice but my coach says that he cant and i talked to him and hes said "its skating or me" i train from 4-7, do to school 7:30 till 12(i get to leave early so i can train, on the ice 12:30 - 5, then the gym 5-7 and back on the ice 7-9. so i train 11 and a 1/2 hours 6 days a week and on sundays i train a half day. how do i break up with him and not hurt him?

2007-08-11 09:49:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my grandmother the other day. We were talking about my future. I always figured I would balance a career and a family (I want 3 kids). My grandmother told me, though, that if I want children I need to stay at home...that I have no idea how important it is for me to be there. What do you think? I really want a career, but my family would be more important....though, I'm only 18 so it's not like I have to decide now.

2007-08-11 09:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-11 09:48:51 · 36 answers · asked by Sammyleggs222 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The reason for the divorce is because he made a terrible mistake and fell prey to this woman at his work. He says he is very sorry but the only way we will make it is if he quits his job and gets away from that environment and the constant reminder. If I give him another chance; he gets me and will be financially ok. If I say no, he lives with regret, keeps the job where the constant reminder is and I end up being financially much better off than him but sad that my marriage and family are not intake. What do you think?

2007-08-11 09:47:28 · 19 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is taken sides he rather have his friendship with some chic then have his wife. Is this right. how many people say a friendship that a wife doesn't agree with should end.

2007-08-11 09:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by cheerbear2500 2 in Marriage & Divorce

:D

2007-08-11 09:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont like her as much now but im,...still gelous...help

2007-08-11 09:43:34 · 24 answers · asked by don 1 in Singles & Dating

I am watching my two year old niece while her mom is on a cruise. The other day, she was playing outside. I went into the house to answer the phone, and she was gone when i got back outside. I have not seen her since. I am scared to go to the police, because I do not want to get into trouble with my sister (I also feel REALLY stupid). What do I do? It's been hot outside, so I'm a little worried.

2007-08-11 09:43:05 · 6 answers · asked by Albi 1 in Family

my boyfriend has been my best friend for 10 years, weve been dating for like 2ish months and i have to break up with him. im 16 and hes 18. i am a competitive figure skater and that is all i do lol. i recently broke my foot and i am still on a break from skating for 2 weeks. my coach is making me break up with him because he is a "distraction" he tries to work with my scheudual but i really only get to see him for like an hour on sundays and like 10 mins a day durring the school year. its really not fair to him but he says he loves me and hes happy with the time he does get to see me. he even watches me at practice but my coach says that he cant and i talked to him and hes said "its skating or me" i train from 4-7, do to school 7:30 till 12(i get to leave early so i can train, on the ice 12:30 - 5, then the gym 5-7 and back on the ice 7-9. so i train 11 and a 1/2 hours 6 days a week and on sundays i train a half day. how do i break up with him and not hurt him?

2007-08-11 09:38:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in May and im trying to tie in my colors with what everybody will wear. My colors are Champagne, Cream, and Chocolate but Im thinking that I should add a color like pink for flowers.My wedding dress is going to be Champagne or Ivory and Champagne. I want to put my bridemaids in Chocolate but I think it might be too dark so I was also thinking about Latte.I dont know what color tux the Groom or the Groomsmen should where. Or should I put in another color besides pink, I need any ideas. I need all of the help that I can get.

2007-08-11 09:37:19 · 19 answers · asked by mochalove 1 in Weddings

How you handle it?

2007-08-11 09:34:48 · 3 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for just under five years and I love my wife for who she is, but her body is important to me, because I'm a man. She completely stopped trying to stay thin once we got married and she's put on at least 2 pounds since then. If she needs me to remain faithful to her sexually, why can't she remain faithful to me by staying thin?

2007-08-11 09:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Question on behalf of my friends and I ramblings when we get together:

So, yahoo personals doesn't work, neither does match.com. Our religious beliefs differ quite a bit from the mainstream of those in our religions, and a few of us have made a choice to not have children. Where is one to find a partner nowadays? When we don't drink heavily, so bars are out?

2007-08-11 09:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anne D 1 in Singles & Dating

we've known eachother for 25 years..been in and out of eachothers lives, but now we're both single.

2007-08-11 09:31:27 · 4 answers · asked by allison 1 in Friends

This is a horrible thing to do--yet I see it all the time. There are too many fish in the sea to consider this behavior acceptable.

Don't tell me it's a great big attraction--again, there are too many people in this world...

2007-08-11 09:28:58 · 19 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7 in Marriage & Divorce

megga intelligent and great at everything you do with average looks, or would you rather be stunningly good looking with not a lot of intelligence. and why did you pick that one?

2007-08-11 09:28:26 · 17 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

my husband wont wear one as he says he doesn't need a piece of metal to remind him of his love for me

2007-08-11 09:22:44 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Details not necessary,, but,, abstract comments appreciated,

thks,,

2007-08-11 09:22:36 · 10 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex broke up with me this week.and well i have been avoiding him since then phone calls and such. just kinda hard to deal with it,i really did care about him. not sure love yet but i cared almost to that point.but we talked now and he said he had to clear his mind he was unsure about somethings which i dont mind really i rather him tell me then drag me along.but hes always said he cares for me. and wants to work things out. but im not sure if i should go back im scared of him leaving me again. i dont know if i should let him in so soon again.

2007-08-11 09:21:58 · 9 answers · asked by Megan M 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby comes back from Iraq in November:)..It feels like its SOOOOOo far away:(

2007-08-11 09:21:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Will he consider you marriage material?
or does it depends?
especially now he tells me he miss me
i could be his fiance
he will consider us being in a relationship one day

never said these things before

kit in mind not sleeping together for 4 years..just slept together after being his friend for all of these years....once

2007-08-11 09:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found this great soup that says, Vegetarian Vegetable Soup with beef..... can I eat it??? if I am a vegetarian????

2007-08-11 09:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he was talking to my brother and kept looking over at me, does that mean he likes me!!!?

2007-08-11 09:20:36 · 21 answers · asked by kristin h 1 in Singles & Dating

My 21st bday is coming up on the 27th of this month and i want to have a party really bad bcuz turning 21 is kinda a big deal. The only problem is that i don't have tooo much money to spend and i have no idea on what to do....Does anyone have any good ideas/themes i can do for my party......oh and i've already had a luau theme before so i want something that everyone is gonna remember!!!!!

2007-08-11 09:19:59 · 1 answers · asked by :D ..... <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships