Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

2007-08-11 20:04:31 · 14 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past 3 months everything has been going perfectly with my girlfriend and all a sudden the past two days i've just felt really wierd. Like out of no where I kinda lost interest in her. I defently dont want to dump her or take a break and i want things to go back the way they were before 2 days where i was abosolutely happy to be with her. Is this just a phase? Someone please help

2007-08-11 20:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by herb A 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 1 1/2 years and today it's in shambles, with a possible divorce being just around the corner. His family can't stand me any longer & mine never liked him to begin with.

Problem is, I still love him, and the thought of losing him hurts so badly that I can't breathe. What do I do to work at this?

2007-08-11 20:01:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a person who I don't even talk to anymore and haven't talked to since a year ago, apologize a year later for something that really wasn't anything that was more my fault why they did it, and not say anything else?

2007-08-11 19:59:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were telling each other our secrets and she told me a guy we know from our local High School raped her. She started crying and I didn't know what to do. I suggested telling her mother or calling a kids helpline but she started screaming at me and told me to go home. I haven't spoken to her since and I'm really worried about her. She told me not to tell anyone. Do I respect her wishes or tell someone? Im really worried and confused.

2007-08-11 19:57:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am going through some difficult times and im looking for someone that i would be able to talk to and help me through my issue... the issue is my mother.. she is baicly dieing she has been having small anurisms on her brain sence 2005 and the dr's are just now starting to do extensive research... anyway im tearing up so if u can help me hit me up.. thanks

2007-08-11 19:50:10 · 4 answers · asked by USELESS_WINGS 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-11 19:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend was recently divored,so he wants to break up so he could find himself,afterall he spent a lot of years in his marriage and after the divorce he jumped into a relationship with me now after four months,he needs time to himself. my question is what is the best way for me to give him space because, I believe I fell in love with him but his heart was still with her.but now it's hard for me to move on. I have a hard time moving on,He acts like he want to keep me on the side but at the same time see what else is out there,this is how i feel.but i really want to back all the way up and give him space, but at the same time i want him to come back to me. what should i do

2007-08-11 19:36:13 · 22 answers · asked by brown skin 1 in Singles & Dating

Caught my boyfriend of 7 years (child together) writing his ex from 10 years ago and said

"Even though many years have passed, there has been a part of my mind that youve never strayed from. Ive had dreams about you and when we parted it was like a piece of me died. I'm convinced that if it wasnt for your parents despising me we would still be together I wanted to marry you, even when i was 15 lol But even to this day i knew you were the one. I remember not long after we split I begged you to take me back lol but you wouldn't But like I said, youll always take up a piece of my heart. And who knows maybe in the future if it was truly destined to be someday we could finish what we started all I know is I put all that time into our relationship, and the other guy ended up with you."

She is happily married and we were happy. Now he's begging for me to take him back & nothin he said was true. If it was any of you men writting an ex with these words, what would your intentions be?Thx

2007-08-11 19:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He recently started a new job as an over the road truck driver. Since then, all the care of our children has became my responsibility(I'm a stay at home mom). Hes home around twice a month sometimes more sometimes less. When he is home, he doesnt take any responsibility for the kids, doesnt help me do anything around the house, and complains when i ask him to help me. How can I make him understand that i need some time where im not the one in charge all the time, that i need him to step up and help out. Im not expecting him not to come in and scrub floors or anything just take the kids for a couple hours so i have some down time, some time for me?

2007-08-11 19:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and i never exactly met him...but i talk 2 him all the time....(i met him through a mutual friend) what can i do, or i dont kno for him. i cant go visit him hes too far and he cant come here lol...so any ideas please.. thanks

2007-08-11 19:33:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy....i cant get over him. ive liked him for way too long. he use to like me and i dont think he does anymore

2007-08-11 19:32:49 · 2 answers · asked by hug-whore 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like my step-sisters best friend, Stephanie, I have posted 2 more questions on this topic, and haven't really got the answer I am looking for. My step-sister won't help me, says to ask her myself. I have no experience with dealing with girls,so could someone give me somewhat like a brief summary of what I would say to her. I do not want to look stupid in front of her or anyone else around her. Help is appreciated.

2007-08-11 19:30:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not that we have but my husband and i are talking about if it's considered cheating if you "swap" with another couple and it's consitual.. what do you think..

2007-08-11 19:30:02 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22 and never felt chemistry with anyone

2007-08-11 19:23:30 · 36 answers · asked by isuckatphysics 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 19:20:46 · 8 answers · asked by sanjiv r 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad is only 17 years older than me and my girlfriend is 3 years older than me and so i have a young family.....

and i see them always going out together ( actually i was afraid of that at first so i spied at them.) but they still think i dont know their secrets.......

Suggestions on what should I do????

2007-08-11 19:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When i was three..my mom kicked out my dad..he was an alcoholic..&& my mom was doing what she thought was best..they were never technically married..but he did along the line..ask for her hand in marriage..then again..he was drunk..for about 6 years..he only vistited..probably..about 15 times..at least..&& everytime..he was drunk..he would spend the night..then leave the next morning before we could say bye..well..a few years ago..we moved..&& didnt tell my father..their wasnt a way to get a hold of him..but after a year && a half later..he was in my room..sober..for 2 years..&& back in my life..now..i am 14 years old..&& i JUST found out a week ago..my dad is married..&& has two girls...I am so confused..I jus need to know..should i be mad at him..or not??..or upset..jus something..i am just soo confused..&& i got highschool coming..

2007-08-11 19:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by Secret Ninja 1 in Family

2007-08-11 19:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so my question is...Why do Girls like dating bad boys. I mean, I understand u girls like a guy who is not predictable & easy & u want a challenge, but is it really worth the sorrow of displeasure in the long run? Personally I do feel like I am one of those good guys but likes a challenge & wants 2 be with a girl who knows wut she wants. See the thing is I like this girl and in my eyes she is pretty, What is the best method to take if you like a girl who has low self esteem about herself, is it worth trying to change her? I mean she does like me so thats good and she wants reassurance from me, but I cannot believe how much her ex b/f broke her down mentally with his stupid ways, & personally wen girls say its a challenge or they wanna confident guy. To be honest with u guys, I have met Michael Jordan at his bball camp, yet I always heard he was a jerk on the court because he had desire to win and knew what he wanted, but off the court, seriously one of the most genuine ppl out there

2007-08-11 19:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Just Ask 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, so my question is...Why do Girls like dating bad boys. I mean, I understand u girls like a guy who is not predictable & easy & u want a challenge, but is it really worth the sorrow of displeasure in the long run? Personally I do feel like I am one of those good guys but likes a challenge & wants 2 be with a girl who knows wut she wants. See the thing is I like this girl and in my eyes she is pretty, What is the best method to take if you like a girl who has low self esteem about herself, is it worth trying to change her? I mean she does like me so thats good and she wants reassurance from me, but I cannot believe how much her ex b/f broke her down mentally with his stupid ways, & personally wen girls say its a challenge or they wanna confident guy. To be honest with u guys, I have met Michael Jordan at his bball camp, yet I always heard he was a jerk on the court because he had desire to win and knew what he wanted, but off the court, seriously one of the most genuine ppl out there

2007-08-11 19:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Just Ask 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this friend of mine that I've known for 4 years or so. We used to talk and chill easily. Now we are in high school and he got really competitive with grades. Whenever he beats me at something like that, he kind of shoves it in my face, and not as a joke. He complains to me with a kind of "omg i have so much to do" attitude, even though I have a busier schedule and I don't complain. We seem to be only able to talk about grades and school now. This has built up over the years and I can't take it anymore. I feel really pissed and I feel like I can't lose to him no matter what. Should I be this angry? The feeling of him bragging and talking down to me just pisses the crap out of me. What should I do? = /

2007-08-11 19:05:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not a flirt,very simple person,always nice to him and treat him with compassion.When im sexy for him he treats me bad so i quickly become simple girl again.When im simple girl he wants me to be sexy?

2007-08-11 19:03:34 · 1 answers · asked by xxmelonie74xx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 19:01:13 · 34 answers · asked by syedmohd05 1 in Singles & Dating

if your legally married to someone ,but separeted and that person marries someone else . lawfully what can i do about that?

2007-08-11 19:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my great granmother past away a long time ago and she told me she was going to leave me all her money when she departs but the problem is her money and bank is in matamoros mexico and other problem we never settled this with a lawyer she just told me that all her money is mine when she departs do i need to get a lawyer for this yes or no?

2007-08-11 18:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was not unfaithful she said i have all the call signs of having cheated

2007-08-11 18:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she recently left him and has snowballed their 3 children into thinking that she isnt the whore that she really is. BTW one of those children arent even his and they were married!

The two broke up their "christain" families and I saw them at a Christain event tonight?

Would you have said anything to them?

2007-08-11 18:45:59 · 28 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I hav an ID crissis after my "ex" broke me few month ago, now i feel very empty.... what should i do?

2007-08-11 18:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by Doli 2 in Singles & Dating

Your "BFF" won't return your phone calls, myspace comments, and IMs- Would you be mad?

2007-08-11 18:43:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends