Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

I met my boyfriend amidst unfavourable circumstances. We went out for a year and a half before my personal problems got in the way. He called it off. I used the year apart to sort myself out and went back to see him about getting together. He says that he's alr moved on and is alr seeing a new girl for a month. This new girl is a friend of mine too (not very close tho'). I love him so much and I believe in fighting for someone that I love. Yet should I give him up to this new girl? I don't wanna be the skank that breaks people up for my own selfish reasons. But he's The One although I also believe in there are other fish in the sea but they will never be him! PLease give me your sincere views. I'm in pain over this.

2007-08-11 21:25:42 · 12 answers · asked by Chick 2 in Singles & Dating

WHEN I FIRST STARTED DATING MY BOYFRIEND, HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND AND I EXCHANGED SOME BAD WORDS AND NOW I SIMPLY NEVER WANT TO HEAR ABOUT HER AGAIN.....THE OTHER DAY HIS SISTER MENTIONED HER NAME IN FRONT OF ME AND I GOT VERY MAD....WAS I WRONG FOR THIS? AND DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THIS PROBLEM?

2007-08-11 21:16:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25. i love a girl who is 5 years younger than me and has no boyfriend told me by herself . I wanna be her boyfriend but i have no idea about how to tell her . i fear she may leave me and can even not be normal friend after i have her know my opinion .
I think i and her are friend now .

she will study in a college far from our city next month . The major she chosed is to be an air hostess . i guess we will seldom meet each other . what i should do ? i
know i would encounter other good girls in the next day ! but now i love her more than any others . i have duty to aid her .but what i can or in another word i had better do to make her future life better?

2007-08-11 21:07:36 · 14 answers · asked by nimble 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just proposed today!!!! I loved it! It was so original and my ring is beautiful! But anyway, we are thinking about setting the date for January or February. My question is: What now? What is the first thing to do? What do i take care of first as far as the planning goes?

2007-08-11 21:07:26 · 22 answers · asked by P.C.E. 3 in Weddings

what do you look for in a girl

2007-08-11 21:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and engagement rings too.
Does just the man buy an engagement ring for when he proposes or does the woman buy one too for the man upon being propsed to?
Or how about the actual wedding ring?
Is it just the plain gold or platinum bands?
what costs more & whats the difference?
What kind of ring is supposed to be an engagement ring?
and how does the guy buy it if he doesnt know the size?
well I guess thats a few questions.
can you help me out with them??

2007-08-11 21:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want to take my kids to six flags with my girlfriend? my kids have met my gf, they like her, i will foot the whole bill, my kids always have fun when they are around my gf!!!

my ex does not like the idea i just want to move on with my life and take my kids to a place so they can have some fun

i have been divorced for almost 2 years

2007-08-11 21:04:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

^^^

2007-08-11 21:03:17 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Jazzy~* 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I've been dating for a couple months keeps giving me mixed signals.

He never calls when he says he'll call. I don't mind if he doesn't want to talk, but don't tell me you're going to call me if you have no desire or intention to. And everytime he does this, he'll text me the next day telling me how he's sorry for not calling + an excuse for not remembering/not calling. This is really starting to piss me off.

People say that not calling when saying you'll call is the classic sign of disinterest. But he keeps telling me that I can call him anytime I want, and to let him know if I ever want to do something together with him.

Is he trying to play games with me?

2007-08-11 21:00:07 · 23 answers · asked by azndrvr 1 in Singles & Dating

wel recently i hav noticed dat m nt able 2 spend as much time wid my bf as b4 n i feel it is comin between us.jst coz of dat, there r misunderstndings regarding little things.mayb coz he is busy most of the time.we used to talk long hours wen we were just friends bt now,everything changed.please give me some advice coz i dnt wanna lose him. i knw he loves me a lot. but m scared dat if someday we have a big fight, we wil be separated forever.....plz help...wat should i do to make him stay wid me forever...

2007-08-11 20:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

Finally me and my guy-friend are bf & gf but we just started having sex 2 days ago but the only problem is that he wants to practice s&m on me during sex which is really scaring me.S&M means Sadism and Masochism.If anyone does'nt know what it means then basicaly it's torturing during sex, look it up.
well anyway i was just wondering has anyone tryed it? because i am so frickin scared to incase it hurts REALLLY BAD.is it that painfull? or should i just go along with it and see how it goes? he's really into which i never knew...weird so i probably don't have a choice...haha :[

2007-08-11 20:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dont have any money so will have to take you out another time soz x
Is he trying to say i dnt really wanna go out with you, or do you think its sincere?

2007-08-11 20:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you are a woman...do you put your new married name on your diploma, or do you keep your maiden name? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Is it up to me?

2007-08-11 20:56:07 · 6 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would she feel it?

please answer

2007-08-11 20:53:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-11 20:50:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I can understand how it would affect them if the affair lead to divorce but if both husband and wife are okay with the other having relations with another and its all kept secret and the marriage is otherwise okay HOW is it a bad thing for the kids?
I am sleeping with someone else besides my husband as he is away with work a lot and I have a high s drive - he has been with other women as well as this is an open marriage - we have no plans to divorce and its very private within the community, soo whats the problem?

2007-08-11 20:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Goldie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys,
My boyfriend and I are celbrating our 2 year of out first date tomorrow and I really would appreciate if I could get some really creative, inexpensive ideas to get him as a gift(s)He is really into batman, superman, spiderman, comic books, etc. I have already bought him many comic books, and A BATMAN t shirt.Is there any other ideas? He is also into working out and he is 28 years old.

Thank you!

2007-08-11 20:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Confused but hopeful 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She turns 18 in two years...what a good car?

2007-08-11 20:43:23 · 18 answers · asked by BudLt 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been separated for 6 months due to a minor assault. He has never done this before though. During the time we've been living apart, my husband often came over to see me. Had tears in his eyes because he felt he couldn't take us being apart. Calls were very frequent & so were the meetings. He would often call in the middle of the night because he missed holding me.

We attended court a week back. He was found not guilty. Now he has completely disappeared. Has even changed his mobile number! I was shocked!! I keep looking at the phone thinking he is going to call. It's difficult to concentrate on work. I can't eat. And when I see the photographs we had taken just last week, with his arm around me, it makes me physically sick.

What's going on?

2007-08-11 20:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship.....well i kinda broke up with him because he just told me he has been flirting with other girls and he's also been checking out other girls
even though we promised eachother we would never do that he still did it
he lied to me.......but i feel really stupid for breaking up with him over that
is that stupid??????
idk....cuz i really love him so so so much
i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him
i think i might of made the biggest mistake ever
what should i do?????????

2007-08-11 20:35:37 · 15 answers · asked by dr2813 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think 56 is too old to date if person is 44

2007-08-11 20:32:57 · 22 answers · asked by LedZeppelin4ever1955 3 in Singles & Dating

someone who really cares, polite, thoughtful.. etc.


im jus wondering bcuz im a "nice guy" and jus wondering if girls are looking for that in a guy.

2007-08-11 20:30:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

6/14/2007 5:07:56 PM

Its no late at night fer me ta think that hard..lol

2007-08-11 20:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by Kat Videl 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi! Can anyone recommend some reputable sites where I can design and create my own diamond engagment ring?

2007-08-11 20:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i feel so upset at myself.

i was with this guy for 7 years. we've recently broke up. he is seeing a girl within our circle of friends. i've been so hurt that i havent been picking up his phone calls,.. and i even changed my cell phone number..

yesterday night, i got sooo drunk. i called his phone on a blocked/ private number. he picked up.. we spoke. i told him i loved him, and missed him. i even said how hurt i was over him seeing this girl.
he told me the same. but things just didnt work out. i cant explain it.. i love him but i know its over. and i feel so mad that i made that call. he wanted my new cell number but i didnt give it to him. i feel like crap.

when will this end.??

2007-08-11 20:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, since highschool. I am ready to get married, he seems to be in no hurry in purposing to me.... at all, even though I am ready. We do not live togethere, and I am now ready for our relationship to go to the next level. What should I do?

2007-08-11 20:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by japjess83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 20 years old christian man and i want to get married .everyone are saying i should cross 21 then only i can get married but in christian marriage act they say if its aminor a parent can sigh and it can be legal.is it true? but i am 20 years old and this coming may 2008 i will be 21 whats teh big difference already i have been a matured guy and if i get married is it legal..please give me some suggestions what is the rule according to christian marriage act a guy 20 years old can get married is it legal?

2007-08-11 20:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by moses 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in prison, since March10/06, because of a bunch of DUIs he got in 2001. I talk to him on the phone maybe 1 x a month. When he first went in he wrote me 2-3 times a week. And I got calls about once a week. Since last October I am lucky to get a letter a month....... Do you think he is writing his x or someone else? Or do you think it's over? He says he loves me, but I feel he has changed, He had a triple bypass while in there 01/10/07, but he wasn't writing way before that........I send him about 30 dollars a month, for stamps, snacks, etc. This month I only sent him 10 dollars. My daughter says I shouldnt send him anything! Especially since he isn't writing to me. I feel very depressed all the time cause of this.........Yes I talked with him about this but I don't really know what to think, I just have a bad feeling about our relationship. Is there some way I can find out if he is talking to other people? Maybe someone could volunteer to send him a letter for me?

2007-08-11 20:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by Dianne L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say you have put on a little bit of weight since you have had your third child. Granted, your family is use to seeing you small figured. Your parents whom you haven't seen in awhile got word on the weight gain (which doesn't look bad), and quoted to you that they seen your sibling on the news and how good your sibling look and, then all in the same breath they say how they heard you have gotten big. Would that hurt your feelings? Also when you told your man about it he states that well you look good when you want too, and that you don't try to look good like you do at work when your out with me. Would this statement hurt you? Wouldn't you think that he is agreeing to you looking worse or that your sibling looks better than you?

2007-08-11 20:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by Promise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a woman with self-respect, independent, picky on who i'm interested in and i'm very honest and decisive with my feelings. If I don't feel it, I know it's not worth it and i can easily say "no" but if there's that "something", i'll go for it.

Typical story: we've been close friends for about 3 years; i was always the girl that "opened him up" - he felt comfortable w. me and could easily tell me things compared to other people where they would question him about things. He's a "shy" type with girls and keeps to himself with his own personal matters but open and outgoing with others. Since we've met he's always adored/respected me. Earlier this year, i realized i felt the same way and he did, so we kinda "got together" (kisses/cuddles) and I was his first kiss (we're in our 20's). But after this, we decided not to rush and become friends. About a month later, he lost his friend and everything went downhill with out relatiionship. He's been acting so strange and it's hard to be patient and understanding with his behavior. I'll go through ups and downs and some days i'll "hate" him but i really can't "hate" him, i'll just love him no matter what...

This is the first time i haven't "talked" to him for this long in 3 years - i don't want a relationship now or anytime soon but I'VE REALIZED WHAT A BLESSING HE IS to my life and i just plain miss him. I think i'm going crazy but i feel that what we had was real - our relationship as friends AND beyond was the most precious and special gift God has given me. I never realized that he was THAT important and that i need him - he was ALWAYS there, he accepted and loved me for what i was, never let me down, very loyal and trustworthy, someone i can talk to and who can understand every piece of me.

Technically, he wasn't my first kiss but with him, i've felt like he was the one that gave me first one because it was soo real and i've NEVER been kissed like that. He's not good at expressing himself but his little actions show me how much he cares...


Why do i feel this way about him?

2007-08-11 20:07:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce