I've been married for just under five years and I love my wife for who she is, but her body is important to me, because I'm a man. She completely stopped trying to stay thin once we got married and she's put on at least 2 pounds since then. If she needs me to remain faithful to her sexually, why can't she remain faithful to me by staying thin?
2007-08-11 09:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you don't have alot of sense!!
2007-08-11 09:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really agreeing with your strong statement about Valentine's Day being like a conspiracy-theory by the feminists, but would have to say for the record that I think the holiday has become way over-commercialized and especially geared towards the man buying gifts for the woman (see all the jewelry, flowers, etc. ads that pop up right around the holiday). Which is why I do agree with your original point that it seems like the man is having to do most, if not all of, the work, while if the woman does nothing she is pretty much off the hook. Even though it started out as a pagan tradition and its orginal purpose(s) has changed, I think by today's standards it should still be considered a holiday for both the man and the woman to be celebrated and appreciated. And in answer to your question, there are still some women who do get or do something for their man/significant other. My husband and I try to treat Valentine's Day as a day when we can show our appreciation for each other and the fact that we have somebody in our lives that loves us unconditionally, supports us and is a good husband, wife, parent, lover and friend. And usually the best gifts we have given/received were hand-made and thoughtful, not expensive. My favorite gift so far has been two CDs my hubby stayed up all night to make, that were filled with love songs that described how he felt about me and us. I guess that's why even though it has become very commercialized, I still regard it as a holiday worth celebrating, because in this day and age we tend to underappreciate those people in our lives who do the most for us, so it's one extra day we can say "Thank You". Good luck to you!
2016-05-19 23:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u need advice go and talk to her tell her she doesn't know , women expect u to do every thing as a man u should shelter her protect her take care of her by all ways possible so for that u need to be more open and talk to her about the stuff that upset u and then if she loves u she ll do it !!
2007-08-11 09:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what the comic "the Tater" said , He was one crap away from fitting into his pants. Do you know what that means, That means you need to get over the two pounds , women's body's change, and if you are pressuring her , that puts on the pounds . Why are people so shallow.? It simply amazes me
2007-08-11 09:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur wife isn't selfish. u just need to grow-up, ur wife is fine with just 2 pounds. when she gains like 100 pounds in those five years then complain. otherwise grow-up ur wife is sexy, and should be sexy whether she's 125 or 225, she's ur wife and u married her because she made u happy.
don't u dare LOSER!
2007-08-11 09:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by cheerbear2500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I can't believe it 2 pounds she otta be taken to the bridge and dumped. No way you should just walk out on her!!!
Whew I hope he leaves so she can get a real man.
2007-08-11 09:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an a s s. Two pounds? You can't be serious. Hopefully she wakes up and realizes what a jerk she married and moves on.
2007-08-11 09:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, two lbs..... two stinking lbs...... she will break every bone in your body next time she's on top, because of her weight problem, send her to the fat farm!!!!
You need help not her, I feel so sorry that she married you. I bet you make her feel like crap because of this too.
2007-08-11 09:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 pounds...wow...what a whale...
Why are you such an a** is more the question. Everyone gains some weight the older they get, I bet even you will.
2007-08-11 09:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all I think you need to ask why are you so selfish because you should have never married on looks and she would probably be better off without you 2lbs your rude
2007-08-11 09:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't care because she's doing that studly, well-hung neighbor.
He LIKES her a little rounder.
He also is a much better lover than you are.
(not that THAT is too difficult--she told me a loaf of BREAD is a better lover than you are).
2007-08-11 09:44:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋